Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Straw Hat Luffy]

You got this breh. This social media shyt is subconsciously holding a lot of us back. Take a year off all the bullshyt and focus on your improvement. I’ll make it even sweeter. Don’t even think about bytches for the whole year. No conversations with females at all if they ain’t in your family. You gon feel like a new man.

I actually used my social media to consume art and share that shyt. I don't even see or partake in the BS that usually consumes social media. BUT it is taking a majority of my time when there are other ways to look at art.

I did realize a couple of weeks ago I didn't post for four days and a chick I don't even talk to at all tagged me in a post because it reminded me of her.

Had me thinking oh you were wondering where I been huh?

I can't imagine what it's like not posting for months let alone a year...


But as you can see discipline is my goal from now on.

 

[George Gooney]

I actually used my social media to consume art and share that shyt. I don't even see or partake in the BS that usually consumes social media. BUT it is taking a majority of my time when there are other ways to look at art.

I did realize a couple of weeks ago I didn't post for four days and a chick I don't even talk to at all tagged me in a post because it reminded me of her.

Had me thinking oh you were wondering where I been huh?

I can't imagine what it's like not posting for months let alone a year...


But as you can see discipline is my goal from now on.

Imagine how them hoes that I used to talk to quite frequently felt. I remember I was bugging out having phone sex with hoes once a week that lived far away or in other countries and shyt. Had mad nudes and naughty paragraphs in my phone. Just wasting all kinds of time.

Went ghost on them. My phone was blowing up. No responses tho. When I popped back up on the scene bytches was thirstier than ever. But at that point I ain’t even want them hoes anymore. I was too high value for them. They still send a nikka nudes tho every now and then but this time it’s unprovoked and I don’t even give a fukk.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Imagine how them hoes that I used to talk to quite frequently felt. I remember I was bugging out having phone sex with hoes once a week that lived far away or in other countries and shyt. Had mad nudes and naughty paragraphs in my phone. Just wasting all kinds of time.

Went ghost on them. My phone was blowing up. No responses tho. When I popped back up on the scene bytches was thirstier than ever. But at that point I ain’t even want them hoes anymore. I was too high value for them. They still send a nikka nudes tho every now and then but this time it’s unprovoked and I don’t even give a fukk.

Andy Warhol was known for vanishing for the longest of times and it made him even more famous when he would reappear.

you fellas are on to something I need to follow suit.


I used to be a fat fukk fam. I hit the gym and then started eating right… I damn near lost 60 pounds. Life different my mental different women treat me different


But I feel like there’s levels I haven’t reached yet.
Places you only get if you make sacrifices

 

[Killigraphy]

Andy Warhol was known for vanishing for the longest of times and it made him even more famous when he would reappear.

you fellas are on to something I need to follow suit.


I used to be a fat fukk fam. I hit the gym and then started eating right… I damn near lost 60 pounds. Life different my mental different women treat me different


But I feel like there’s levels I haven’t reached yet.
Places you only get if you make sacrifices

Become unavailable. People should be fighting to see/hear from you constantly...though that might come after all the chasing of excellence...

-Lift, I don't care if you're skinny, chubby, or flat out fat. Be a piece a granite, be a linebacker, be a sumo...just be strong.

-Read constantly. Either 10 or 1 book a month. The Book of 5 rings is a great place to start.

-The gift of gab makes you desirable in all contexts. Men enjoy your company, women become attracted. With that of course comes being witty, however, wit isn't something that can be taught.

-Be awesome, be agenda-less, be gone. You're the northern wind, one cannot trap the wind, just like one cannot control a raging fire.

-Sacrifice nothing. You aren't subtracting, you're adding. Keep building, "te todo un poquito" - Of everything, know a little.

 

[DaRealness]

Too much truth right here.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

be agenda-less, be gone. You're the northern wind, one cannot trap the wind, just like one cannot control a raging fire.

I appreciate you for mentioning the bolded. I learned to avoid controversial topics. I used to think I was doing something when I tried to “stimulate” a woman’s brain, the “deep conversations” whatever the fukk that means.. but no, that shyt was absolutely pointless.

let her bring it up and depending on the topic, act oblivious and let her explain. “Kevin Samuels? Nah never heard of him, what does he do?” knowing damn well you stayed up to watch that 2 hour livestream.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I appreciate you for mentioning the bolded. I learned to avoid controversial topics. I used to think I was doing something when I tried to “stimulate” a woman’s brain, the “deep conversations” whatever the fukk that means.. but no, that shyt was absolutely pointless.

let her bring it up and depending on the topic, act oblivious and let her explain. “Kevin Samuels? Nah never heard of him, what does he do?” knowing damn well you stayed up to watch that 2 hour livestream.

exactly lol. These chicks dont want to have real dialog they more so want to feel like they have some intellect, so you just hit em with the "wow, dang, wow thats crazy, oh dang for real?" + face.

its like when little kid begs for your attention and its just to show you a dumb dance.

 

[Ahadi]

What’s your opinion on if:

You tell her to take your number, then she proceeds to drop her number instead

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Brehs is it possible to force yaself into the square relationship life? I’m tired of fukking dingy hoes just to get my nutbut first and last time I met with a bih that claimed me we smashed the same day and she started talking bout kids and shyt ( i went raw too so I had permanent going on). Then she started texting too much and I got turnt off that shyt. I imagine if I just find some older, mid 20s? baddie shyt might be different . Tryna be like @Rozay and grind and have 1 bih only

 

[Ahadi]

Brehs is it possible to force yaself into the square relationship life? I’m tired of fukking dingy hoes just to get my nutbut first and last time I met with a bih that claimed me we smashed the same day and she started talking bout kids and shyt ( i went raw too so I had permanent going on). Then she started texting too much and I got turnt off that shyt. I imagine if I just find some older, mid 20s? baddie shyt might be different . Tryna be like @Rozay and grind and have 1 bih only

You could. I think you’re still young, at least wait until 25. But if you have the maturity and mental strength, go for it.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

You could. I think you’re still young, at least wait until 25. But if you have the maturity and mental strength, go for it.

Probably will wait. I just figured the way some of these women treat fukkbuddy shyt as girlfriend-adjacent I might as well have pulled the plug

 

[RaspberryFitted]

exactly lol. These chicks dont want to have real dialog they more so want to feel like they have some intellect, so you just hit em with the "wow, dang, wow thats crazy, oh dang for real?" + face.

its like when little kid begs for your attention and its just to show you a dumb dance.

Anytime I see a chick say she wants someone that can “hold a conversation” I assume she’s either a bird or boring. Women love highlighting basic human actions as a unique quirks.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Anytime I see a chick say she wants someone that can “hold a conversation” I assume she’s either a bird or boring. Women love highlighting basic human actions as a unique quirks.

when your smart and young its hard to ignore birds and you want to roast em/call out the BS lol but as you get older you learn its useless to do it, so just do the best to get past the bird talk

 

[RaspberryFitted]

when your smart and young its hard to ignore birds and you want to roast em/call out the BS lol but as you get older you learn its useless to do it, so just do the best to get past the bird talk

Agree. Most of the bird talk I’ve heard is to get an emotional reaction out of me. Whether it’s frustration, a lecture, or annoyance. It’s like they get a power up in seeing a man express their concerns about them

Silence or walking away is the best option

 

[RaspberryFitted]

What’s your opinion on if:

You tell her to take your number, then she proceeds to drop her number instead

To me, it shows the ball’s in my court. I have the option to initiate contact with her or not. Another possibility is that she might want you start the conversation and lay down what y’all could be.