Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Thanks fam, yeah I keep bringing memories to my head and thinking she will eventually comeback :mjcry:

do you REALLY want a bytch back that done got nutted in by another nikka?

That’s a painful thought, but you have to ask yourself this.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BreakUps/

alot of support there and there’s literally hundreds of men that’s going through or went through our exact situation. You will feel better after reading some of the shyt they went through. :russ:

My ex was a solid 10 and I’m not even exaggerating. Like even my homies said I’ll be hard pressed to find another bytch that bad that’s willing to get in a relationship. Lol dirty b*stards.. I’m like “yo I’m trying to heal over here and that shyt don’t help!”… then the bytch could cook her ass off.

I know if I can heal from that then anybody can.

find your peace and heal breh!
 

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do you REALLY want a bytch back that done got nutted in by another nikka?

That’s a painful thought, but you have to ask yourself this.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BreakUps/

alot of support there and there’s literally hundreds of men that’s going through or went through our exact situation. You will feel better after reading some of the shyt they went through. :russ:

My ex was a solid 10 and I’m not even exaggerating. Like even my homies said I’ll be hard pressed to find another bytch that bad that’s willing to get in a relationship. Lol dirty b*stards.. I’m like “yo I’m trying to heal over here and that shyt don’t help!”… then the bytch could cook her ass off.

I know if I can heal from that then anybody can.

find your peace and heal breh!


Yup nothing you go through is special, like i always say just be thankful you don't have kids or have to go through a court proceedings. Women come and women go nothing special about em
 

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do you REALLY want a bytch back that done got nutted in by another nikka?

That’s a painful thought, but you have to ask yourself this.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BreakUps/

alot of support there and there’s literally hundreds of men that’s going through or went through our exact situation. You will feel better after reading some of the shyt they went through. :russ:

My ex was a solid 10 and I’m not even exaggerating. Like even my homies said I’ll be hard pressed to find another bytch that bad that’s willing to get in a relationship. Lol dirty b*stards.. I’m like “yo I’m trying to heal over here and that shyt don’t help!”… then the bytch could cook her ass off.

I know if I can heal from that then anybody can.

find your peace and heal breh!

You know what I meant with. But nah Im trying to talk with other chicks to atleast distract my mind

But real talk... thanks for the words
 

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they’re all fukking and tryna do their own thing.
Yeah :francis:
God bless the youtube brothas Darius M and Coach Warren
Brehs break shyt down so clean and don’t make you feel like your at fault. Women are just rotten, make demons out of men if you don’t holla at God.
 

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Woman I use to mess with in high school.. let’s say 8 years ago. Sends me a message: “Hey _____, how are you :wub: I’m going to be staying in the city for the weekend, and thought about you. If you’re free could I take you out for dinner? If not, it’s ok, I thought I’d ask. I never expressed how truly thankful I am to have known you, but I am. Hope we can reconnect soon”

:jbhmm:

What would you fellas do? Lol I never hit because I lived with my folks at the time. One of those situations, I feel I’m owed box, but at the same time I’m unsure of her end game.
 

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Woman I use to mess with in high school.. let’s say 8 years ago. Sends me a message: “Hey _____, how are you :wub: I’m going to be staying in the city for the weekend, and thought about you. If you’re free could I take you out for dinner? If not, it’s ok, I thought I’d ask. I never expressed how truly thankful I am to have known you, but I am. Hope we can reconnect soon”

:jbhmm:

What would you fellas do? Lol I never hit because I lived with my folks at the time. One of those situations, I feel I’m owed box, but at the same time I’m unsure of her end game.

I mean if she is offering to take you out, what do you have to lose? :manny:

Edit:- This is dependent also on how you feel about her, if you don't feel nothing for her then why not?
 
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Woman I use to mess with in high school.. let’s say 8 years ago. Sends me a message: “Hey _____, how are you :wub: I’m going to be staying in the city for the weekend, and thought about you. If you’re free could I take you out for dinner? If not, it’s ok, I thought I’d ask. I never expressed how truly thankful I am to have known you, but I am. Hope we can reconnect soon”

:jbhmm:

What would you fellas do? Lol I never hit because I lived with my folks at the time. One of those situations, I feel I’m owed box, but at the same time I’m unsure of her end game.

go for it. If she never tried to run any games on you, she probably genuinely wants to fw you :clap:

last time that happened to me, my defense was super up to the point where she felt she wasn’t wanted in the conversation.
 

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You know what I meant with. But nah Im trying to talk with other chicks to atleast distract my mind

But real talk... thanks for the words

I realized I had to get away from this cycle tbh.

I realized after my last situation fell through, the last 4 or so years every time I'm really feeling a girl it always takes me meeting another girl I really like to get her completely off my mind.

I need to stop relying on that and master my thoughts to get a woman out of my head without having to find another one first.
That's partly the reason I'm going cold turkey for the moment on women.
 

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How do you brehs handle women that are used to guys blowing money on them? I don’t do that and I’ve never had this issue before but she keeps making slick remarks. I’ll admit I’m only putting up with it cause she is a 9 with a crazy body. She also talking about she want a relationship :rudy: but I like her a lot so it might happen:snoop:

You throw them in the bushes.

For me dating is a two way street. I pay for dinner, she can get the next one. I find it keeps us both honest and shows mutual interest is shown and respected.

A woman who wants you to spend just to spend is not for me. Especially if she’s making slick comments as well

The whole idea of dating is to get to know each others personalities and inner beings a woman that can be easily bribed by any man blowing money on her is not a good long term prospect.
 
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