Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It’s a shytty cycle to be in. To be honest, it’s something I’m working on. Can grasp the concept, but putting it into action is a struggle for me

idle time usually is what gets folks. Gives your mind time to wonder then next thing you know you start making bad/impulsive decisions whether its sex or the over consumption of things.

First step is find ways to fill your time with doing something + also get comfortable with being solo. While doing this you will come to discovery what you actually want.
 

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idle time usually is what gets folks. Gives your mind time to wonder then next thing you know you start making bad/impulsive decisions whether its sex or the over consumption of things.

First step is find ways to fill your time with doing something + also get comfortable with being solo. While doing this you will come to discovery what you actually want.

Getting comfortable with being solo definitely took me some time, it still does get to me. But, usually that gets triggered by something shytty happening beforehand
 

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I'm finally starting to realize I need to work on my self-esteem more than anything.

I been working in a different dept at my job and it's mainly been me and this chick working together.

We talk regular normal stuff.

One day she's telling me about how our boss described me when I wasn't there and goes

"Oh Mandarin Duck, I love him....I mean I like him. He's a great worker."

First I was like "eh it's just a mistake."

Then today we having a luncheon for somebody leaving and we talking sitting next to each other.

She gets up to go get some food and touches my shoulder, then does the finger swipe across my back to my other shoulder.

I'm thinking like
"Well damn. She's laying it on pretty heavy now"

I'm not interested, plus she's married so I'm leaving it alone, but the fact that she was even feeling me makes me feel like "damn I need to stop thinking I'm so ugly"
 

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when you have stuff to lose and actually love yourself you move different. Every time you have sex you risk slipping up with pregnancy. Lotta the dudes dealing with mentally ill chicks for the sake of having a roster or getting sex don't really love themselves.

A sane breh rather go do something else and abort mission than to play games just to get a nut.

Facts. Which reminds me:




Now me and locario are real cool but I disagree here and we respectfully debated off air about this. Im like man you BETTER care about her body count and research who you dealing with because alot of these chicks mental health is fukked. Plus they lowkey alcoholics, drug addicts, prostitutes and all. One false move can fukk your whole shyt up.
 

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I'm finally starting to realize I need to work on my self-esteem more than anything.

I been working in a different dept at my job and it's mainly been me and this chick working together.

We talk regular normal stuff.

One day she's telling me about how our boss described me when I wasn't there and goes

"Oh Mandarin Duck, I love him....I mean I like him. He's a great worker."

First I was like "eh it's just a mistake."

Then today we having a luncheon for somebody leaving and we talking sitting next to each other.

She gets up to go get some food and touches my shoulder, then does the finger swipe across my back to my other shoulder.

I'm thinking like
"Well damn. She's laying it on pretty heavy now"

I'm not interested, plus she's married so I'm leaving it alone,
but the fact that she was even feeling me makes me feel like "damn I need to stop thinking I'm so ugly"

You're a stronger man than me. I would've been up immediately after her and taking her to the bathroom :wow:
 

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Facts. Which reminds me:




Now me and locario are real cool but I disagree here and we respectfully debated off air about this. Im like man you BETTER care about her body count and research who you dealing with because alot of these chicks mental health is fukked. Plus they lowkey alcoholics, drug addicts, prostitutes and all. One false move can fukk your whole shyt up.

You cant ever really know a chicks body count tho
 

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Now me and locario are real cool but I disagree here and we respectfully debated off air about this. Im like man you BETTER care about her body count and research who you dealing with because alot of these chicks mental health is fukked. Plus they lowkey alcoholics, drug addicts, prostitutes and all. One false move can fukk your whole shyt up.

you got to remember: the subject matter of these redpill gurus are the men who are oblivious to how woman are & believe they are princesses. He has a point from an ego perspective. Men find out their girl has been slutted out in her past life and their entire world crumbles.

but for LOGICAL men who already know adult women have sexual intercourse, understanding their history & viewpoint on it is crucial to a relationship. Has she been abused or assaulted before? If she was the college slut in her 20s, why is she locking access to the p*ssy in her 30s? If she’s devoted to her religion and her religion has guidelines, does she follow them? shyt, I didn’t even mention STDs

It’s complete hoe/simp babble if anyone questions your concern with how your significant other views sex. I’m starting to learn people like to flip-flop on how important sex is. One day it’s the most intimate, physical experience two people can have… the next day it’s just simple one act that means nothing.
 

