Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Max.]

Had this lil lawg bytch…talked for 3 days…convo got to the point where u start askn sexual shyt…she said she had nudes but wouldnt send em so fast…i was like aight….so next night before bed i sent a pic of my dikk with a bed sheet on it and this bytch gave me the. *EYES REAL BIG EMOJI*

next morninh i go “did that catch ur eye?” And she say “NO” i was like wtf? N than she said i nust have the wrong bytch and texted “ok”

havent talked to her since lol…good thing about having a gf already is like im playing with house money…I remember yall said dont double text or wait n see if a bytch texts u first…

also shorty was beaten by her ex so i can see emotional baggage

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Had this lil lawg bytch…talked for 3 days…convo got to the point where u start askn sexual shyt…she said she had nudes but wouldnt send em so fast…i was like aight….so next night before bed i sent a pic of my dikk with a bed sheet on it and this bytch gave me the. *EYES REAL BIG EMOJI*

next morninh i go “did that catch ur eye?” And she say “NO” i was like wtf? N than she said i nust have the wrong bytch and texted “ok”

havent talked to her since lol…good thing about having a gf already is like im playing with house money…I remember yall said dont double text or wait n see if a bytch texts u first…

also shorty was beaten by her ex so i can see emotional baggage

this entire post is just

 

[ISHIDA]

story time?

Prolly later in the week, no feeling well atm

 

[Serious]

Prolly later in the week, no feeling well atm

nikkas be

 

[NegaDuck]

Im actually starting to like apps better. I listen to The Lead Attorney and he was saying how it’s easier to vet, but also background check, figure out what you’re getting into, if you have a lot going for yourself. Especially if you can see if they “like you” first. The spontaneous meet up in real life is cool too, but there’s still a lot of mystery (kids, drama, type of woman, etc). But I don’t mind it, even if I’m in a overseas location.

If you go on a quality app, Hinge / Maybe Bumble or other higher level ones (The League or a blackpeoplemeet.com) you may have a a better experience.

As far as dates / meet ups, times are changing, you gotta move quick. As soon as you match, you should be trying to meet the same day or get the number and transition off the app. (Link on weekdays, never on weekends unless it’s guaranteed box)

Don’t FaceTime, you become pen pal status.

Learned the get the real number fast as possible back in the Black Planet/MySpace days

Met my current chick on Hinge going on 2 years ago. Gave her my number same day and she called me 2 days later.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Met my current chick on Hinge going on 2 years ago. Gave her my number same day and she called me 2 days later.

what is your approach like when asking for the # in the same day? You go straight to the question or engage in minimal small talk?

 

[J.E.T.S]

Damn my gf just ended our 3 years relationship and I feel empty and at the same time I know she never loved me... cuz she already with someone in less than 2 week

Of course she does breh...

Majority of women swing from branch to branch. They don't tend to let go of one unless they know they have a firm grip on the other branch

This has most likely been months in the making breh sorry to break it to you

Nah, she been fukking dude for a while, she just got tired of trying to hide her games.

As a breh that been through this before. Same amount of time in that relationship too. Let me tell you that these nikkas are right. The signs be there too, but we either ignore them or our concerns get dismissed if we question things we see.

for me, it was a nikka I asked her about that kept commenting under her photos on IG for like a year straight. She acted like she didn’t know who he was, but soon as we broke up she was getting fukked by dude 2 weeks later.

now your ex could also be rebounding. Remember though that people lose people how they met them. So she will get hers eventually.

it won’t last. Whatever issues y’all had, she’s gonna be the same way in that relationship.

I can’t tell you how to heal because I was sick when mine left. Even though I started messing with other bytches, I stalked that bytch social media for months and kept reopening that wound every time I saw them out. But, I remember the day that nikka blocked her and she went on a rant hating nikkas in her stories. Boy that shyt felt so good to see! Lol

It’s gonna be rough, but whatever you do, DO NOT HIT HER UP! it’s not gonna change anything and you will look like a sucker. No contact!!! Having that feeling of hope and the dreams will continue for a while, but don’t let it get to your mind and you lose all your self respect.

long story short, time heals and fukk that bytch for hurting and abandoning you like you meant nothing.

 

[J.E.T.S]

How do you brehs handle women that are used to guys blowing money on them? I don’t do that and I’ve never had this issue before but she keeps making slick remarks. I’ll admit I’m only putting up with it cause she is a 9 with a crazy body. She also talking about she want a relationship but I like her a lot so it might happen

it’s not going to work out. She’s going to either break you, not respect you, or cling to another nikka with money.

if a woman gives you those “you’re not what I’m used to” vibes.. just fukk on her and keep it moving.

trust me, you don’t want a bytch that you have to buy or send on vacation twice a year.

she’ll be enjoying your money without you in no time!

 

[J.E.T.S]

this entire post is just

i hollered after reading that lol

the games bytches play. this shyt is sad and fascinating at the same time.

 

[Sinnerman]

Man, it is what it is but my gf's hygiene issues have turned me off of her sexually

I did subtly mention something to her a couple days ago so we'll see, but today she tried to come on to me and I just made up some bs excuse

 

[RaspberryFitted]

i hollered after reading that lol

the games bytches play. this shyt is sad and fascinating at the same time.

If she was keeping her nudes to herself, why would he send her a pic with the blanket covering the shlong? The bytch rolled her eyes at it… then he had the nerve to double back in the AM talm bout.. “that shyt caught ya attention huh? “ like she ain’t brush her teeth yet while reading it..

THEN he puts it out there that he got a girl on the bench so he just playing the field, and finally concludes that it’s her lost because she been beaten and he ain’t want smoke anyway..


bruh had to have been ultra horny to jump through those hoops

 

[ISHIDA]

As a breh that been through this before. Same amount of time in that relationship too. Let me tell you that these nikkas are right. The signs be there too, but we either ignore them or our concerns get dismissed if we question things we see.

for me, it was a nikka I asked her about that kept commenting under her photos on IG for like a year straight. She acted like she didn’t know who he was, but soon as we broke up she was getting fukked by dude 2 weeks later.

now your ex could also be rebounding. Remember though that people lose people how they met them. So she will get hers eventually.

it won’t last. Whatever issues y’all had, she’s gonna be the same way in that relationship.

I can’t tell you how to heal because I was sick when mine left. Even though I started messing with other bytches, I stalked that bytch social media for months and kept reopening that wound every time I saw them out. But, I remember the day that nikka blocked her and she went on a rant hating nikkas in her stories. Boy that shyt felt so good to see! Lol

It’s gonna be rough, but whatever you do, DO NOT HIT HER UP! it’s not gonna change anything and you will look like a sucker. No contact!!! Having that feeling of hope and the dreams will continue for a while, but don’t let it get to your mind and you lose all your self respect.

long story short, time heals and fukk that bytch for hurting and abandoning you like you meant nothing.

Thanks fam, yeah I keep bringing memories to my head and thinking she will eventually comeback

 

[Rozay Oro]

I feel so dumb for wanting a girlfriend all these years. Just sluts out here, even if they dating. I literally have 3 girls from tinder on my phone. It’s cool but at the same time these hoes ain’t shyt.

 

[MikelArteta]

Got caught up with her looks like a rookie

just checked she unmatched me

 

[J.E.T.S]

I feel so dumb for wanting a girlfriend all these years. Just sluts out here, even if they dating. I literally have 3 girls from tinder on my phone. It’s cool but at the same time these hoes ain’t shyt.

they’re all fukking and tryna do their own thing.