Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
This is more of moment of clarity...so bear with me.
I am a former fat guy and used to weigh 340. I caught plenty of L's in the dating game...a textbook beta, if you will. This past summer, I finally graduated, became an accountant and got myself in the gym and grinded hard with great results so far (currently at 245 and still cutting). Getting my CPA is the next goal on my list.
So now that I'm going my own way and improving myself (weight loss and all), the "We gotta get him someone" brigade has appeared. It's crazy because now that I'm fully aware...I see the BS coming a mile away. As a former fat dude, I've seen and heard all the bullshyt that women are capable of (being in the friend zone as a fat dude, women tend to reveal their true selves because they don't take you seriously at all).
It's fukked up because my boy's wife is a good woman (Florida Evans when it comes to holding my boy down and taking care of home) who is trying to put me down with her friends but I can never look at women the same again. The lies, tests and unnecessary extras that come when you do the right things...it's not worth it at all, fellas. Plus now that I'm 26, I'm seeing the desperation starting to build in the women of my age bracket. It's downright scary and all I ask is you keep your eyes and ears open for any and all issues, fellas.
I'm just glad that I never married or had kids before taking the red pill...now I don't intend to get married or have kids at all...just fine with doing my own thing and winning in life.
First off congrats on your self improvements. I know dropping that kind of weight requires an extreme commitment. I'm 26 as well and I know exactly what you're talking about. Many of my friend's wives love to discuss me being single at get togethers. It's like it bothers them that I like doing my own thing. I was home for the holidays and even my mother and sister were trying to hit me with the guilt. Talking about "expanding the family". I had to shut that down real quick. I haven't closed the door on marriage and children but it definitely isn't a foregone conclusion anymore.