she is using you breh. Block her number and delete the contact.
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she is using you breh. Block her number and delete the contact.
Wargames
One Of The Last Real Ones To Do It
I’ve seen it."breaks"
yall love confusion.
What’s the poetic saying “Familiarity breeds contempt and absense makes the heart grow fonder”.
Committed couples take a break, get their slut on, and come back and get married OR they meet someone else and the relationship is over. The important part is don’t talk about the people you are fukking. Like she is talking about this other guy only to manipulate @Boxing&Jesus. It’s clear she is manipulating him, but Flipside he got to decide if what she is offering is what he really wants.
breh only person you listen to is God and right now he looking at you in disgust. He aint put you on earth and bless you with life to do this to yourself. Breh read what you just typed
1.career focused
2.hyphen name
3.social media makes me feel....
Agreed. He clearly is worried about a lot of stuff besides what he wants. Also that Hyphen name shyt is pure GTFO status.
RealCrownHeights
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breh only person you listen to is God and right now he looking at you in disgust. He aint put you on earth and bless you with life to do this to yourself. Breh read what you just typed
1.career focused
2.hyphen name
3.social media makes me feel....
Career-focused as far as she always wanted to have a nice life and a career. Her resume is impressive and she's always been about her paper. That's one of the things I learned from her, I can really be ambitious and get to the bag. But she knows that will not come at the expense of the relationship, she wants someone to help motivate her and push her and vice versa.
Yea the hyphen thing I was big against. But she explained it like Beyonce-Knowles Carter, Kim Kardashian West, her name is like a brand because she wants to be in media, but the kids would just have my last name.
Social Media and her real life-2 totally different backgrounds- her parent's together college-educated, she's in a sorority, and some of the older ones are married and have kids, as well as people from her high school and of course the celebrity's etc
Me- I never really saw that and I'm not on social like that but I did see the matching pajamas and shyt yesterday and proposals etc. I feel pressured because she is like you are pushing 30. Even the pastor and his son were married before 30
RealCrownHeights
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RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Hoping don’t do anything for you g. Cut your losses and move on. Easier said than done, but it’s necessary.
Dude, stop letting her pressure you. 28 is a great age for a man. You can date older, younger or women the same age. There's so many women out there. And your prospective sounds limited. Hinge hoes, are just that, meaningless sex. Keep it at that. Find a woman you vibe with. That's hard shyt, but this girl is blatantly manipulating you.
I personally wouldn't even let her use me for sex, if I still some sort of attachment. The truth is, if you really start to pull away, watch her try to come back into picture, because you're gaining leverage by not giving a fukk.
And let's keep it 100, you Don't even really want her, you want to win the competition.
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RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Hoping don’t do anything for you g. Cut your losses and move on. Easier said than done, but it’s necessary.
RealCrownHeights
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The reason I say she's not using me is that because she say's she doesn't want me to do anything drastic if they date, knowing my past mental battles. And that she loves me, I'm her first real love etc
RealCrownHeights
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You are right. Hinge is a cesspool, I figured with things wild in NYC it would be the best option.
And I don't really go out like that to meet chicks and my best friend is mostly on the white girls .
Think I need a break, and get my mind right and focus on myself but horny calls too.
I'll pull away though
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
man she’s trying to soften the blow due to your past mental battles. It literally sounds like she’s breaking it off slowly and carefully.
RealCrownHeights
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I think she's trying hedge her bets, so if one dude don't work out, she can easily hop onto the next, but she don't even seem like she like either dude truthfully. She just likes the attention.
Like for me, what I would really question is, if she was doing the same throughout their "official" relationship, which she probably was.
And that alone is why I wouldnt fukk wit her, those times when she was unavailable, sleep, wit her friends, or "busy" she was really getting dug out by some other dude.
breh no woman is carer focused.Its all cap to make up for them lacking femininity. Trust me the moment she gets her wedding and baby shower IG likes she gonna shift her whole mindset up on you and not wanna split bills or anything and call her self wanting to be 'traditional'. You are green enough for her to get it off on you too by the looks of it. God literally saving your life getting you out of that situation and you keep rejecting your blessing lol. You made it out with no kids and no financial obligations to her man. You need more like a year alone rather than 6 months.
I may sound harsh but I rather be an a$$hole than you ruin your life and family court have you suicidal or worse.
you're in NYC, man eff them goofy ass apps (apps should be used passively not actively, as in leave it up, maybe check once a week, send out mass messages and a few days later see who responds).
being in NYC you should be out and about, doing things YOU ENJOY, thus you will be in proximity of women with similar interest, thus you can strike up organic conversation opposed to weird ass ugly dude 'cold approaching'. Dont ever exalt these chicks man, they humans just like you.
let me research this brother
I already know you're about to drop the ether
But this brother needs it.
We just trying look out for him.
