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This is more of moment of clarity...so bear with me.

I am a former fat guy and used to weigh 340. I caught plenty of L's in the dating game...a textbook beta, if you will. This past summer, I finally graduated, became an accountant and got myself in the gym and grinded hard with great results so far (currently at 245 and still cutting). Getting my CPA is the next goal on my list.

So now that I'm going my own way and improving myself (weight loss and all), the "We gotta get him someone" brigade has appeared. It's crazy because now that I'm fully aware...I see the BS coming a mile away. As a former fat dude, I've seen and heard all the bullshyt that women are capable of (being in the friend zone as a fat dude, women tend to reveal their true selves because they don't take you seriously at all).

It's fukked up because my boy's wife is a good woman (Florida Evans when it comes to holding my boy down and taking care of home) who is trying to put me down with her friends but I can never look at women the same again. The lies, tests and unnecessary extras that come when you do the right things...it's not worth it at all, fellas. Plus now that I'm 26, I'm seeing the desperation starting to build in the women of my age bracket. It's downright scary and all I ask is you keep your eyes and ears open for any and all issues, fellas.

I'm just glad that I never married or had kids before taking the red pill...now I don't intend to get married or have kids at all...just fine with doing my own thing and winning in life.

First off congrats on your self improvements. I know dropping that kind of weight requires an extreme commitment. I'm 26 as well and I know exactly what you're talking about. Many of my friend's wives love to discuss me being single at get togethers. It's like it bothers them that I like doing my own thing. I was home for the holidays and even my mother and sister were trying to hit me with the guilt. Talking about "expanding the family". I had to shut that down real quick. I haven't closed the door on marriage and children but it definitely isn't a foregone conclusion anymore.
 

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This is more of moment of clarity...so bear with me.

I am a former fat guy and used to weigh 340. I caught plenty of L's in the dating game...a textbook beta, if you will. This past summer, I finally graduated, became an accountant and got myself in the gym and grinded hard with great results so far (currently at 245 and still cutting). Getting my CPA is the next goal on my list.

So now that I'm going my own way and improving myself (weight loss and all), the "We gotta get him someone" brigade has appeared. It's crazy because now that I'm fully aware...I see the BS coming a mile away. As a former fat dude, I've seen and heard all the bullshyt that women are capable of (being in the friend zone as a fat dude, women tend to reveal their true selves because they don't take you seriously at all).

It's fukked up because my boy's wife is a good woman (Florida Evans when it comes to holding my boy down and taking care of home) who is trying to put me down with her friends but I can never look at women the same again. The lies, tests and unnecessary extras that come when you do the right things...it's not worth it at all, fellas. Plus now that I'm 26, I'm seeing the desperation starting to build in the women of my age bracket. It's downright scary and all I ask is you keep your eyes and ears open for any and all issues, fellas.

I'm just glad that I never married or had kids before taking the red pill...now I don't intend to get married or have kids at all...just fine with doing my own thing and winning in life.
Women in our age group (25-32 or so) have so many doubts about their lives and its starting to show.

Wrinkles are starting to appear so a little more makeup is required to look absolutely perfect. Guys who used to go crazy for them in their younger years are now either seriously involved with another woman or now hanging out with other girls who have aged better and not made them feel like 2nd or 3rd options. Carreer is not in order? That makes it even worse...they will literally start throwing themselves at you after a while if they feel they are going to lose you to another top quality woman. You are getting there my friend...keep cutting and all the women that will start looking at you will be more than ever. This age bracket is probably the most dangerous in terms of fukking up for good.
 

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Women in our age group (25-32 or so) have so many doubts about their lives and its starting to show.

Wrinkles are starting to appear so a little more makeup is required to look absolutely perfect. Guys who used to go crazy for them in their younger years are now either seriously involved with another woman or now hanging out with other girls who have aged better and not made them feel like 2nd or 3rd options. Carreer is not in order? That makes it even worse...they will literally start throwing themselves at you after a while if they feel they are going to lose you to another top quality woman. You are getting there my friend...keep cutting and all the women that will start looking at you will be more than ever. This age bracket is probably the most dangerous in terms of fukking up for good.

yup the thing that also gets me is, these women couldnt get a good man when they were childless, in shape, boobs not sagging etc., yet now they getting older with a child, emotional baggage etc. and they think they can get agood man now?:pachaha:
 

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This is more of moment of clarity...so bear with me.

I am a former fat guy and used to weigh 340. I caught plenty of L's in the dating game...a textbook beta, if you will. This past summer, I finally graduated, became an accountant and got myself in the gym and grinded hard with great results so far (currently at 245 and still cutting). Getting my CPA is the next goal on my list.

So now that I'm going my own way and improving myself (weight loss and all), the "We gotta get him someone" brigade has appeared. It's crazy because now that I'm fully aware...I see the BS coming a mile away. As a former fat dude, I've seen and heard all the bullshyt that women are capable of (being in the friend zone as a fat dude, women tend to reveal their true selves because they don't take you seriously at all).

It's fukked up because my boy's wife is a good woman (Florida Evans when it comes to holding my boy down and taking care of home) who is trying to put me down with her friends but I can never look at women the same again. The lies, tests and unnecessary extras that come when you do the right things...it's not worth it at all, fellas. Plus now that I'm 26, I'm seeing the desperation starting to build in the women of my age bracket. It's downright scary and all I ask is you keep your eyes and ears open for any and all issues, fellas.

I'm just glad that I never married or had kids before taking the red pill...now I don't intend to get married or have kids at all...just fine with doing my own thing and winning in life.

