Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Killigraphy]

Once you move into different cribs the relationship is done lol. It’s like going backwards.

It takes a special higher level kind of guy to be able to pull that off.

You're essentially in High School mode all over again. Which is nice for the freedom. But there will be times where there's a power struggle. I myself don't like going to a bird's house for more than just a fukk n go. But if you're gonna be playing boyfriend, you have to be ready to be very cold, even so far as having to leave her house every time...that's to annoying for me, so I don't have any advice for that scenario. I don't like relinquishing power to anyone, let alone some broad, but, to also be fair, I never had to. Any woman who lets me into her house, knows its party time, She wants me there, more than she doesn't....

Still, I rather everything be in my domain/space. More control, easier to leave and in general they have to show their hand. Now if its just a quick fukk/movie? Sure, I suppose thats the gem right there, but its reliant on your easily walking away from the scenario.

 

[CountryBoyL]

yall had kids together?

Na I have custody of my 2 kids from a prior relationship

 

[J.E.T.S]

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.

I’m trying my best to be happy with the new chick and stop watching my ex new life.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

 

[Rozay Oro]

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.

I’m trying my best to be happy with the new chick and stop watching my ex new life.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

TIME HEALS ALL [ROMANCE BASED] WOUNDS. Word to all the coli brehs and brehettes who reached out to me when shawty broke my heart in August.

You got it pimpin!!!

 

[Apollo Creed]

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.

I’m trying my best to be happy with the new chick and stop watching my ex new life.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

this is why we tell brehs to sit the hell down alone for a few months after a break up. You shouldnt be dealing with another woman until you have your ex out your system. You dont even want another woman, you just afraid of being alone and that is a state of weakness

 

[BadBoy]

What y’all think of chicks that date dudes 20 years older then them. Y’all think it’s any hope for em

 

[CountryBoyL]

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.

I’m trying my best to be happy with the new chick and stop watching my ex new life.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

breh stop following shorty on ig and stop stalking the ring doorbell. Simple as that. Yes you gonna hurt but your not helping yourself by still checking on her through the internet and shyt. As far as rocking with the new shorty, either rock with her fully or don’t at all if you still stuck on ya ex. Don’t waste her time or the time you could be spending working on yourself for a better version of you. My nikka we all go through this hurting phase after a break up but we got to keep on pushing and make it as easy as we can on ourselves.

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

What y’all think of chicks that date dudes 20 years older then them. Y’all think it’s any hope for em

I would think they want someone whose more financially stable and established credit . But I’m thinking they just want a wallet with legs

 

[Apollo Creed]

What y’all think of chicks that date dudes 20 years older then them. Y’all think it’s any hope for em

I think they are smart

 

[RawDogBandit]

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.

I’m trying my best to be happy with the new chick and stop watching my ex new life.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

I mean..cmon breh. You know better. It's time to let her go for the betterment of your mental and emotional health. Moving on too fast, knocking down new women doesn't always help, especially when you've been in a long term relationship. We've all mostly been there. It only satisfies us for a few moments.

DELETE the doorbell camera app before the new year unless you want to wake up at 2 am, check the app and see another nikka walking in about to handle business, and then your emotions may get the better of you and will end up seeing you on social media trending

You know what to do as a man. Look into some new hobbies, hit the gym, read, redirect your focus,etc You know the routine. You've been on here constantly. A new, better woman will come into your life soon enough to compliment who you are as a man and you won't have to build.

The cheating we don't need to address, we all understand the possible consequences as men when we do it. She made her choice, and it sounds like you were checking out either way. Let her go. None of us are perfect. Hell I checked my ex's Twitter earlier in a moment of weakness, I admonished myself and now I'm moving on. If you go crawling back she'll have you on edge constantly. And you will as well.

And yea she probably is fukking someone else, so what? Accept it and shrug it off. Nothing you can do, and it's none of your business. Instill this in your mentality and trust me you'll be better off. I know right now you don't want to look at it this way, but my April/May if you lock in, you'll be a whole brand new man

 

[RawDogBandit]

What y’all think of chicks that date dudes 20 years older then them. Y’all think it’s any hope for em

Security measures, simple as that in my opinion. I'm not going to attack them or down them. We all know the game. Hell the way society is headed breh I wouldn't be surprised if were to see an increase all across the board. Men love youth/beauty, women with hardly any baggage, and women love maturity on a man who has his shyt together.

 

[Ahadi]

I mean..cmon breh. You know better. It's time to let her go for the betterment of your mental and emotional health. Moving on too fast, knocking down new women doesn't always help, especially when you've been in a long term relationship. We've all mostly been there. It only satisfies us for a few moments.

DELETE the doorbell camera app before the new year unless you want to wake up at 2 am, check the app and see another nikka walking in about to handle business, and then your emotions may get the better of you and will end up seeing you on social media trending

 

[Malik1time]

What’s y’all take on the struggles of moving on?

I’m struggling heavy. I have a girl that I’m dealing with, but I can stop thinking about my ex.

I’ve been moved out the house we shared for about a month now, no contact. We haven’t had any intimacy since I got caught cheating back in July.

I keep checking her IG and shyt… she be posting stuff about dating and she been out of town a couple of times. She definitely fukking someone else because she spend the night away from the house like once a week. Can’t bring myself to uninstall the doorbell camera because umma nosy stalker ass obsessed nikka right now still in his feelings.

I’m trying my best to be happy with the new chick and stop watching my ex new life.



It hurts and I can’t even enjoy my favorite foods at the moment. Stomach be gurgling n shyt… no appetite. Can’t sleep. Tryna not to go out sad like Kanye lol

I understand that cheating was wrong and that’s her excuse, but even before then, after she finally got her life together she started acting funny with the p*ssy and trying to call shots. Being all difficult and combative. Got super cocky like she can get any nikka to take care of her. After I built her up and took care of the household.

shyt makes me mad on god

Trust me breh “new p*ssy” don’t work after my breakup 2 years ago I ran on this thread screaming “ducking new women after a breakup don’t work” made me feel like shyt but forreal time head the wounds… I haven’t dated anyone in 2-3 years I took the time to heal and not bring pst trauma to a new relationship am I ready to seriously date again ? I’m not sure yet

 

[Malik1time]

@J.E.T.S futhermore you will experience triggers of her that will make you sad trust me I was there don’t hold a grudge don’t seek revenge the best revenge is success and don’t brag about it just continue driving the road called life and don’t change your character stay who you are don’t continue cycle of “ man she broke my heart now imma be a dikk to women now”

 

[BadBoy]

I would think they want someone whose more financially stable and established credit . But I’m thinking they just want a wallet with legs

The guy is 45 and lives with a roommate