Son Of God
Pro
Glad to see your alive and well brother.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Glad to see your alive and well brother.
Malik
Superstar
Coming off of the "How many partners do you think young women have" thread.....why are men called insecure if they don't want to wife up a woman 30 other men have had? Can you imagine some dad trying to get his daughter married off 100 years ago and telling all her potential suitors she's been with 35 men 
Yeah man, that's why I tell cats to have a ton of hobbies and interests in front of women. The more nonchalant and nonthirsty you can be around women, the better.
Duhmarcus Danderstein
Rookie
Really appreciate all you guys is unprecedented, invaluable and blunt take on my sitchayshun.
I have family and friends that i could turn to for aid when I’m struggle plating, but – it’s the anonymity of the internet that brings out the best like BestFoods.
Once again, thank you.
"I feel like i was locked out of HEAVEN!!! For some simping i just did..."
I have family and friends that i could turn to for aid when I’m struggle plating, but – it’s the anonymity of the internet that brings out the best like BestFoods.
Once again, thank you.
"I feel like i was locked out of HEAVEN!!! For some simping i just did..."
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
Glad that you're still with us an in good health.On another note... for Reddit users, /r/mensrights got names subreddit of the day. I'd like to take this opportunity to give a short criticism of the terms "patriarchy" and "feminism." Describing all of society's problems as being made by the "Patriarchy" and therefore inherently male and the solutions to these problems as being "Feminism" and is really unfair against men because it makes us out to be terrible human beings only being able to be saved by women and the effeminate. I can do without that sort of built-in disdain for being a man.
Here's a link to the page:
January 31st. /r/MensRights. Advocating for the social and legal equality of men and boys since 2008 : subredditoftheday
Tommy Knocks
retired
damn bro. that's real. I almost died a couple of years ago too. My camaro flipped and fell off a bridge upside down. I used be a huge networker and 'known', but I realized I had to cut a lot of people off. (quality over quantity). I view life a whole lot differently now. Not very many get to see their morality flash before their eyes but when it does....you change for sure.
I don't even think I want to get married, I think I just want to see the rest of the planet before I go.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Coming off of the "How many partners do you think young women have" thread.....why are men called insecure if they don't want to wife up a woman 30 other men have had? Can you imagine some dad trying to get his daughter married off 100 years ago and telling all her potential suitors she's been with 35 men
Yeah it's ridiculous. They try to make you seem like the bad guy for not wanting to mess with them. Even more convoluted is how they turn that into a justification for lying about their numbers. Crazy world but I guess according to them we should just get with the times and accept their heavily used, and worn out bargaining chips.
When you get emails,texts,etc or any form of contacts from a female(in my case emails) who disrespected you in some way what would be a good way to respond.
Should I email back
"Can you please not contact me again"
or "Don't contact me again"
Which do you think sounds better?
Btw i never dated or fukked this chick. She just pisssed me off because for helping her i ended up getting an F as my physics grade this past semester when it ended in December of 2012 because as i asked the teacher when i saw my grade, he said 2 or so answers we had were similar and even some mistakes where the same.
The day i forwarded the email to her of what the professor told me she asked me "What am i trying to say' and said the "it was the other people in the class that were cheating!!"(she was right it was an old professor who had ppl walking across the room in front of him cheating,etc its a long story)
Anyway though females showing lack of accountability or even the nerve to say sorry. When she added in the message why am i using "her name" and to talk to him about "myself" (she thought i asked about______because the email I forwarded to her the professor used both of our names.
I told her that I never emaiiled the professor to ask about her. All I did was ask him why I received an F and repeated that he used her name herself. She then replied back with "K"
And a couple days after the Spring Semester started and she is in another physics class while i am focusing on calculus 2, this Thursday morning there was an email by her asking if i have the "physics textbook". The same physics textbook i gave to her in a PDF file back in August
But back to the question should i say "Please don't contact me again. Thanks"
or "Don't contact me again....Thanks"
remember its by email
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
I just wouldn't respond at all. Both of those responses come off as you being angry. I understand that you are but just move forward and toss her aside. When she sees you don't entertain any conversation just keep moving.
Outside your parents deep down most people are really indifferent about you. To a limited extent they wish you well but not to the extent that you'd be more sucessful than them. They'll help you if its something easy but they're not usually gonna go out of their way and they won't suffer a great loss for your benefit. Most people are self absorbed and preoccupied with looking out for their own self interest. That's ultimately why being a nice person is worthless in our world today. Mainly because if you put others first in a world where everyone puts themselves first you'll always come up last.
