Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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like chicks are adamant abt being w ppl they feel they don’t have to “mom” but then why do they do it so much?

why do dudes get into relationships and get weak?

why are so many men robbed of their manhood in relationships? is it the doing of the woman emasculating him, or himself?
 

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so like when chicks call you daddy, do they really be meaning it? like they really looking for a father figure type? (not literally ofc)

been wondering a lot abt the whole dominant submissive stuff lately :jbhmm:

Possible Pseudo Oedipus complex, maybe? But then again you don't see nikkas backshotting booty cheeks and screaming mama.

Probably be best to just chop it up to the game. Some things can't be explained.
 

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like chicks are adamant abt being w ppl they feel they don’t have to “mom” but then why do they do it so much?

why do dudes get into relationships and get weak?

why are so many men robbed of their manhood in relationships? is it the doing of the woman emasculating him, or himself?

Usually it’s the man trying to keep the peace which leads to him slowly losing himself.

It happened to me in my past relationships. I wanted peace and quiet, so I'd just do what she asks (within reason) and get her off my back

Sounds pathetic writing that out, but a lot of men are in the same situation.

These days. I’ll tell any of my ladies what’s what.
 

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so like when chicks call you daddy, do they really be meaning it? like they really looking for a father figure type? (not literally ofc)

been wondering a lot abt the whole dominant submissive stuff lately :jbhmm:

It’s more a care thing I’ve found. They feel safe with you and want to show their submission sexually.

I know a few chicks into the D/s thing and I’ve learnt a fair bit.
 

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so like when chicks call you daddy, do they really be meaning it? like they really looking for a father figure type? (not literally ofc)

been wondering a lot abt the whole dominant submissive stuff lately :jbhmm:

Subconsciously all women want to be dominated, the "daddy" thing is more of them wanting a domineering male figure.
 

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Usually it’s the man trying to keep the peace which leads to him slowly losing himself.

It happened to me in my past relationships. I wanted peace and quiet, so I'd just do what she asks (within reason) and get her off my back

Sounds pathetic writing that out, but a lot of men are in the same situation.

These days. I’ll tell any of my ladies what’s what.

So what's the solution breh? It's better NOT to keep the peace/quiet & fight to stand your ground.
 

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Usually it’s the man trying to keep the peace which leads to him slowly losing himself.

It happened to me in my past relationships. I wanted peace and quiet, so I'd just do what she asks (within reason) and get her off my back

Sounds pathetic writing that out, but a lot of men are in the same situation.

These days. I’ll tell any of my ladies what’s what.

Female manipulation 101.

Men are naturally acclimated to peace and placidity and women will basically engineer you to be somebody else by keeping up mess (or makeup breakup) and forcing you to conform to whatever it is she wants in order to keep her happy. It's a gradual process of breaking you down. And most guys let it happen because they'd rather not be alone.

Sad shyt.
 

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So what's the solution breh? It's better NOT to keep the peace/quiet & fight to stand your ground.

Well, don't lose yourself in a relationship and become complacent, which is what ends up happening. You don't have to fight but being firm can go a long way to retaining equal balance in a relationship.
 

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Why are dudes such simps? Shyts disgusting, Ill admit i was guilty of being a simp in the sense I took this woman's shyt because I was depressed, suicidal and didn't know no better. But I had a dude I used to casually vent to about shyt that went and snitched everything we were talking about to my ex to appear like the sensitive guy to her or some shyt. Then this other cat who I actually knew and talked to... would talk shyt to me for fukking with the broad then he found out what I was going through mentally then started sending me selfies my ex took of herself acting like they were talking telling me to kill myself and did the same thing as the first dude. Later on out of curiosity I scoped my ex's page and that guy was all on there heart liking all her pics.

I've since cut ties with mad people and only keep around some solid people I could trust and are truly beneficial to where I want to be in life. But man, yall gotta be careful out there when you're fukking with beautiful women. Dudes get funny.
 
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How the fukk do these cats on some of these dating apps that have live stream capabilities get on these chicks streams and just watch her ramble or idle around while desperately vying to get her attention amongst like a hundred plus other dudes???

:why:



And half the time the females be in an entirely different country sometimes. Am I missing something here? Is that a way to eat or is it just a simp space?


Like it's so damn shallow. The bytch literally just being fed attention like a damn buffet.
Dumbass motherfukkers, that dude who told me to kill myself would do this but would send them money and shyt. He actually bragged to me about paying for these hoes' groceries and rent yet they live clear across the state :mindblown: like wtf is going on today? When did pimping become purely transactional???
 

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Why are dudes such simps? Shyts disgusting, Ill admit i was guilty of being a simp in the sense I took this woman's shyt because I was depressed, suicidal and didn't know no better. But I had a dude I used to casually vent to about shyt that went and snitched everything we were talking about to my ex to appear like the sensitive guy to her or some shyt. Then this other cat who I actually knew and talked to... would talk shyt to me for fukking with the broad then he found out what I was going through mentally then started sending selfies my ex took of herself acting like they were talking telling me to kill myself and did the same thing as the first dude. Later on out of curiosity I scoped my ex's page and that guy was all on there heart liking all her pics.

I've since cut ties with mad people and only keep around some solid people I could trust and are truly beneficial to where I want to be in life. But man, yall gotta be careful out there when you're fukking with beautiful women. Dudes get funny.

I was once a former simp as well. Simping leads to empty wallets and broken hearts.
 
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