Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

Im actually starting to like apps better. I listen to The Lead Attorney and he was saying how it’s easier to vet, but also background check, figure out what you’re getting into, if you have a lot going for yourself. Especially if you can see if they “like you” first. The spontaneous meet up in real life is cool too, but there’s still a lot of mystery (kids, drama, type of woman, etc). But I don’t mind it, even if I’m in a overseas location.

If you go on a quality app, Hinge / Maybe Bumble or other higher level ones (The League or a blackpeoplemeet.com) you may have a a better experience.

As far as dates / meet ups, times are changing, you gotta move quick. As soon as you match, you should be trying to meet the same day or get the number and transition off the app. (Link on weekdays, never on weekends unless it’s guaranteed box)

Don’t FaceTime, you become pen pal status.

Good advice but I like to do at least 1 video call just to see that her face in the pictures is matching her current self.

As for meeting up. Absolutely agree, you need to be setting something up quickly this is why I like to suggest coffee meets, quick, easy, no pressure and if the vibe is not good in person you can both call it quits half an hour in. A chick who cant even be bothered to do that marks her off my interest list. Also good shout on the meeting on weekdays. My weekends are for woman I already know I'm going to have a fun time with.

People attentions spans are so short these days you really need to be upfront and clear with these chicks or they’ll curve you or add you to their orbiter list.

 

[Ahadi]

I’ve deleted all my socials and never gave out my # like that so the likelihood of a pop-up from a HS flame is slim to none

This is Facebook messenger



She threw quite a Hail Mary. I’ll give her that. Wonder what she wants.. we’re still in the holiday season and V-day hasn’t passed yet.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

This is Facebook messenger



She threw quite a Hail Mary. I’ll give her that. Wonder what she wants.. we’re still in the holiday season and V-day hasn’t passed yet.

fasho fasho. Been off Facebook for a minute.

whatever the deal is with shawty, at least you get a free meal out of her put some points up on the scoreboard CityBoy

 

[Rozay Oro]

 

[Killigraphy]

I realized I had to get away from this cycle tbh.

I realized after my last situation fell through, the last 4 or so years every time I'm really feeling a girl it always takes me meeting another girl I really like to get her completely off my mind.

I need to stop relying on that and master my thoughts to get a woman out of my head without having to find another one first.
That's partly the reason I'm going cold turkey for the moment on women.

Never stop engaging with women, just make sure they're jumping through your hoops, not the other way around. I'm still successful, working out, reading , and growing with our without women. Also wear jimmy hat....or get a blowjob. Either way , the best tactic is to keep yourself busy. Build a support group. No woman should be your source of happiness. Develop and foster happiness from within. This way, sure, you might miss your ex or whatever, but you know you're always going to do better or are in a better head space.

Too many men waste time on trying to communicate or control other people....master thyself.

 

[NegaDuck]

what is your approach like when asking for the # in the same day? You go straight to the question or engage in minimal small talk?

Yup, I'll either hit em with the

"Im not on here often, give me a call sometime."
"Im about to delete the app, we should grab a bite, here's my number"

The cheat code I use on hinge is, I never like or comment on their pics, Ill only comment on the statements they make or answer a question and ill always something funny or damn near outlandish but still funny based on the rest of their profile.

I'll look in the background of pics to figure out the best way to respond to the statements/questions.

Also, I don't have any selfies for my pics, all pics are pics other people took of me and I have some for each occasion, dressed up, on vacay, say the airport, smiling and serious and no shirt. (if the picture is a vaycay pic it doesn't look corny and you put "guess where this was" as the caption and women will try and guess.

 

[The ADD]

Yup, I'll either hit em with the

"Im not on here often, give me a call sometime."
"Im about to delete the app, we should grab a bite, here's my number"

The cheat code I use on hinge is, I never like or comment on their pics, Ill only comment on the statements they make or answer a question and ill always something funny or damn near outlandish but still funny based on the rest of their profile.

