Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[eXodus]

Same lmao. Plus it's too annoying tryna remember which bytch said what shyt

Plus bytches be crazy and irrational.

One of the chicks i was fukkin with was still actively dealing with her ex. Cool, no problem.. you not my girl, do you.

she comes through and sees a strand of hair from another chick at the crib and gets upset. Saying I shoulda told her I was fukkin another broad.

I’m like bish is you serious ?? We not in no relationship and you dealing with another dude, what did you really expect, that I don’t have a rotation? I don’t gotta give you no update on wtf I’m doing



This chick legitimately tried to make a case, saying I lied to her by not informing her when this shyt is clearly non-monogamous

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Honesty is the best way. I’m sure she’ll respect you for it.

Or maybe she gets angry lol

you are completely right man. Not only for her sake, but for mine. It would be weak stringing a woman along knowing I just want ass.

ties back to one of the themes this thread preaches: knowing what you want

 

[VertigoKnight]

took a better route and decided to be a man about it. We scheduled tomorrow to talk and I’ll lay down exactly what I want. Should of done that from jumped instead of trying to be a smooth talker

Best way to do it.

I did it last year, we met, and smashed, she was blowing up my phone trying to arrange things but I wasn’t feeling it. Usually I would have just ghosted but I told her in as nice a way as possible

That at this time me and her were not going to go further.

Tbh I was expecting her to be angry or do that passive aggressive shyt, but she thanked me for being upfront, said she was disappointed but she understood.

 

[CountryBoyL]

I can’t front, it feels good to be connecting with new females on these apps. Let’s a nikka know he still got it ya feel me?

 

[jesc07]

Best way to do it.

I did it last year, we met, and smashed, she was blowing up my phone trying to arrange things but I wasn’t feeling it. Usually I would have just ghosted but I told her in as nice a way as possible

That at this time me and her were not going to go further.

Tbh I was expecting her to be angry or do that passive aggressive shyt, but she thanked me for being upfront, said she was disappointed but she understood.

If you would've ghosted then you'd probably catch an accusation or fake pregnancy scare. Be careful out there.

 

[VertigoKnight]

What happened to the good ol days where playboys get second chances because he turned it around


In my defense I tried helping her and being supportive and also just tried hanging out with her but she kept pushing me away

but I wish I didn’t do all those hookups

When a chick genuinely going through it and she backs up. Best thing you can do is also back up. Seeing you is just going to make it worst tbh. That means no messages no how are you texts, dead things. She either comes back round and if you both into each other it can pick up or you’ll never hear from her again.

As for the playa stuff. You messed up by fukking around with women who know her that was a major error.

I bet you none of those hookups were even that satisfactory for you either.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Best way to do it.

I did it last year, we met, and smashed, she was blowing up my phone trying to arrange things but I wasn’t feeling it. Usually I would have just ghosted but I told her in as nice a way as possible

That at this time me and her were not going to go further.

Tbh I was expecting her to be angry or do that passive aggressive shyt, but she thanked me for being upfront, said she was disappointed but she understood.

same exact boat. Wants to come up here to see me for my birthday, planning our date, and she sent me an application for a scholarship since I mentioned I want to go after more.

I know it’s the cool thing now to “sell these women a dream” and “kick em to the curb” but ion think my heart that cold to do that to someone who actually enjoys my company. Maybe I’m just a dweeb I put blame on myself for pillow talking and not understanding some people still value the words you say.

just got to tell her straight.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I can’t front, it feels good to be connecting with new females on these apps. Let’s a nikka know he still got it ya feel me?

Are you actually meeting up/setting up a date with these women, or are you getting matches with ~5 messages in the conversations?

I had that initial hit when I first hopped on the apps… then I had to remind myself I’m handsome and well groomed so it makes sense I would get swiped right on.

 

[CountryBoyL]

Are you actually meeting up/setting up a date with these women, or are you getting matches with ~5 messages in the conversations?

