Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Had the date with the doctor , date number three this week

First time I’ve had a date with a non black woman since 2014

shes Egyptian , went well we just met up in a coffee shop and talked until the coffee shop closed

a nice casual cheap meetup


Friday my last date of the week
 

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Had the date with the doctor , date number three this week

First time I’ve had a date with a non black woman since 2014

shes Egyptian , went well we just met up in a coffee shop and talked until the coffee shop closed

a nice casual cheap meetup


Friday my last date of the week
Wonder if ive met her
Is she an anesthesiologist. Inbox her namw lol
 

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when did you guys realize you weren’t attracting the type of women you wanted, and what did y’all personally do about it?

excluding the obvious factors like physical appearance, mouth piece, and finances.
 

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when did you guys realize you weren’t attracting the type of women you wanted, and what did y’all personally do about it?

excluding the obvious factors like physical appearance, mouth piece, and finances.
I didn’t “realize” I couldn’t get the girls I wanted but when I was younger (middle/high school) I just knew I wanted more than just the girls that liked me... I didn’t use to go up to girls or start the convos. I just started opening my mouth to new girls it’s been a wrap since lol
 

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I didn’t “realize” I couldn’t get the girls I wanted but when I was younger (middle/high school) I just knew I wanted more than just the girls that liked me... I didn’t use to go up to girls or start the convos. I just started opening my mouth to new girls it’s been a wrap since lol

preciate the response bro. Just doing some reflecting and re-evaluating.
 
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In my late 20s now and man…the dating game completely changes if you have your shyt together and are still taking care of yourself physically.

I was getting women in my teens and 20s too, but I definitely had to work for it. Now it’s just effortless, there’s more and they just come to me.

now the challenge is I gotta find which of these girls to actually settle down and build something with, the causal sex lifestyle and juggling women is kind of exhausting. I’ll have to refresh on some of the gems in here to make sure I pick the right girl

I can relate to that. I’m getting women effortlessly. Do you feel any pressure to find the right one though? I’ve been juggling so many but I just can’t seem to find the right one, they’re fun but I can’t build anything emotional with them. Granted I recently broke up with my ex of 2 years(4 months ago) cause of some shyt I did. Maybe it’s just that, my heart ain’t really in it.
 

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I can relate to that. I’m getting women effortlessly. Do you feel any pressure to find the right one though? I’ve been juggling so many but I just can’t seem to find the right one, they’re fun but I can’t build anything emotional with them. Granted I recently broke up with my ex of 2 years(4 months ago) cause of some shyt I did. Maybe it’s just that, my heart ain’t really in it.
The “right” one would probably be the one you’re worried to let go or have walk away. But idk I might still be too young and not have enough experience to really tell yet
 

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Random, but I'm starting to have really good gos w/ Asian women on Hinge. I usually assume it's hardcore:mjpls: until proven otherwise, but they've been straightforward and so easy to chop it up with. I'm honestly a little confused because it's like a switch got flipped outta nowhere.

Goin out with this Half Japanese, Half White, Blake Liveley-looking budtender this weekend. Big LA chill, low maintenance, pass-the-weed-and-i'm-content vibes which is just what I need easing back in the game. :ehh:

Then this Chinese looker asked me out this week too. She had me like :whoo: and that's not my usual type at all. Body not even that bad just a lot of sex appeal and confidence in her convo.
 

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Random, but I'm starting to have really good gos w/ Asian women on Hinge. I usually assume it's hardcore:mjpls: until proven otherwise, but they've been straightforward and so easy to chop it up with. I'm honestly a little confused because it's like a switch got flipped outta nowhere.

Goin out with this Half Japanese, Half White, Blake Liveley-looking budtender this weekend. Big LA chill, low maintenance, pass-the-weed-and-i'm-content vibes which is just what I need easing back in the game. :ehh:

Then this Chinese looker asked me out this week too. She had me like :whoo: and that's not my usual type at all. Body not even that bad just a lot of sex appeal and confidence in her convo.

Most asian women are very easy to talk with once they're at ease with you. It's funny, on Hinge they're very forward. Leaving comments on my pictures and answers.

I know the belief is a lot of them are :mjpls: and there are definitely some real hardcore self hating asian wenches in the mix. But in my experience the ones I deal with are very open to discussion and want to learn. And I do enjoy that the fetishization element is thankfully missing from my sexual interactions with asian women, as we both know how creepy it is to be boiled down to a sexual stereotype.
 
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