Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How do I get an old ho that will spoil me rotten?

Beyond social media (which they do use more often than the young broads), always hang around lounges or wine tasting spots. And I mean an actual lounge, and not a night club where everyone is jumping up and down. These old birds rather drink and sit than dance. Speaking of, depending on your city/location, Salsa clubs are teeming with old birds. You might even find a decent 7-8. Though keep in mind, if she's been in that club for a while, she's more than likely fukked one of the guys there. As for getting them to spend money on you, the biggest lure, is getting them some kind of trinket. And I mean some $5-10 piece of "aw-cute/typical girl bait" trinket. For me, its been a keychain. As silly as it sounds, broads are essentially children, so ask for a favorite what-ever-da-fukk, and find a keychain of it on Amazon. For me its been Nightmare Before Christmas, all their merch is broad bait in general.

From then on in, I mention how I'm a collector of all sorts, from watches, boots, to fukking pocket squares. When on a date, mention how you're a great gift receiver; "if its a gift, I'll wear it all the time". Now most people will joke about it, but I actually do put on gifts if they happen to be thoughtful or nice, a bird will see this as a small challenge of sorts, and see if you're really about that life. This is how I got my first gold bracelet at 18, eventually I was getting watches, rings, etc. To put it simply, the Benjamin Franklin Effect. When receiving a gift, be extremely thankful afterwards, said mark will always want to give you something else, one; because its the "nice" thing to do, and it feeds their ego, self importance and all that. Women add the element of it making you theirs. So it works on various levels.

Also keep in mind that when I say "old" I mean it in the most loose way, for me, once a broad is early to mid 30's, she old. To you, that still might be young, either way, implore the tactic. At around these ages, women have been through the ho phase, have had a couple of kids, and are happy anyone is paying attention to them. Even the pretty ones. Once they hit 30, someone knocks the light out, and they either get fat or just unhealthy as a whole. So, when they see a young bull like me, it reminds them of the youth they once wasted. And while I'm not 20 anymore, I'm literally better than their carfax of Jeromes and Julios from the bodega. All that is a 1-2-3 combo that knocks their ovaries around and makes em want to spend on me.
 

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I blocked breh but the most important thing I learned is to NEVER mention the age difference. Like, ever. No jokes, no brief side comment, nothing.

EDIT: negs don’t mean shyt to me bruh :laff:ignored you because all you do is cry like a bytch and disregard everyone’s advice. I just thought the older women topic was interesting
 
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I blocked breh but the most important thing I learned is to NEVER mention the age difference. Like, ever. No jokes, no brief side comment, nothing.

EDIT: negs don’t mean shyt to me bruh :laff:ignored you because all you do is cry like a bytch and disregard everyone’s advice. I just thought the older women topic was interesting

You're always gonna have detractors or just guys who really don't have any game, they've just been lucky, or bitter. I tell every guy on here; be a sponge, formless, be water. Your job is to always be learning. I don't care how much p*ssy I get, how many women talk to me, etc, I'm always in learning mode. From the micro to the macro, anything that I can add to the repertoire is vital to me.
 

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Fellas if a bytch is struggling in any way when you meet her, I don’t care how fine she is, do not help her or start a relationship.

Once she gets straight and get all her issues squared away, she gonna get cocky as fukk. Gonna probably force you out with disrespect and manipulation… then go do what she REALLY been wanting to do.

I’m speaking from hurt and truth. I didn’t listen to others that said the same thing, but it happened just how they said it would. :francis:
 
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Well me and shorty are officially over. I could feel the energy shift the past few weeks since we moved into our own cribs and shyt. My gut was telling me she was only being nice and cordial the last 5 weeks since we still was living in our townhome together. But once we started moving stuff I could feel it. So I called her this morning and checked her on it and sure enough the whole “dating while living separate” deal was off the table . Broad pulled all types of petty reasons as to why she couldn’t move forward. Lowkey blew me with the bullshyt as I took her as a woman that kept it real but instead she was playing me to the very end until our final walk through inspection with our old landlord smh. We gave each other our apartment keys back today and that was that. :francis:
 

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Well me and shorty are officially over. I could feel the energy shift the past few weeks since we moved into our own cribs and shyt. My gut was telling me she was only being nice and cordial the last 5 weeks since we still was living in our townhome together. But once we started moving stuff I could feel it. So I called her this morning and checked her on it and sure enough the whole “dating while living separate” deal was off the table . Broad pulled all types of petty reasons as to why she couldn’t move forward. Lowkey blew me with the bullshyt as I took her as a woman that kept it real but instead she was playing me to the very end until our final walk through inspection with our old landlord smh. We gave each other our apartment keys back today and that was that. :francis:

how long was y’all together?
 