I had that initial hit when I first hopped on the apps… then I had to remind myself I’m handsome and well groomed so it makes sense I would get swiped right on.

well I only been on a few days breh but yea just messages for now. Of course I know I’m handsome gang, I guess I’m speaking about just chatting with ransoms after being in a relationship for a min. Plus I moved to the DMV area this time last year from the 757 so I’ve been lowkey hyped to try this area out dating wise if my relationship failed (which it just did). Too many women out here breh

 

[VertigoKnight]

same exact boat. Wants to come up here to see me for my birthday, planning our date, and she sent me an application for a scholarship since I mentioned I want to go after more.

I know it’s the cool thing now to “sell these women a dream” and “kick em to the curb” but ion think my heart that cold to do that to someone who actually enjoys my company. Maybe I’m just a dweeb I put blame on myself for pillow talking and not understanding some people still value the words you say.

just got to tell her straight.

Better she know you’re a decent guy instead of continuing to sell her a dream and fukk her over, thus creating another damaged bitter broad out here.

It will hurt her briefly, but she’ll also respect you having some integrity.

 

[Capitol]

I really need to stop getting caught up with these jawns at work. I was a loner for so long I don't meet/know where to meet other woman tho. I'll just look at this as another learning experience and try to grow out of my awkwardness I suppose. If I was more upfront instead of doing the "friend/try to get to know them" shyt I would have saved some time

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

yeah right

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

When a chick genuinely going through it and she backs up. Best thing you can do is also back up. Seeing you is just going to make it worst tbh. That means no messages no how are you texts, dead things. She either comes back round and if you both into each other it can pick up or you’ll never hear from her again.

As for the playa stuff. You messed up by fukking around with women who know her that was a major error.

I bet you none of those hookups were even that satisfactory for you either.

fukk no breh. Every time I had did it shyt felt like a void.


I told my co-workers about it and one of them (female) helped me send a message today that she actually responded to. I just apologized again and told her a bunch of other shyt.

told her to have a good day and that I would like to take her out to eat whenever she’s free but I understand how busy she is and I went back to where I’m currently living.


She mostly one worded me but shyt that’s progress so I stopped responding because I didn’t wanna over talk my boundaries. The girls at my job said if they were in her shoes they would have blocked me from everything a long ass time ago



I’ve just been laying low from all social media and all nonsense so maybe things will turn around between us


It’s a start

 

[CountryBoyL]

How often brehs pulling away from their girl just a lil bit, to give them a reason to miss you?

I unconsciously do this from time to time, and it actually keeps her coming after me. I dont smother her and I have a lot of things going on in my life. So its nothing for me to just stop talking for a day or two, leading her to come after me tryna spend time with me.

Just throwing that out there cause I think a lot of brehs do what I did back when I was a young simp. Was always on my woman's bumper, always up in her face. And surprise surprise those women wouldn't be feeling me no more after awhile.

Compared to now, where im not stuntin any woman and I have important things happening so I tend to disappear here and there. And next thing I know, I'm getting nudes in my phone.

Just thought I would share this.

whole time your right. Even when I shared a crib with my ex I noticed that whenever I kinda stayed reserved and wasn’t “all in the music video” so to speak. She would jump on a nikka in a heartbeat and be more engaged

 

[VertigoKnight]

How often brehs pulling away from their girl just a lil bit, to give them a reason to miss you?

I unconsciously do this from time to time, and it actually keeps her coming after me. I dont smother her and I have a lot of things going on in my life. So its nothing for me to just stop talking for a day or two, leading her to come after me tryna spend time with me.

Just throwing that out there cause I think a lot of brehs do what I did back when I was a young simp. Was always on my woman's bumper, always up in her face. And surprise surprise those women wouldn't be feeling me no more after awhile.

Compared to now, where im not stuntin any woman and I have important things happening so I tend to disappear here and there. And next thing I know, I'm getting nudes in my phone.

Just thought I would share this.

Its good to have some space from one another. I was also unconsciously pulling away during the week as I was working or doing my own thing, and midweek she’d message and say she was missing me and wanted to hear my voice.

I much prefer a 5-10 min phone call over back and forth texts.