Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I’m not saying like an r&b song. Actually want to be around me besides just sex. I got over 10 matches on my new tinder and I don’t even bother. I just want more than hook ups. We all want company
 

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I’m not saying like an r&b song. Actually want to be around me besides just sex. I got over 10 matches on my new tinder and I don’t even bother. I just want more than hook ups. We all want company

that wording was just off. Can’t nobody do anything for you, nonetheless love you.

why are you looking at your crew for comparison? Why are you still on Tinder?
 

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You invite a chick over for the first time and she says “we ain’t doing nothing “.

should I still let her come over and try to make my move or is she bush status?
 

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You invite a chick over for the first time and she says “we ain’t doing nothing “.

should I still let her come over and try to make my move or is she bush status?

Bush, don’t even try to entertain that. But on the flip side, I’ve hit a few times when they said that.
 
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Nothin breh, I just get mad I can’t make a brehette love me. I just be going to bed with a dry phone. Meanwhile all my nikkas got a bytch.

Act busy or be busy. Being too needy & available makes them dry up.

You should only be contacting bytches on Mon - Thursday

Fri - Sat is for your ppl & guaranteed box / or if you want to go to a bar alone.

Sun - Chill day for yourself
 

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You should only be contacting bytches on Mon - Thursday

solid point. To go further, end the talking after a certain time. Preferably around Midnight. I’ve had a shordi hit me with a “don’t you got somewhere to be tomorrow?” basically entertaining me cause she bored & her main nikka went lights out a few hours earlier. Plus it does make it seems you don’t have shyt going on the next day.

these hoes don’t appreciate them late night phone calls like the olde days :to:
 

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solid point. To go further, end the talking after a certain time. Preferably around Midnight. I’ve had a shordi hit me with a “don’t you got somewhere to be tomorrow?” basically entertaining me cause she bored & her main nikka went lights out a few hours earlier. Plus it does make it seems you don’t have shyt going on the next day.

these hoes don’t appreciate them late night phone calls like the olde days :to:

Yup! 11pm - midnight I would stop contacting, in their minds they’re thinking you’re hooking up with another joint and they’re position is slipping.

Friday / Saturday you are gone. Radio silence You disappeared, you’re busy, you’re out. That’s get enough really nervous.

It’s critical also that YOU cut the call, like you mentioned, it makes you look better.

Nah phone calls don’t work no more lol, just did that and even if you don’t say much, you lose a bit of “mystery”, I even tried the FT and sometimes joints get too comfortable to the point where they don’t need to meet you anymore. Phone calls only for scheduling meet ups.
 
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You invite a chick over for the first time and she says “we ain’t doing nothing “.

should I still let her come over and try to make my move or is she bush status?

You trippin breh.
Thats a test.
She already showing she had sex on her mind--she just seeing if you gond be one of those non-assertive dudes
 

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Yup! 11pm - midnight I would stop contacting, in their minds they’re thinking you’re hooking up with another joint and they’re position is slipping.

Friday / Saturday you are gone. Radio silence You disappeared, you’re busy, you’re out. That’s get enough really nervous.

It’s critical also that YOU cut the call, like you mentioned, you sound better.

Nah phone calls don’t work no more lol, just did that and even if you don’t say much, you lose a bit of “mystery”, I even tried the FT and sometimes joints get too comfortable to the point where they don’t need to meet you anymore. Phone calls only for scheduling meet ups.

Completely agree with the phone call. Be the man making plans and setting dates, not the one asking questions and listening to their day.

I remember being on the house phone when that shyt could still fly but :francis: FaceTime is even worse. They just be breathing into the camera, not doing or saying shyt.
 

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Completely agree with the phone call. Be the man making plans and setting dates, not the one asking questions and listening to their day.

I remember being on the house phone when that shyt could still fly but :francis: FaceTime is even worse. They just be breathing into the camera, not doing or saying shyt.

Yeah, Phone call game used to be my shyt, but it’s different now, now it’s like… they don’t need to see you anymore cause they have an over abundance of options.

Same with FaceTime, it’s distracts from the real experience, these apps that do FaceTime dates limit you to pen pal status.

Gotta chat through text —-> get the number after 4-6 messages —> Talk for a lil, schedule a link

gotta be quick cause after a day or two, they forget about you

:francis:
 
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