Thanks man i thought about that too. So do it no matter how more often she tries to message me in the future?
It really irked me that days after i got back to her "K" response through our student email, i said something like "your welcome too"...through my help she got a C minus and I ended up getting burned with an F for helping with not just the final but with the take home exam the day before.
All that happened with her is that for her major to go on to the next level she needs a C or better to move on, so her being upset about having to repeat the class with a C minus is nothing compared to doing hard work and end up getting and F. She is very priviledged/spoiled.
I actually spoke about her in her pages and pages back and told kev about her. As i stated before early on in the semester last year she actually ended up helping me big time with tuition when she recommended me going to the Vice President and i ended up getting part of it lowered. Because of that i appreciated it and we helped each out through the semester.
But i can tell the type of person she is now when she "uses" someone
I described her in Reincar's thread
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room...stroyed-their-promiscuity-15.html#post3055277
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
It's been said in here before but you can't expect a woman to be grateful for the things you do for her. It'll drive you crazy. They understand it but they don't internalize it like we do. It's expected to them. I read that thread by the way, she's a real winner.
I mentioned the two possibilities of responses to her because I figured that she would respond pissed off as hell and possibly try to bring up me being "selfish" after she helped me with the tuition problem and the occasional lab work(when i mainly helped her besides the 2 or 3 times it was the other way around)
Then she would end up feeling frustrated.....
I have no need to ever change my email but like you said, this is the type of woman we are all talking about; I am sure the thread you read pretty much summed her up.
Someone like that is the same very person that give or take 10 years from now shen she is 37, may try to hit me up even if we have not met in a while. It may be even MORE likely if she reads or comes across my name in some newspaper or something as being a very successful chemical engineer.
And try to get me to be with her since ill be about 31 and starting my peak
Nobody that feels entitled to something is appreciative when they receive it. Modern women feel the world should give them whatever they want.
You always put yourself before a female because that's how they'll usually do you. If you don't step in and help her with whatever it is she'll find another way. When I was a simp I used to think I was a chicks only option for help now I know I was just the easiest option and this the preferred one. If I suffered a loss to help them they really didn't care because they got what they wanted and if I didn't do it things would have been handled another way.
Once I had a chick tell me if I didn't take her to work she would have to quit her job. I took her till my car fukked up and once that happened she found another way to work.
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I volunteer at two different non-profits they have programs that focus on fathers. Over that last 8 - 9 years I have seen/heard so many different stories about fatherhood that it amazes me how much does not hit the press. We have had extreme cases of mothers in the press that have taken their children to other countries with dads fighting for them to be returned but there are a lot of cases like this on a smaller scale all over the US. In one program, during 2006 to 2008 over 400+ fathers were ready, willing and able to be a part of their children's lives but unable to because of opposition from the other parent which usually were mothers. Meanwhile when these women were requested to attend mediation and/or other court sanctioned meetups they refused for various reason that made very little sense. Mind you, I'm not talking about cases of DV or child abuse or anything of that nature - we are just talking about ppl using their children as control mechanisms. It's not even June yet and in one program in the South Bronx we have 178 single fathers raising their kids on their own and mothers who are not present. I'm not saying that we as a society don't have a problem with absentee fathers but there are a lot MORE factors involved that very few people seem interested in
I volunteer at two different non-profits they have programs that focus on fathers. Over that last 8 - 9 years I have seen/heard so many different stories about fatherhood that it amazes me how much does not hit the press. We have had extreme cases of mothers in the press that have taken their children to other countries with dads fighting for them to be returned but there are a lot of cases like this on a smaller scale all over the US. In one program, during 2006 to 2008 over 400+ fathers were ready, willing and able to be a part of their children's lives but unable to because of opposition from the other parent which usually were mothers. Meanwhile when these women were requested to attend mediation and/or other court sanctioned meetups they refused for various reason that made very little sense. Mind you, I'm not talking about cases of DV or child abuse or anything of that nature - we are just talking about ppl using their children as control mechanisms. It's not even June yet and in one program in the South Bronx we have 178 single fathers raising their kids on their own and mothers who are not present. I'm not saying that we as a society don't have a problem with absentee fathers but there are a lot MORE factors involved that very few people seem interested in