The other day? Naw
If I have a post it was probably about a month ago.
something about them being lame and u only let them eat u out and then threw them to the side?
and then making a post like that above?

The other day? Naw
If I have a post it was probably about a month ago.
something about them being lame and u only let them eat u out and then threw them to the side?
and then making a post like that above?
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As a woman that has experienced abuse personally and ill treatment, It is not something anyone "wants", but it is something you are expected to experience. Most girls are taught men aint shyt from birth, so when these aint shyt nyggas grow up to be aint shyt men, females arent surprised when they get abused, mistreated, ect. And a lot of times, the women come from abusive or dysfunctional homes themselves so the bullshyt they are dealing with is only a reflection of what they know and have gotten used to.
This is a complex issue, but I will say this bruhs... be careful and be patient. There are still good women out there who want to have and develop healthy relationships. They just arn't the majority.
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Somewhat excuses and victim role playing. Women continue to caboodle and cavort with straight losers then cry out for a decent man. Then screwing him over. I'm not even talking about the nice guy balless man.
See me in every relationship I've been faithful, I've never put a hand on a female.
But I don't excite or bring the tingles because I prefer a drama free relationship. You won't find a used condom in my car, or me securing a dikk pic to a trollop, you won't find me out clubbing or being drunk with random girls answering my phone.
Sorry I can't offer you women thrills , wondering which eye ima blackened tonight, sorry I can't offer you the thril of whether you picked up a std, or waiting up for me at night wondering where I am.
You chicks dug your own hole
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I understand your sentiment, but I disagree. Yes, some do play the victim, but some don't and don't know any better. Some don't believe that they are worthy of having a good guy. Some don't think that they are good enough for someone who will do right by them especially if they have never experienced it or witnessed it.
I don't look for excitement or anything of that nature. I prefer a normal ass dude who has his head on straight.
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question how old are you?
and let me guess in the past it was the thugs, and the bad boys who gave you tingles right? but after consistently getting played, cheated on, treated like dirt and as you got older you realized you wanted a decent man to call your own am i correct?
I'm 25.
And not necessarily. I have never dated a "thug" but I have dated a couple bad boys. Ive never been cheated on (to my knowledge) but I have been in some dysfunctional ass relationships in the past. I have dated nice guys as well though.
Me getting older had very little to with it. I got to a point where I had to take responsibility for my fukc ups in my failed relationships and work on myself so I can ultimately be a better partner.
And its not even about wanting a "decent man", for me it's about having someone who compliments me and is with me for selfless reasons. As I have gotten older, all that bs I held on to when I was younger went out the door and I desire something deeper now. And not to say I didn't then, but I didn't know how to cultivate it.
Bonita just be straight up without the political answer. We wont judge you
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Straight up about? What makes my answer so political?
I'm 25.
And not necessarily. I have never dated a "thug" but I have dated a couple bad boys. Ive never been cheated on (to my knowledge) but I have been in some dysfunctional ass relationships in the past. I have dated nice guys as well though.
Me getting older had very little to with it. I got to a point where I had to take responsibility for my fukc ups in my failed relationships and work on myself so I can ultimately be a better partner.
And its not even about wanting a "decent man", for me it's about having someone who compliments me and is with me for selfless reasons. As I have gotten older, all that bs I held on to when I was younger went out the door and I desire something deeper now. And not to say I didn't then, but I didn't know how to cultivate it.
As a woman that has experienced abuse personally and ill treatment, It is not something anyone "wants", but it is something you are expected to experience. Most girls are taught men aint shyt from birth, so when these aint shyt nyggas grow up to be aint shyt men, females arent surprised when they get abused, mistreated, ect. And a lot of times, the women come from abusive or dysfunctional homes themselves so the bullshyt they are dealing with is only a reflection of what they know and have gotten used to.
This is a complex issue, but I will say this bruhs... be careful and be patient. There are still good women out there who want to have and develop healthy relationships. They just arn't the majority.
wait for out??? till they finish dealing with bad boys/thugs,
wait for out??? till they finish dealing with bad boys/thugs,