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Once you move into different cribs the relationship is done lol. It’s like going backwards.

It takes a special higher level kind of guy to be able to pull that off.
 

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You're always gonna have detractors or just guys who really don't have any game, they've just been lucky, or bitter. I tell every guy on here; be a sponge, formless, be water. Your job is to always be learning. I don't care how much p*ssy I get, how many women talk to me, etc, I'm always in learning mode. From the micro to the macro, anything that I can add to the repertoire is vital to me.

Absolute gem right here! There’s something to learn from anybody you come across. This thread is always my go-to anytime I log on to here. I feel it goes beyond women, even though it’s the main focus.


Fellas if a bytch is struggling in any way when you meet her, I don’t care how fine she is, do not help her or start a relationship.

Once she gets straight and get all her issues squared away, she gonna get cocky as fukk. Gonna probably force you out with disrespect and manipulation… then go do what she REALLY been wanting to do.

I experienced this with a chick a while back. Met her when she wasn’t shyt, we broke it off when she started feeling herself. She showed me both men and women put a facade on their life. All that energy portrayed in public isn’t the same when you’re alone and sit in your thoughts. That’s why I’m glad this thread preaching knowing yourself, being comfortable with you, and being the best you.

Well me and shorty are officially over. I could feel the energy shift the past few weeks since we moved into our own cribs and shyt. My gut was telling me she was only being nice and cordial the last 5 weeks since we still was living in our townhome together. But once we started moving stuff I could feel it. So I called her this morning and checked her on it and sure enough the whole “dating while living separate” deal was off the table . Broad pulled all types of petty reasons as to why she couldn’t move forward. Lowkey blew me with the bullshyt as I took her as a woman that kept it real but instead she was playing me to the very end until our final walk through inspection with our old landlord smh. We gave each other our apartment keys back today and that was that. :francis:

A new leaf has been turned my guy. CountryBoyW moving forward. Renovate whatever crib you at now, update ya wardrobe, dunno how in tune you are with yourself but get more in tune :sas1:
 
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Absolute gem right here! There’s something to learn from anybody you come across. This thread is always my go-to anytime I log on to here. I feel it goes beyond women, even though it’s the main focus.




I experienced this with a chick a while back. Met her when she wasn’t shyt, we broke it off when she started feeling herself. She showed me both men and women put a facade on their life. All that energy portrayed in public isn’t the same when you’re alone and sit in your thoughts. That’s why I’m glad this thread preaching knowing yourself, being comfortable with you, and being the best you.



A new leaf has been turned my guy. CountryBoyW moving forward. Renovate whatever crib you at now, update ya wardrobe, dunno how in tune you are with yourself but get more in tune :sas1:

I’d like to think I’m pretty in tune with myself. I’m actually starting a diary to vent thoughts off on. I have started to read and or listen to audio books. I just got done registering for classes for a certificate in computer networking at university of Maryland global campus. I’m almost done getting my project management certificate from them as well. My wardrobe is always ready so I’m good there. Just gonna focus on my kids and just slang iron on these broads from time to time:shaq:
 

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I’d like to think I’m pretty in tune with myself. I’m actually starting a diary to vent thoughts off on. I have started to read and or listen to audio books. I just got done registering for classes for a certificate in computer networking at university of Maryland global campus. I’m almost done getting my project management certificate from them as well. My wardrobe is always ready so I’m good there. Just gonna focus on my kids and just slang iron on these broads from time to time:shaq:
Skip the course. Grab CCNA, Azure networking, or aws networking cert. Go read the IT thread if you really tryna eat.
 

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I’d like to think I’m pretty in tune with myself. I’m actually starting a diary to vent thoughts off on. I have started to read and or listen to audio books. I just got done registering for classes for a certificate in computer networking at university of Maryland global campus. I’m almost done getting my project management certificate from them as well. My wardrobe is always ready so I’m good there. Just gonna focus on my kids and just slang iron on these broads from time to time:shaq:
yall had kids together?
 

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I’d like to think I’m pretty in tune with myself. I’m actually starting a diary to vent thoughts off on

Journalizing has always been the wave. You read your thoughts from a few weeks ago like “damn, I was on THAT type of time? :huhldup:

I got two journals: one’s for thoughts and one’s for my opinions on things I go through or see
 
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