I'll look in the background of pics to figure out the best way to respond to the statements/questions.

Also, I don't have any selfies for my pics, all pics are pics other people took of me and I have some for each occasion, dressed up, on vacay, say the airport, smiling and serious and no shirt. (if the picture is a vaycay pic it doesn't look corny and you put "guess where this was" as the caption and women will try and guess.

Pretty much all this worked for me on Hinge.

Take notes brehs

 

[downtheline]

How bout I go fukkin this big bytch from work without her catchin feelings and just bein a fwb?

She choosin. She a cute face big bytch. We in the same room for hours. Might as well hit it since she got her own shyt.

You will always have a place to stay, and a fully stocked kitchen. Nothing worse than women who have nothing to eat in their homes

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Is their a meaning behind a woman getting a nose piercing all of a sudden in her 30s?. Like a tiny nose stud in left nostril? Kinda caught me for loop cause wasnt expecting her to have one and she didnt truly answer the question so I didnt push the issue.She had before me and got it last year. What you guys SERIOUSLY think. Serious responses

 

[The ADD]

Is their a meaning behind a woman getting a nose piercing all of a sudden in her 30s?. Like a tiny nose stud in left nostril? Kinda caught me for loop cause wasnt expecting her to have one and she didnt truly answer the question so I didnt push the issue.She had before me and got it last year. What you guys SERIOUSLY think. Serious responses

Honestly no. Seems like a non-issue.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Honestly no. Seems like a non-issue.

Appreciaite it.

 

[DaRealness]

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Yup, I'll either hit em with the

"Im not on here often, give me a call sometime."
"Im about to delete the app, we should grab a bite, here's my number"

The cheat code I use on hinge is, I never like or comment on their pics, Ill only comment on the statements they make or answer a question and ill always something funny or damn near outlandish but still funny based on the rest of their profile.

I'll look in the background of pics to figure out the best way to respond to the statements/questions.

Also, I don't have any selfies for my pics, all pics are pics other people took of me and I have some for each occasion, dressed up, on vacay, say the airport, smiling and serious and no shirt. (if the picture is a vaycay pic it doesn't look corny and you put "guess where this was" as the caption and women will try and guess.

bolded is why this thread exists I used to always comment indirectly on whatever else is going on in the pic besides her but Hinge is about substance tbh. The woman on there SEEMS to not play games about any outcome: whether it’s a quick fukk or a committed relationship. Will definitely start commenting on the posts.

what’s ya opinion on the voice feature? I created mine and wanted to test the waters. Similar to pictures, you have to be confident your voice sounds charming or attractive.

 

[NegaDuck]

bolded is why this thread exists I used to always comment indirectly on whatever else is going on in the pic besides her but Hinge is about substance tbh. The woman on there SEEMS to not play games about any outcome: whether it’s a quick fukk or a committed relationship. Will definitely start commenting on the posts.

what’s ya opinion on the voice feature? I created mine and wanted to test the waters. Similar to pictures, you have to be confident your voice sounds charming or attractive.

My voice does NOT match how I look so I wouldn't use it personally...I look like I sound like the Allstate nikka but I sound like Chris Tucker ( it works in my favor tho lol)

My main goal is to get them off the app tho, so any app features, (outside of one video so they can see me in motion with no sound) I try not to use.

Long as your profile pics are interesting and YOUR prompts are either funny or interesting, getting them off the app is hella easy (if the are attracted to you)

 

[NegaDuck]

Is their a meaning behind a woman getting a nose piercing all of a sudden in her 30s?. Like a tiny nose stud in left nostril? Kinda caught me for loop cause wasnt expecting her to have one and she didnt truly answer the question so I didnt push the issue.She had before me and got it last year. What you guys SERIOUSLY think. Serious responses

Just means she think she looks cute with it...I wouldn't put further thought into the nostril rings...now girls with the septum rings...I always assume they are hella freaky or into white dudes lol