Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Rozay Oro

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I ain’t got a mouthpiece
I ain’t manipulative
Help me I want to be on that demon time!
Love is for suckas and r&b songs

Y’all don’t really want your brotha Ro in pain, right? I want to smile too.
 
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I ain’t got a mouthpiece
I ain’t manipulative
Help me I want to be on that demon time!
Love is for suckas and r&b songs

Y’all don’t really want your brotha Ro in pain, right? I want to smile too.
Breh it’s all in your mind. Stop downing yourself and man tf up. It’s a mentality! Go out to bars and just be yourself. Chat and meet new people men and woman (no homo). You can’t keep talking down on yourself on thecoli breh.
 

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Breh it’s all in your mind. Stop downing yourself and man tf up. It’s a mentality! Go out to bars and just be yourself. Chat and meet new people men and woman (no homo). You can’t keep talking down on yourself on thecoli breh.
This. It’s all about trial and error. Some going to fukk with you, some won’t, but make sure you’re putting the best version of yourself out there and go for it.
 

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How do I become mentally stronger? Sure I’m not in shape but I feel like I got burned out just fukking. Since no bytch wants to be my boo, no matter what I do. How can I just become cold and heartless? Just want to get back to fukking and not falling for some bytch who may be my type. In the end I’m just another penis to her.

Is that worded better?
keep letting hoes play you and you'll become heartless naturally :mjlol::wow:

thats why these thot's go to is "who hurt you"

some people got it naturally some people have to go through the growing pains

Edit: some dudes are just naturally nice dudes who don't got it in them to be player. If that's you just stop being emotionally available. Make a girl prove her worth before you open up to her. Protect your heart breh.
 
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Breh it’s all in your mind. Stop downing yourself and man tf up. It’s a mentality! Go out to bars and just be yourself. Chat and meet new people men and woman (no homo). You can’t keep talking down on yourself on thecoli breh.
It’s hard to be myself. I know you nikkas keep saying go see a therapist but man I need to get dome soon from a shorty.

bytches so judgemental and cold. Maybe I need new interests and hobbies that will make me interesting. Rn I think I may be too boring.
 

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keep letting hoes play you and you'll become heartless naturally :mjlol::wow:

thats why these thot's go to is "who hurt you"

some people got it naturally some people have to go through the growing pains

Edit: some dudes are just naturally nice dudes who don't got it in them to be player. If that's you just stop being emotionally available. Make a girl prove her worth before you open up to her. Protect your heart breh.
I’m not really sure what you mean by emotionally unavailable
 

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My ex who ghosted me in June hit me up and she wanna link

I might give in :snoop:

I still like her :snoop:

but I know ima take an L :snoop:
 

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My ex who ghosted me in June hit me up and she wanna link

I might give in :snoop:

I still like her :snoop:

but I know ima take an L :snoop:

You’re better than that g. Politely decline her offer.

… but if you insist, at least be completely sure with yourself AND her that there’s no emotional connection. Treat her as she’s a stranger you picked up off Tinder.
 

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Commenting on a pic as a opener on facebook dating has worked alot for me

solid tactic. I simply mention something in the background or the design/look of her outfit. The latter I may have to stop because it’ll make me look :wrist:

it’s pretty hit or miss too. I’ve gotten plenty of matches on Hinge by simply liking her picture
 

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Speaking about different ways to start off a convo, I was thinking of changing my current song on Tinder to this:


Y’all think it’s a turn-off or good indication of my tone/describes what I’m on?
 

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I ain’t got a mouthpiece
I ain’t manipulative
Help me I want to be on that demon time!
Love is for suckas and r&b songs

Y’all don’t really want your brotha Ro in pain, right? I want to smile too.

Develop a mouthpiece, no one is born with all infinity gems. You have to acquire them over time, with trial and error, more so, experience. You need only succeed once, don't fear failure. And don't ever assume you'll be on demon time, that's for a specific set of men who tap into the psychopathic nature of humans. Beyond that, become undeniable, inevitable.


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from that no more mr nice guy book i recommended above


An integrated male possesses many of the following attributes

He has a strong sense of self. He likes himself just as he is.

He takes responsibility for getting his own needs met.

He is comfortable with his masculinity and his sexuality,

He has integrity. He does what is right, not what is expedient

He is a leader. He is willing to provide for and protect those he cares about.

He is clear, direct, and expressive of his feelings.

He can be nurturing and giving without caretaking or problem-solving.

He knows how to set boundaries and is not afraid to work through conflict.

An integrated male doesn't strive to be perfect or gain the approval of others. Instead, he accepts himself just as he is, warts and all.

An integrated male accepts that he is perfectly imperfect.
 

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It’s hard to be myself. I know you nikkas keep saying go see a therapist but man I need to get dome soon from a shorty.

bytches so judgemental and cold. Maybe I need new interests and hobbies that will make me interesting. Rn I think I may be too boring.

Go to therapy and take a break. Women feel this energy and will get turned off.

Work on yourself. You aren’t ready for women right now.

Get a better job.
Get in shape.
Clear your mind with a therapist.
Find your passion.
Practice speaking & body language.
Work on your style too. Grown man shyt. Not a member of Griselda.

All of this will make you confident & bring you better results.
 
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