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I'm finally starting to realize I need to work on my self-esteem more than anything.

I been working in a different dept at my job and it's mainly been me and this chick working together.

We talk regular normal stuff.

One day she's telling me about how our boss described me when I wasn't there and goes

"Oh Mandarin Duck, I love him....I mean I like him. He's a great worker."

First I was like "eh it's just a mistake."

Then today we having a luncheon for somebody leaving and we talking sitting next to each other.

She gets up to go get some food and touches my shoulder, then does the finger swipe across my back to my other shoulder.

I'm thinking like
"Well damn. She's laying it on pretty heavy now"

I'm not interested, plus she's married so I'm leaving it alone, but the fact that she was even feeling me makes me feel like "damn I need to stop thinking I'm so ugly"

Smart move breh :ufdup:
 

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Facts. Which reminds me:




Now me and locario are real cool but I disagree here and we respectfully debated off air about this. Im like man you BETTER care about her body count and research who you dealing with because alot of these chicks mental health is fukked. Plus they lowkey alcoholics, drug addicts, prostitutes and all. One false move can fukk your whole shyt up.


if you just having fun yeah it doesnt matter, but for a wife? Yeah it matters.
 

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Facts. Which reminds me:




Now me and locario are real cool but I disagree here and we respectfully debated off air about this. Im like man you BETTER care about her body count and research who you dealing with because alot of these chicks mental health is fukked. Plus they lowkey alcoholics, drug addicts, prostitutes and all. One false move can fukk your whole shyt up.



This. I would tell and show him stats, that have been around a long time. While men are more promiscuous. Women have more mental health issues than men. This combined with frivolity/sex at a young age, and you might get a bird with plenty of STD's and mental illness than you're prepared to deal with. To put it simply, men happen to think before they fukk, unlike women. So the tired stereotype that men only think with their dikks, is a fallacy at this point. Women are literally and scientifically, horrible at making key decisions when it comes to sex, this of course, trickles down. Her body count matters because she might have something, still be fukking around with said simps/scumbags and of course, will have kids.

While more men drink than women around the world, women tend to abuse all types of substances depending on their work. Nurses for example, will dabble into Amphetamines, sleeping pills, tranquilizers, etc. Her body count will be indicative of her past and present behavior. Its vital.
 

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That is just a sign of a woman wanting dikk or emotional support. Like she got horny or lonely and is reaching out.

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Back when I had no self restraint a bytch could pull this on me, and my young horny ass would be cool cause it meant I was back in play for some puzzy.

I learnt you gotta make these women live with their decisions. We all say women have no accountability but we are to blame sometimes by letting them get away with stunts like this. Actions have to have consequences.

You ghosted or chose up on another man...cool but stay over there....

Can't play both sides when it doesn't work out for you over there:ufdup:
 

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Back when I had no self restraint a bytch could pull this on me, and my young horny ass would be cool cause it meant I was back in play for some puzzy.

I learnt you gotta make these women live with their decisions. We all say women have no accountability but we are to blame sometimes by letting them get away with stunts like this. Actions have to have consequences.

You ghosted or chose up on another man...cool but stay over there....

Can't play both sides when it doesn't work out for you over there:ufdup:
Yup no take backs.
 

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Back when I had no self restraint a bytch could pull this on me, and my young horny ass would be cool cause it meant I was back in play for some puzzy.

I learnt you gotta make these women live with their decisions. We all say women have no accountability but we are to blame sometimes by letting them get away with stunts like this. Actions have to have consequences.

You ghosted or chose up on another man...cool but stay over there....

Can't play both sides when it doesn't work out for you over there:ufdup:
Yup and when you show her you are unbothered by her leaving…watch how fast they try to get your attention back :russ: they really are all the same :francis:
 
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