Congratulations on the accomplishments bruh. Keep it up. As much as we go hard on women, when it comes down to it, we can't say they weren't strong incentive for sharpening ourselves. Beautiful thing is that the more you sharpen yourself up, the more choice you have... so you don't have to accept just any woman into your life, but can deal amongst those who have that which you're looking for. Keep it up man. I might end up getting my cpa one of these days as well.
 

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Alyssa Rosales - Official

2 hours ago.



Those who call me a slut are fukking idiots, I had sex with a dog, not your bf/gf so stfu u dumb bytches. kthxbye < 3

I'm sorry but something is mentally wrong with these daughters today

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I'm 27 I get it as well, my sister is 28 and been married for 4 years with two kids. Thing is for marriage to me it's hard todo. Can I really really stay with ole women for the rest of my life every day wake up to her and every night go to sleep with her? All the nagginess, all the stress for what? I just got up a week and a half ago and decided to go to cuba,
If I'm married with kids could I do that? Nope.


The sad thing is that I'd make a great father I'm always with my nieces and god son, but I see zero positives to marriage
 
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It funny when a chick divorces a guy and gets half everybody looks at the guy like
Oh well shyt happens.....PAY UP :beli:

This is why my advice is to date an independent woman in your own salary range, not a housewife looking to be dependent on you. If she is in the marriage with her own money, she's gonna leave with her own money.
 
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I'm 27 I get it as well, my sister is 28 and been married for 4 years with two kids. Thing is for marriage to me it's hard todo. Can I really really stay with ole women for the rest of my life every day wake up to her and every night go to sleep with her? All the nagginess, all the stress for what? I just got up a week and a half ago and decided to go to cuba,
If I'm married with kids could I do that? Nope.


The sad thing is that I'd make a great father I'm always with my nieces and god son, but I see zero positives to marriage

Its not for everyone, don't force it if its not you. And certainly don't turn to marriage because you're thinking about kids and being a father. Marriage should be based entirely on your feelings towards the female. I feel that's the problem with a lot of couples today. They get married because they want kids and then realize they don't really want to dedicate the rest of their life to this person.
 
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being in the friend zone as a fat dude, women tend to reveal their true selves because they don't take you seriously at all).

The friend zone can be a great tool for any guy if they take advantage of the opportunity to soak up knowledge. I learned an incredible amount about women just by being friends with them and seeing how they behave. I've never been fat or anything, just started hanging out with chicks I wasn't interested in. They started telling me things they wouldn't tell their boyfriends. All their shady secrets. It was an eye opener and I recommend it. You'll start to understand how their minds work and how to play their games.
 

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This is why my advice is to date an independent woman in your own salary range, not a housewife looking to be dependent on you. If she is in the marriage with her own money, she's gonna leave with her own money.



Listen to the video from 6:00 to 6:10.


These dudes know....he pretty much confirmed what you just said lol

:youngsabo:

But remember there are certain exceptions to that rule like that former Italian President and that HUGE amount his ex wife got from him when she already had alot of money
 
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President Obama and the First Lady Speak to Troops at Fort Bragg - YouTube

Listen to the video from 6:00 to 6:10.


These dudes know....he pretty much confirmed what you just said lol

:youngsabo:

But remember there are certain exceptions to that rule like that former Italian President and that HUGE amount his ex wife got from him when she already had alot of money

This guy? Berlusconi Divorce Settlement: Former Italian Prime Minister To Pay Second Wife $4 Million A Month

Dude is a billionaire. She was definitely not. Matter of fact she wasn't working at all while she was married to him.
 

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With the way a lot of women are, I can't blame them entirely. As men, we're supposed to be leaders, and yet how many of us are demanding women hold themselves to a higher standard? It's a few in society that are. Most are playing that whole 'nonjudgmental' game and doing all sorts of pandering and placating in order to get some vagina... telling women it's ok to do this and that and telling her cheating on her man is alright. When women are being taught this by men and see that so many men are gravitating towards this kind of women, they start to take on these sorts of traits.

Another thing is, men are teachers. If you are teaching your accepting, or even worse, teaching women around you deviant behavior, don't be surprised when you fall victim to one of those vipers you've been breeding. Cats have to demand high moraled women and reward them by paying them attention. You can't get mad at women for being hoes but you're around sleeping with all these hoes, paying them all kinds of attention, and giving a cosign to their behavior in the moment. We've discussed the whole chameleon thing earlier, but really, women do respond to what a man wants. When a woman is really into you, she tries to become the woman she thinks you want her to be.
 

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Let's focus on improving ourselves... I'm about to start reading this book:

[ame=http://www.amazon.com/My-Father-Was-There-Lessons/dp/1477646736/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1359356343&sr=8-1&keywords=my+father+was+there]Amazon.com: My Father Was There: Lessons for a Young Black Man (9781477646731): Jermaine M. Gourdine: Books[/ame]

I'll let ya'll know how it is. Oh yeah, one of the best purchases you can make is a kindle. I just bought one the other day and I love it. I've been reading like a madman since I got it.
 

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Now, I got a challenge for ya'll. I feel a lot of women can't live up to the whole 'decent woman' thing because they don't have any idea what in the world that is. They are continually reinforced through media, through simps, through playas, etc., to be the type of woman they are today.

In your mind, what is a 'quality woman?' What traits or qualities does a woman need to have in order for you to consider her wife-worthy? This is something I'll spend some time on and I'll post my definition when it's done.
 
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