Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Joined
Jun 15, 2012
Messages
1,659
Reputation
30
Daps
938
Reppin
NULL
Women don't typically ignore men they aren't into at the level you're suggesting. Those guys are the male friends that bytch about nonsense such as the friend zone or they're the simps of the world. Women know there's some value and utility in keeping guys like that around. They're master manipulators. Those guys get used for ego boost, attention, favors, money.

The whole concept people call the friend zone (which is really she's just not into you rejection) contradicts what you're saying. If a woman is really ignoring you then you probably pissed her off.

I'm not talking about a friend...I'm talking about the women that aren't your friends. Like maybe an ex that has moved on and gotten over you. They won't tell you to fukk off but they put you on ignore status.


ive been changing my number twice a year for like 6 years now, i tell it how it is, there is no anger issues. If I dont want to talk to somoene anymore I let it be known i dont have to play these ignore games and hope they pick up the vibe, i dont give a damn what any women thinks about me who isnt my mom,, they cant think in their little feeble mind that im a "jerk" or "angry at them" when in reality nope, in reality when i ct soeone out of my life ill let em know to not contact me again.

Dude its not just a vibe, it is being a jerk period. Now why would you be a jerk to someone you're not bitter at? If you had true apathy, you wouldn't be going to the lengths you do.
 

Malcolmxxx_23

Let's go panthers
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
107,122
Reputation
-14,270
Daps
323,964
dude at my work, his fiance packed up everything and just left yesterday
dude sad as fukkk almost in tears

im like :snoop:
 

kevm3

follower of Jesus
Supporter
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
16,301
Reputation
5,585
Daps
83,601
dude at my work, his fiance packed up everything and just left yesterday
dude sad as fukkk almost in tears

im like :snoop:

better put him on because cats be liable to hurt themselves when their woman leave.
 

Malcolmxxx_23

Let's go panthers
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
107,122
Reputation
-14,270
Daps
323,964
better put him on because cats be liable to hurt themselves when their woman leave.

she told him thats its not him but shes not ready for a relationship :snoop: and he fell for it


i hinted to him that she just wants to get a new dyck
 

Malcolmxxx_23

Let's go panthers
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
107,122
Reputation
-14,270
Daps
323,964
Can u remind us of the story

2nd time she just left the house...even after he spend over 700 dollars in trying to win her back :snoop: she came back to the house and then just packed her bags yesterday and bounced


i swear dudes looks like he might commit that

:snoop:
 

DaRealness

I think very deeply
Joined
May 4, 2012
Messages
16,168
Reputation
4,286
Daps
68,728
Reppin
LDN
Check that girls that act like men thread. The manginas are going to work in there.

Check out the manginas in this thread:

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...ntly-relationship-woman-kid.html#.UQwZ597EQ_c

It's always interesting that men are supposed to just accept a woman's mistakes and take on her brood and all the baggage that comes with it, but when it's us it's another story.

You're a single man with no children and managed to avoid that "mistake" yourself and have everything going for you, but somehow you're not a "real man" because you don't want to play second fiddle and take on a woman (who probably would have never checked for you BEFORE the kids came along) with her children while her other man just lays in the cut...yet somehow YOU are a part of the problem of single parenthood in the black community.
 

Mister_DoItNice

Leading The Regime
Joined
Dec 26, 2012
Messages
4,075
Reputation
717
Daps
13,462
Reppin
The Concrete Jungle
Check out the manginas in this thread:

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...ntly-relationship-woman-kid.html#.UQwZ597EQ_c

It's always interesting that men are supposed to just accept a woman's mistakes and take on her brood and all the baggage that comes with it, but when it's us it's another story.

You're a single man with no children and managed to avoid that "mistake" yourself and have everything going for you, but somehow you're not a "real man" because you don't want to play second fiddle and take on a woman (who probably would have never checked for you BEFORE the kids came along) with her children while her other man just lays in the cut...yet somehow YOU are a part of the problem of single parenthood in the black community.

Yeah I saw that as well. I thought it was interesting. I was hoping to get into a real conversation regarding that thread but I guess I presented too much logic.
 

