Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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All Rom Wills does is talk about looks not mattering. He's trying his hardest to prove it yet gives no proof. Just anecdotes and debunked studies.

He just talks about vague ass shyt and never tells you how to do something. Nothing tangible ever.
 
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You invite a chick over for the first time and she says “we ain’t doing nothing “.

should I still let her come over and try to make my move or is she bush status?

You trippin breh.
Thats a test.
She already showing she had sex on her mind--she just seeing if you gond be one of those non-assertive dudes

Lol facts.

I genuinely can't remember a time when a girl has said that to me before coming over and I didn't smash :bryan: It's basically a green light.
 

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how long that shyt last though?

Like I said before, companies can't copyright scents, only the bottle and name. Everything else is handled the same. Scents sticking onto your skin is based on what kind of skin you have. Oily skin doesn't trap scent as much as dry skin does. Water and alcohol bounce off of oil naturally, so even if you have luxury juice, your skin will ultimately bounce it off if its oily. Hence why scents are made stronger, that said, citrus based cologne (Aventus, Curve, Pure 2, etc) don't last that long to begin with. So the trick is to spray your shirt collar and cuffs.
 

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All Rom Wills does is talk about looks not mattering. He's trying his hardest to prove it yet gives no proof. Just anecdotes and debunked studies.

He just talks about vague ass shyt and never tells you how to do something. Nothing tangible ever.

Take it from me, I have the gift of gab, life of the party, etc....but being team handsome does help to break the ice. Even peacocking/maintaining a dapper look, will always grab any bird first. Humans are visual creatures, so all that "don't worry about looks" babble, is usually bullshyt. Yes, you can talk your way into p*ssy, but you usually do that anyway. Looking good adds, it isn't useless.
 

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Yup! 11pm - midnight I would stop contacting, in their minds they’re thinking you’re hooking up with another joint and they’re position is slipping.

Friday / Saturday you are gone. Radio silence You disappeared, you’re busy, you’re out. That’s get enough really nervous.

It’s critical also that YOU cut the call, like you mentioned, it makes you look better.

Nah phone calls don’t work no more lol, just did that and even if you don’t say much, you lose a bit of “mystery”, I even tried the FT and sometimes joints get too comfortable to the point where they don’t need to meet you anymore. Phone calls only for scheduling meet ups.

Old school Phone calls have a 100% success rate for guaging the temperature of the relations your having...:ld:
 

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Old school Phone calls have a 100% success rate for guaging the temperature of the relations your having...:ld:

after HS folks need to kill all that chit chatting stuff whether its phone call, FT, or texting. If folks want to talk they should meet up. Outside of that keep the phone stuff for setting up plays, occasionally checking in on someone, and sharing a joke or news article. But hours of communicating on the phone is for children
 

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after HS folks need to kill all that chit chatting stuff whether its phone call, FT, or texting. If folks want to talk they should meet up. Outside of that keep the phone stuff for setting up plays, occasionally checking in on someone, and sharing a joke or news article. But hours of communicating on the phone is for children
I tell any chick I’m dealing with that I don’t do the phone shyt. After the initial convo, we either meeting up or quick text check ups. All that being on the phone for hours with mindless conversations is for the birds.
 

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I tell any chick I’m dealing with that I don’t do the phone shyt. After the initial convo, we either meeting up or quick text check ups. All that being on the phone for hours with mindless conversations is for the birds.

exactly you put yourself in that attention box vs being a man she knows she needs to value the time of, and its not productive in general lol. We dont talk to our parents all day, nor our boys, but we will for a random chick? Even your wife you wouldn't do that to lol. The way you got close to your family and friends is from interactions and the same should apply with women you deal with.
 

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exactly you put yourself in that attention box vs being a man she knows she needs to value the time of, and its not productive in general lol. We dont talk to our parents all day, nor our boys, but we will for a random chick? Even your wife you wouldn't do that to lol. The way you got close to your family and friends is from interactions and the same should apply with women you deal with.
I tell any chick I’m dealing with that I don’t do the phone shyt. After the initial convo, we either meeting up or quick text check ups. All that being on the phone for hours with mindless conversations is for the birds.

Yup. The phone call / FT calls don’t make you look as busy.

They put you in attention or pen pal zone.

Act busy or be busy lol. She’ll respect you waay more
 

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I tell any chick I’m dealing with that I don’t do the phone shyt. After the initial convo, we either meeting up or quick text check ups. All that being on the phone for hours with mindless conversations is for the birds.

Based on what you've wrote here, you are doing pretty well for yourself...which means your authentic in your actions..

Some of these nikkas will come off as fraud because their scouting reports won't match what their trying to potray....

If they make 50k with an average body, what exactly are they busy with:pachaha:

Why would she give him leeway over someone in her immediate orbit who is in a way better position

Some nikkas gonna have to put that time in...

I'm not saying blow her phone up, but yes they gonna have to do some trench work to be in the game...
 

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Yup. The phone call / FT calls don’t make you look as busy.

They put you in attention or pen pal zone.

Act busy or be busy lol. She’ll respect you waay more

my thing is you dont even have to act busy lmfao. We men we aint her sista girl where we need to be texting all day about what happened on insecure and what music she like. A women shouldn't be questioning your actions as a man especially one you aint married to. We need to get back in the business of doing what we want on our terms instead of serving these chicks like the God. I said before we give more glory to random broads than we do our creator (or ourselves if you are atheist).
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Bros aint even told a chick no before, and if they have chances are they explained themselves, eff that "nah I don't want to do that" is more than sufficient.
 

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my thing is you dont even have to act busy lmfao. We men we aint her sista girl where we need to be texting all day about what happened on insecure and what music she like. A women shouldn't be questioning your actions as a man especially one you aint married to. We need to get back in the business of doing what we want on our terms instead of serving these chicks like the God. I said before we give more glory to random broads than we do our creator (or ourselves if you are atheist).
:mjlol:

Bros aint even told a chick no before, and if they have chances are they explained themselves, eff that "nah I don't want to do that" is more than sufficient.

True. I just mean “act busy” for the person who isn’t as busy or as active like some of us.

Men today don’t realize we have a scarcity mindset and that needs to switch to an over abundant mindset. It’s okay if that girl don’t work out or she doesn’t want to follow with our program, on time the next.
 

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True. I just mean “act busy” for the person who isn’t as busy or as active like some of us.

Men today don’t realize we have a scarcity mindset and that needs to switch to an over abundant mindset. It’s okay if that girl don’t work out or she doesn’t want to follow with our program, on time the next.

I always tell dudes keep their phones on DND and only add their Parents (or kids) to their favs so it only rings when they contact you. Keep your phone in a drawer or another room and just set 1-3 times a day when you check it.
 
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