Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CASHAPP]

Sorry, I'm not buying it for a second. No one is being unfair to single moms. All I hear about is a woman's "right" to choose. A woman's "right" to put her career ahead of raising her children, even if her family is financially stable. You also have the "right" to use birth control if you aren't married (free in most cases). You have the "right" to not become impregnated by some clown you met in a bar. You have the "right" to use a condom. You have the "right" to make sure you are married and stable first. Men aren't supposed to have any say if you choose to have an abortion. All the media seems to think we are nothing more than sperm donors and a child support check. Fine. You choose to get pregnant, you choose to have the child, you choose the "sperm donor", then you are choosing the majority of the responsibility. Sorry hun, that's reality. Men can't get pregnant, the majority if men don't want kids but are forced to live with "your" decison. Make your chocies wisely, with great power comes greater responsibility.

 

[kevm3]

It's been said in here before but you can't expect a woman to be grateful for the things you do for her. It'll drive you crazy. They understand it but they don't internalize it like we do. It's expected to them. I read that thread by the way, she's a real winner.

Yep, women don't understand what you do for them. They understand how fine you are, how in control you are, and how 'above them' they perceive you to be.

 

[rapdonttweet]

Thanks man i thought about that too. So do it no matter how more often she tries to message me in the future?

It really irked me that days after i got back to her "K" response through our student email, i said something like "your welcome too"...through my help she got a C minus and I ended up getting burned with an F for helping with not just the final but with the take home exam the day before.

All that happened with her is that for her major to go on to the next level she needs a C or better to move on, so her being upset about having to repeat the class with a C minus is nothing compared to doing hard work and end up getting and F. She is very priviledged/spoiled.

I actually spoke about her in her pages and pages back and told kev about her. As i stated before early on in the semester last year she actually ended up helping me big time with tuition when she recommended me going to the Vice President and i ended up getting part of it lowered. Because of that i appreciated it and we helped each out through the semester.

But i can tell the type of person she is now when she "uses" someone

I described her in Reincar's thread

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...stroyed-their-promiscuity-15.html#post3055277

Man why are you getting so worked up over a freakin lab partner? You're talking about her like you fukked her or something. Tell her you don't have the book and move on.

 

[CASHAPP]

Man why are you getting so worked up over a freakin lab partner? You're talking about her like you fukked her or something. Tell her you don't have the book and move on.

Tell her i don't have the book? "Worked up"?

Did you read my entire post? Maybe its just a backstep in your mind to get your GPA drastically dropped with an F because of someone and their lack of care about it. Your suppose to graduate and you have to stay one more semester and reject an acceptance/offer you got from another college because of all of this.

My bad through breh i forgot its easy to just move on. Just a minor set back

 

[Duhmarcus Danderstein]

When you get emails,texts,etc or any form of contacts from a female(in my case emails) who disrespected you in some way what would be a good way to respond.

Should I email back

"Can you please not contact me again"

or "Don't contact me again"

Which do you think sounds better?

Btw i never dated or fukked this chick. She just pisssed me off because for helping her i ended up getting an F as my physics grade this past semester when it ended in December of 2012 because as i asked the teacher when i saw my grade, he said 2 or so answers we had were similar and even some mistakes where the same.

The day i forwarded the email to her of what the professor told me she asked me "What am i trying to say' and said the "it was the other people in the class that were cheating!!"(she was right it was an old professor who had ppl walking across the room in front of him cheating,etc its a long story)

Anyway though females showing lack of accountability or even the nerve to say sorry. When she added in the message why am i using "her name" and to talk to him about "myself" (she thought i asked about______because the email I forwarded to her the professor used both of our names.

I told her that I never emaiiled the professor to ask about her. All I did was ask him why I received an F and repeated that he used her name herself. She then replied back with "K"

And a couple days after the Spring Semester started and she is in another physics class while i am focusing on calculus 2, this Thursday morning there was an email by her asking if i have the "physics textbook". The same physics textbook i gave to her in a PDF file back in August

But back to the question should i say "Please don't contact me again. Thanks"

or "Don't contact me again....Thanks"



remember its by email

By responding at all, you're entertaining the idea that you actually give a fukk (ironically given my sitchayshun, but moving on like uhaul).