CASHAPP

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Aug 12, 2012
Messages
26,405
Reputation
-2,484
Daps
48,135
2nd time she just left the house...even after he spend over 700 dollars in trying to win her back :snoop: she came back to the house and then just packed her bags yesterday and bounced


i swear dudes looks like he might commit that

:snoop:

And if he were to ever make it really big in life and becomes well known...not even a celebrity but say a local success in a town or city....

All of a sudden she would wanna come back into the picture

I tell you man these poisonous women are just disgusting and make me sick to my stomach
 

Malcolmxxx_23

Let's go panthers
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
107,122
Reputation
-14,270
Daps
323,964
And if he were to ever make it really big in life and becomes well known...not even a celebrity but say a local success in a town or city....

All of a sudden she would wanna come back into the picture

I tell you man these poisonous women are just disgusting and make me sick to my stomach

breh thats exactly what i told him...just told him to work on himself and do you

take trips and stop being some nice romantic dude


dude really went out and spend 700 dollars worth of gifts trying to win her back :sadcam:..even warned him not to do it
 

Kenny West

Veteran
Joined
May 29, 2012
Messages
25,200
Reputation
6,138
Daps
92,917
Reppin
NULL
Check out the manginas in this thread:

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...ntly-relationship-woman-kid.html#.UQwZ597EQ_c

It's always interesting that men are supposed to just accept a woman's mistakes and take on her brood and all the baggage that comes with it, but when it's us it's another story.

You're a single man with no children and managed to avoid that "mistake" yourself and have everything going for you, but somehow you're not a "real man" because you don't want to play second fiddle and take on a woman (who probably would have never checked for you BEFORE the kids came along) with her children while her other man just lays in the cut...yet somehow YOU are a part of the problem of single parenthood in the black community.

That "real man" shyt kills me. What the fukk makes you real in that situation? :why:

There aint nothing admirable about that situation. You wasn't there to see that baby be born, missed their first words, first steps etc. In the end you'll never be that kid's daddy, you just a nikka who fukkin they mom. nikkas just love framing themselves as some sort of hero to escape the reality of their L.

That's female shyt
 

CrossBones

Louder than words
Joined
May 9, 2012
Messages
1,422
Reputation
320
Daps
2,887
Reppin
Vice City
thats messed up about dude looking suicidal, but thats what happens when you get all these misguided ideas about loyalty in a relationship, and then somewhat count on your partner to be more like you have been to them. thinking like they will repay you back with what you put in. but you need to see early on in the relationship what is the deal. how have they been this whole time? has it changed? has it always been promises but no real pay off? has it been games? read into all of that shyt

when you build your life around another person, but dont truly understand that person and your differences, it will eventually show. and the disconnect will to be apparent, so early on you need to measure up and not base your decisions strictly on your emotions. that kind of mistake happens a lot with, of course, a come and go, spoiled, "what have you done for me lately" type. makes you work and toil for her. it can be a fiance or whatever, but if you can read the signs and sniff out disloyalty then you need to hit the eject button on her seat and keep it pushing.

never place all your winnings/emotions/confidence in another person. thats just a bad bet to take.
 

CrossBones

Louder than words
Joined
May 9, 2012
Messages
1,422
Reputation
320
Daps
2,887
Reppin
Vice City
That "real man" shyt kills me. What the fukk makes you real in that situation? :why:

There aint nothing admirable about that situation. You wasn't there to see that baby be born, missed their first words, first steps etc. In the end you'll never be that kid's daddy, you just a nikka who fukkin they mom. nikkas just love framing themselves as some sort of hero to escape the reality of their L.

That's female shyt

sheeeit, the only "real man" a single mother needs to be concerned with is the real one that gave her that "real baby." thats their business and their concern. its between them, and it will always be. a lot of delusional woman these days want a man to do more for her, and put up with more, but offer even less in return. they want to share the chores, want to be considered "independant" while you have to buy them shyt, want to have excessive mileage on their pussies but play games and bargain it with her man, and want to have other mens babies while you take care of them ... gtfo with that shyt.
 
Top