Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[winb83]

I have no problem with that saying.

I just see your posts and I see someone that got hurt. In a situation like your's there are two ways to handle it, be more open, vulnerable and compassionate or close up, be harsh and bitter. I'm guessing you've adopted the latter. I'm not trying to tell you you're wrong for being that way cuz you're not, I just want you to know there's more. There are people on the coli that go harder than you but I get at you cuz we both from the gta.

I've been to other cities and I think Toronto got some of the best women. No one should be wasting their time talking about how women are fukked up. Everyone is fukked up, just accept people for who they are and don't judge em. Find the fukked up women, and move past em to something you like.

there's a game being played out here. there's rules of engagement to it. the game is not played on one of two extremes its somewhere in the middle.
some guys are open vulnerable and compassionate and the first girl they meet is a good person and they marry her and live happily ever after.

every girl out here isn't a good person in fact most people aren't good people because self preservation and looking out for your own self interest will often place you at odds with the being good.

in the real world you have 4 main paths. don't play the game at all, learn the rules of the game and play accordingly, get fukked over, or idealize everything and play against the rules hoping you get lucky cause if you don't see the previous path.

 

[MikeyK]

there's a game being played out here. there's rules of engagement to it. the game is not played on one of two extremes its somewhere in the middle.
some guys are open vulnerable and compassionate and the first girl they meet is a good person and they marry her and live happily ever after.

every girl out here isn't a good person in fact most people aren't good people because self preservation and looking out for your own self interest will often place you at odds with the being good.

in the real world you have 4 main paths. don't play the game at all, learn the rules of the game and play accordingly, get fukked over, or idealize everything and play against the rules hoping you get lucky cause if you don't see the previous path.

Are you a good person?

 

[MikelArteta]

When you get emails,texts,etc or any form of contacts from a female(in my case emails) who disrespected you in some way what would be a good way to respond.

Should I email back

"Can you please not contact me again"

or "Don't contact me again"

Which do you think sounds better?

Btw i never dated or fukked this chick. She just pisssed me off because for helping her i ended up getting an F as my physics grade this past semester when it ended in December of 2012 because as i asked the teacher when i saw my grade, he said 2 or so answers we had were similar and even some mistakes where the same.

The day i forwarded the email to her of what the professor told me she asked me "What am i trying to say' and said the "it was the other people in the class that were cheating!!"(she was right it was an old professor who had ppl walking across the room in front of him cheating,etc its a long story)

Anyway though females showing lack of accountability or even the nerve to say sorry. When she added in the message why am i using "her name" and to talk to him about "myself" (she thought i asked about______because the email I forwarded to her the professor used both of our names.

I told her that I never emaiiled the professor to ask about her. All I did was ask him why I received an F and repeated that he used her name herself. She then replied back with "K"

And a couple days after the Spring Semester started and she is in another physics class while i am focusing on calculus 2, this Thursday morning there was an email by her asking if i have the "physics textbook". The same physics textbook i gave to her in a PDF file back in August

But back to the question should i say "Please don't contact me again. Thanks"

or "Don't contact me again....Thanks"



remember its by email

ppl say ignoring, but ignoring doesnt work with some girls, im off the key to tell em straight up delete my number and dont contact me again

paste old text convos of a girl who didnt get my ignoring meant to leave me alone

when you say this though it has to be final, no drunk text, no keeping in your phone, its final dont turn back like lots wife.

every girl i talk to knows when i say its done its done, they will never get a text from me, a phone call a email nothing.

 

[MikelArteta]

I have no problem with that saying.

I just see your posts and I see someone that got hurt. In a situation like your's there are two ways to handle it, be more open, vulnerable and compassionate or close up, be harsh and bitter. I'm guessing you've adopted the latter. I'm not trying to tell you you're wrong for being that way cuz you're not, I just want you to know there's more. There are people on the coli that go harder than you but I get at you cuz we both from the gta.

I've been to other cities and I think Toronto got some of the best women. No one should be wasting their time talking about how women are fukked up. Everyone is fukked up, just accept people for who they are and don't judge em. Find the fukked up women, and move past em to something you like.

im not harsh or bitter, breh i just went to cuba 2 weeks ago and had the time of my life, im going away again in a few months, im not sitting around moping and crying or throwing stuff at the wall im enjoying life.

Best women? in terms of what looks? expand your horizon looks is not the end with all, i've dated models, i've dated women from around the world, hell my two longest relationships in my life was with a russian and a persian girl, Everyone is not f'd up, im not f'd up,. I do accept people for who they are, not loyal, liars, cheaters, a me first attitude, not appreciating others, manipulators and users.

 

[MikelArteta]

ppl say ignoring, but ignoring doesnt work with some girls, im off the key to tell em straight up delete my number and dont contact me again

paste old text convos of a girl who didnt get my ignoring meant to leave me alone

when you say this though it has to be final, no drunk text, no keeping in your phone, its final dont turn back like lots wife.

every girl i talk to knows when i say its done its done, they will never get a text from me, a phone call a email nothing.

i even take it to the extreme i change my number twice a year, been doing it since i was 18, i wish i could see the look on chicks faces when they got that black eye, or found out they got chlaymydia by their bf and when they call me thinking of the good times with reincar and get this number has been disconnected

i remember this chick hunted me down on fb after i changed my number

 

[winb83]

i even take it to the extreme i change my number twice a year, been doing it since i was 18, i wish i could see the look on chicks faces when they got that black eye, or found out they got chlaymydia by their bf and when they call me thinking of the good times with reincar and get this number has been disconnected

i remember this chick hunted me down on fb after i changed my number

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[winb83]

Are you a good person?

No. for the most part there's no reward for being a good person in modern society. that in and of itself isn't so bad the bad part is being a good person will typically get you punished. people love to use, abuse, and take advantage of good people.