The greatest impact you can make to a woman's feelings/ego is just to ignore her.


Why even waste your time and effort responding?


Like a failed pitcher at the end of a baseball game - don't give her closure.

 

[CASHAPP]

By responding at all, you're entertaining the idea that you actually give a fukk (ironically given my sitchayshun, but moving on like uhaul).


The greatest impact you can make to a woman's feelings/ego is just to ignore her.


Why even waste your time and effort responding?


Like a failed pitcher at the end of a baseball game - don't give her closure.

Yeah I already said before with MisterDoItnice how its probably best to ignore. I mean she is smart enough to know what she is doing. I wouldn't be surprised if she is just doing this to see if i bite easily.

not gonna get back to her. and if i run into her at all, ill just keep on walking.

Its frustrating because of how my education journey was jeopardized, but i gotta have willpower and hold the anger in brehs and not let her be satisfied. We know who will end up on the good side in the future anyway

 

[rapdonttweet]

Tell her i don't have the book? "Worked up"?

Did you read my entire post? Maybe its just a backstep in your mind to get your GPA drastically dropped with an F because of someone and their lack of care about it. Your suppose to graduate and you have to stay one more semester and reject an acceptance/offer you got from another college because of all of this.

My bad through breh i forgot its easy to just move on. Just a minor set back

You helped her cheat of your own free will didn't you? The real lesson here is to not give people your answers to tests. Schools punish both the cheaters and the people that give them the answers. I just think you're spending an awful lot of time thinking about some female that was nothing more than a former lab partner.

 

[Duhmarcus Danderstein]

Yeah I already said before with MisterDoItnice how its probably best to ignore. I mean she is smart enough to know what she is doing. I wouldn't be surprised if she is just doing this to see if i bite easily.

not gonna get back to her. and if i run into her at all, ill just keep on walking.

Its frustrating because of how my education journey was jeopardized, but i gotta have willpower and hold the anger in brehs and not let her be satisfied. We know who will end up on the good side in the future anyway

Oh okay, i didn't read the previous responses/dialogue between y'all two so - i think you're on the right track.

You have the luxury of learning about these women during the most crucial times of your learning years - college.

Please take advantage of every moment you get - we outchea. And we gotchu. Venus fly trap.

 

[CASHAPP]

You helped her cheat of your own free will didn't you? The real lesson here is to not give people your answers to tests. Schools punish both the cheaters and the people that give them the answers. I just think you're spending an awful lot of time thinking about some female that was nothing more than a former lab partner.

yeah i kno im a man so i gotta control my ego. Im gonna follow everyone's advice in here to just ignore.

hopefully im as controlled and composed if i run into her and just walk away. since females are predictable i expect a "you can't say hi" type of comment lol but ill just go

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[CrossBones]

Sorry, I'm not buying it for a second. No one is being unfair to single moms. All I hear about is a woman's "right" to choose. A woman's "right" to put her career ahead of raising her children, even if her family is financially stable. You also have the "right" to use birth control if you aren't married (free in most cases). You have the "right" to not become impregnated by some clown you met in a bar. You have the "right" to use a condom. You have the "right" to make sure you are married and stable first. Men aren't supposed to have any say if you choose to have an abortion. All the media seems to think we are nothing more than sperm donors and a child support check. Fine. You choose to get pregnant, you choose to have the child, you choose the "sperm donor", then you are choosing the majority of the responsibility. Sorry hun, that's reality. Men can't get pregnant, the majority if men don't want kids but are forced to live with "your" decison. Make your chocies wisely, with great power comes greater responsibility.

