Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

So what's the solution breh? It's better NOT to keep the peace/quiet & fight to stand your ground.

Some women will respect you for not being a doormat but others will hate and despise you.

It's a tricky slope even the bible says its better to be on the corner of a rooftop than to live with a quarrelsome woman

Honestly as I get older I can't deal with it. My job is stressful enough I don't need some chick stressing me out etc.

 

[MikelArteta]

Breh...


The difference a chest up picture can make from a full body one is ridiculous. Goddamn...

always face time a lot of these chicks still using pre covid photos

 

[MikelArteta]

I’m sure red flags been there for months you just didn’t pick up on it. That happen to me now that I look back.

Women always plan in advance. They talk to their mom, their girlfriends, they cry. You'll see them getting more angry over the littlest things that were ok before. It's like you being cool with your manager then suddenly they want you gone and suddenly now coming into work at 8:01 you're in HR getting written up for being late.

The same with chicks, all the times I've had them thangs dropped on me I could "sense it" but they'd calm my fears or whatever. They suddenly busy and all that ish. It's why many women take back cheaters because they weren't able to emotionally cut the ties they were one up so to speak.

Only the dumb chicks who are "testing" I just wanted to breakup to see if you'd fight me or ish

 

[Rich Spirit]

Ran across a chick I was dating like 10 years ago. She confessed to me that time she suggested that we take a break, she had gotten pregnant during the break and now has a daughter and she's no longer with the father. I just wished her well and keep it moving.

Dodged a bullet right there

 

[MikelArteta]

Ran across a chick I was dating like 10 years ago. She confessed to me that time she suggested that we take a break, she had gotten pregnant during the break and now has a daughter and she's no longer with the father. I just wished her well and keep it moving.

Dodged a bullet right there

those little miracles

Anytime something doesn't work out with a chick count it as a blessing

 

[VertigoKnight]

I do!

How do you find it?

I’ve noticed recently a surge of shall we say Hinge type women have popped up on it. Which is cool.

I’ve got a few chicks on there I’ve met up with. I do like that conversation and clear expectations are upfront on there without any of the sleaze.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Why are dudes such simps? Shyts disgusting, Ill admit i was guilty of being a simp in the sense I took this woman's shyt because I was depressed, suicidal and didn't know no better. But I had a dude I used to casually vent to about shyt that went and snitched everything we were talking about to my ex to appear like the sensitive guy to her or some shyt. Then this other cat who I actually knew and talked to... would talk shyt to me for fukking with the broad then he found out what I was going through mentally then started sending selfies my ex took of herself acting like they were talking telling me to kill myself and did the same thing as the first dude. Later on out of curiosity I scoped my ex's page and that guy was all on there heart liking all her pics.

I've since cut ties with mad people and only keep around some solid people I could trust and are truly beneficial to where I want to be in life. But man, yall gotta be careful out there when you're fukking with beautiful women. Dudes get funny.

Thats why I keep the venting to this thread, Can’t be revealing too much to other guys you know sadly. Solid and I mean real solid guys are a rarity these days.

I can say for myself if someone tells me something in confidence. I won’t be blabbing to anyone else we know about it. That includes pillow talk with chicks I’m seeing. As I’ve had that done and know how sickening it can be.

I’ve said before discretion is a dying expectation with lot of people.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Started talking to this chick on hinge today, meeting up tomorrow


All that back and forth is for the birds.......ATTACK

Yea after like 3 messages I get the number. I don’t even stress over girls I Match with and stop responding or girls who unmatch.

Got like 16 matches in two weeks and 3 numbers. What’s meant to be will be I guess. All the numbers I got were within the first couple days.

havwnt even tried bumble yet just hinge for now. Probably eventually run out of women on hinge.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yea after like 3 messages I get the number. I don’t even stress over girls I Match with and stop responding or girls who unmatch.

Got like 16 matches in two weeks and 3 numbers. What’s meant to be will be I guess. All the numbers I got were within the first couple days.

havwnt even tried bumble yet just hinge for now. Probably eventually run out of women on hinge.

yeah same, once I get the number I unmatch, if chick ain’t replying I unmatch. One word answers unmatch

 

[InGodWeTrust]

A lot of fine bad bytches out here that have time to video chat and text me on Valentine’s Day smh.

These women really might die alone.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

kickback tips?

 

[Serious]

Usually it’s the man trying to keep the peace which leads to him slowly losing himself.

It happened to me in my past relationships. I wanted peace and quiet, so I'd just do what she asks (within reason) and get her off my back

Sounds pathetic writing that out, but a lot of men are in the same situation.

These days. I’ll tell any of my ladies what’s what.

Truth is with women like that, they really respect and want conflict, smh.

They see you as avoiding that conflict as being weak, avoidant and passive.

Why are women like this @Pseudonym

 

[Serious]

How the fukk do these cats on some of these dating apps that have live stream capabilities get on these chicks streams and just watch her ramble or idle around while desperately vying to get her attention amongst like a hundred plus other dudes???





And half the time the females be in an entirely different country sometimes. Am I missing something here? Is that a way to eat or is it just a simp space?


Like it's so damn shallow. The bytch literally just being fed attention like a damn buffet.

Don't hurt your head, it's less competition for you.

 

[Serious]

So what's the solution breh? It's better NOT to keep the peace/quiet & fight to stand your ground.

Depends on you....

Either bring her the drama she seeks and respect or move the fukk on...

That passive / avoiding argument shyt annoys, the fukk out of them because they seek that thrill and messiness.

Good thing is, there's women out there that don't want that drama, find them.

Women always plan in advance. They talk to their mom, their girlfriends, they cry. You'll see them getting more angry over the littlest things that were ok before. It's like you being cool with your manager then suddenly they want you gone and suddenly now coming into work at 8:01 you're in HR getting written up for being late.

The same with chicks, all the times I've had them thangs dropped on me I could "sense it" but they'd calm my fears or whatever. They suddenly busy and all that ish. It's why many women take back cheaters because they weren't able to emotionally cut the ties they were one up so to speak.

Only the dumb chicks who are "testing" I just wanted to breakup to see if you'd fight me or ish

The fact that i've heard this shyt, verbatim

I'm a grown ass man, stop playing with me.


As to the rest of the story, when I catch women moving funny, I release them before they can do me. I set them up, like everything is normal, then bam, I cut ties.

 

[DaRealness]

Speaking of kink any brehs on here use FEELD?

I just took a look at that app.

Nothing better than a woman that's honest and knows what time it is. Straight up, no bullshyt. I've seen one or two "one night stands are not for me" Yeah like people signed up on that app to talk politics and get married. FOH.

I'm surprised of the number of black women I seen on there.

Just make sure you choose the right options and make it clear what you're about, cos some folks on there are

If it ain't heterosexual and/or 'FFM' then