I put myself first now and no good person does that because doing so will often cause you to walk away from the good option for the sake of self interest or preservation.

then again just because you aren't a good person doesn't make you one of two extremes and thus a bad person. shades of grey and all.

 

[Malta]

for men and women both, in life no matter how much money you have, how attractive you are etc., there will only be a few peple of the opposite sex in your whole life time who actually care about you

my life keeps changing ever since i got back from my vacation ive felt totally different, then i almost died in a car accident a few dies ago literally saw my life flash through my eyes,

damn bro. that's real. I almost died a couple of years ago too. My camaro flipped and fell off a bridge upside down. I used be a huge networker and 'known', but I realized I had to cut a lot of people off. (quality over quantity). I view life a whole lot differently now. Not very many get to see their morality flash before their eyes but when it does....you change for sure.

I don't even think I want to get married, I think I just want to see the rest of the planet before I go.

I almost died a few years back as well, it does change your outlook on life, makes you appreciate it more. Them clouds look a whole lot different, just about every meal turns into the best meal ever and you appreciate your loved ones even more.

 

[rapdonttweet]

No one should be wasting their time talking about how women are fukked up. Everyone is fukked up, just accept people for who they are and don't judge em. Find the fukked up women, and move past em to something you like.

I agree with this. There's a little too much ranting about females going on. At the end of the day, we can't change a damn thing about fukked up women. Instead of wasting time complaining about them, I'd much rather spend my time in this thread sharing useful advice on how to avoid said fukked up women.

i even take it to the extreme i change my number twice a year, been doing it since i was 18, i wish i could see the look on chicks faces when they got that black eye, or found out they got chlaymydia by their bf and when they call me thinking of the good times with reincar and get this number has been disconnected

i remember this chick hunted me down on fb after i changed my number

You're actually changing your number? You're doing too much. If you find yourself acting rude towards someone, that person has affected you on some level. I think that's where MikeyK is sensing the anger issues from.

Ever see a chick that's not into a guy at all? She isn't mean, she doesn't block his number or tell him to fukk off, she just ignores him. That's the definition of true apathy and unintentionally the biggest ether you can be giving someone.

 

[FLASH]

Live your life. Be genuinely happy. People will gravitate toward you.

 

[Jesus]

I agree with this. There's a little too much ranting about females going on. At the end of the day, we can't change a damn thing about fukked up women. Instead of wasting time complaining about them, I'd much rather spend my time in this thread sharing useful advice on how to avoid said fukked up women.



You're actually changing your number? You're doing too much. If you find yourself acting rude towards someone, that person has affected you on some level. I think that's where MikeyK is sensing the anger issues from.

Ever see a chick that's not into a guy at all? She isn't mean, she doesn't block his number or tell him to fukk off, she just ignores him. That's the definition of true apathy and unintentionally the biggest ether you can be giving someone.

:wow2:

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

When i say ignore... i'm not talking about for a few hours.


I'm talking for about two months --- to forever.


Why did you cave in and respond so soon? I think you're naturally a very kind person and it agitates you that you can't leave people in the dust, even when you put your collegiate career on the line for them. It's just a phone number. You know that she may send you several texts here and there expressing her angsts, but that is usually the jyst of it (experience agrees with me on this one; she'll find somebody else to fukk around with or annoy. trust me).


I understand that in college, you do spend copious amounts of time dolo and that can lead to over analyzing certain situations, but...


could you have at least "delayed" your responses if you were to answer?


Jesus - that was fast.


Your either too eager to get out an answer and get closure or you have too much compassion.


You gotta be more sensible with us mane.


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[winb83]

I agree with this. There's a little too much ranting about females going on. At the end of the day, we can't change a damn thing about fukked up women. Instead of wasting time complaining about them, I'd much rather spend my time in this thread sharing useful advice on how to avoid said fukked up women.



You're actually changing your number? You're doing too much. If you find yourself acting rude towards someone, that person has affected you on some level. I think that's where MikeyK is sensing the anger issues from.

Ever see a chick that's not into a guy at all? She isn't mean, she doesn't block his number or tell him to fukk off, she just ignores him. That's the definition of true apathy and unintentionally the biggest ether you can be giving someone.

Women don't typically ignore men they aren't into at the level you're suggesting. Those guys are the male friends that bytch about nonsense such as the friend zone or they're the simps of the world. Women know there's some value and utility in keeping guys like that around. They're master manipulators. Those guys get used for ego boost, attention, favors, money.

The whole concept people call the friend zone (which is really she's just not into you rejection) contradicts what you're saying. If a woman is really ignoring you then you probably pissed her off.

 

[MikelArteta]

I agree with this. There's a little too much ranting about females going on. At the end of the day, we can't change a damn thing about fukked up women. Instead of wasting time complaining about them, I'd much rather spend my time in this thread sharing useful advice on how to avoid said fukked up women.



You're actually changing your number? You're doing too much. If you find yourself acting rude towards someone, that person has affected you on some level. I think that's where MikeyK is sensing the anger issues from.

Ever see a chick that's not into a guy at all? She isn't mean, she doesn't block his number or tell him to fukk off, she just ignores him. That's the definition of true apathy and unintentionally the biggest ether you can be giving someone.

ive been changing my number twice a year for like 6 years now, i tell it how it is, there is no anger issues. If I dont want to talk to somoene anymore I let it be known i dont have to play these ignore games and hope they pick up the vibe, i dont give a damn what any women thinks about me who isnt my mom,, they cant think in their little feeble mind that im a "jerk" or "angry at them" when in reality nope, in reality when i ct soeone out of my life ill let em know to not contact me again.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Check that girls that act like men thread. The manginas are going to work in there.