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yeah, its funny to see society for what it is today, and then for someone to turn around and blame patriarchy for it. the changes that have come are more often than not stemming from the female side, and their recent changes. women are the gatekeepers to sexuality, and the more liberated they become, the more encumbered as well. many women are not up to this challenge, particularly alone. men have responded by saying, alright, if Im not needed, than I wont be around. Id rather be over here and over there, while you just sit tight, hoing around and getting older waiting for your ideal "mr right" to settle down with you

you cant have classic, traditional results if your whole life is about being new and different. and while Im sure that its possible for some women to be about a new day and embrace feminism wholly while being happy, its more often than bringing a result of yields mass divorces and single parent homes in our times. women wonder why are they alone at 30, 40+ and why men wont settle down with them - but if theres no loyalty, no pay off, and no cooperation, then forget it. one team, one boss. this mess is a result of a society which doesnt value a man in place as the lead.

 

[kevm3]

I find I can't simply talk to one woman unless I know she's for sure mine because these women are mad frustrating with their conversation. the prettier she is, the worse her conversation is generally. sometimes having a convo with a fine girl is like pulling teeth.

 

[winb83]

I look at it like this. p*ssy is the cheese in the mouse trap. These women have a plan and while you got a plan too you achieving your plan is also step in their plan. women don't really do something for nothing. they're intuitive thinkers and planners and they're usually always 2 steps ahead of the average man.

the average man sees a fly woman and his initial plan is to fukk her and that's it. he doesn't plan on making her his girl or wife or any of that. if a woman becomes your girlfriend she not only knew that was gonna happen before you did but that too was a step in her larger plan.

 

[CrossBones]

I find I can't simply talk to one woman unless I know she's for sure mine because these women are mad frustrating with their conversation. the prettier she is, the worse her conversation is generally. sometimes having a convo with a fine girl is like pulling teeth.

it never works out that way, pretty girls are very self absorbed and have a hard time paying attention to anything in life that doesnt directly revolve around them. they typically dont enjoy reading books, watching interesting programs, relating to other people, or even pursuing hobbies and interests for themselves. theyre undeveloped in some ways. they like instant gratification and self pleasure. if you ask them about their clothes, their weekends, their friends gossip, and tv shows, then many can go on and on


as for rolling the dice one female at a time, the frustrating thing is that it can lead to a dead end and time wasted. no one likes to feel like they invested time and effort into nothing. and coincidentally, that lack of options for yourself only works in her favor.

 

[kevm3]

it never works out that way, pretty girls are very self absorbed and have a hard time paying attention to anything in life that doesnt directly revolve around them. they typically dont enjoy reading books, watching interesting programs, relating to other people, or even pursuing hobbies and interests for themselves. theyre undeveloped in some ways. they like instant gratification and self pleasure. if you ask them about their clothes, their weekends, their friends gossip, and tv shows, then many can go on and on


as for rolling the dice one female at a time, the frustrating thing is that it can lead to a dead end and time wasted. no one likes to feel like they invested time and effort into nothing. and coincidentally, that lack of options for yourself only works in her favor.

Exactly. Never give away your exclusivity willingly. The name of the game is the female has to WIN your exclusivity with her loyalty and dedication to you. That's the only way to handle these females... and even then, you have to always give that girl the impression that if she screws up and starts playing around, coming with the nagging and problems, that you'll be willing to drop her. NEVER attempt to win a woman or prove your loyalty through exclusivity. YOU are the prize, and real prizes are WON. They are not given away for free or little effort.

 

[CrossBones]

Exactly. Never give away your exclusivity willingly. The name of the game is the female has to WIN your exclusivity with her loyalty and dedication to you. That's the only way to handle these females... and even then, you have to always give that girl the impression that if she screws up and starts playing around, coming with the nagging and problems, that you'll be willing to drop her. NEVER attempt to win a woman or prove your loyalty through exclusivity. YOU are the prize, and real prizes are WON. They are not given away for free or little effort.

yup, yup. giving out a reward for her doing little to nothing for it - means that YOU dont value your own rewards. thats the message thats being sent out to them. thats its easy, and she is owed that. and that leads to ingraciousness and eventually contempt.

for something to have value, it has to be earned.

men need to have their sanity, their money, and their options in their control. dont let a woman act like what you do is owed to her, and let her put the pressure on you