I’ll try this. The other day I was at the store looking for work pants. It was two shawties and one was choosing but man I didn’t feel it in me to approach. I just didn’t want to be disappointed. fukk I don’t like that negativity I’ve fallen back in. I’m too grown for that
Rejection is simply apart of not only the dating game, but life in general. Can’t run away from it.
Learn not to get too high or too low in life. She either gives out her # & y’all click, or she says no, walks away, and you respect that. No reason to have a black cloud over you because a stranger ain’t fw you.
Maybe it’s her aura, shawty just doin her job. I just feel a bit anxious when she talks to me. Fear of embarrassing myself. Idk breh. I don’t want to catch feelings if I meet another cool brehette who I get along very well with just to be dumped
her aura? Man, shordi a bartender at a bar. fukk type of energy does she have about her to where you hesitant to talk? I’ve been guilty of this in the past, but men put way too much importance into a women either due to her looks, profession, or status. She shyts and farts just like you g, ain’t shyt special about her.
What about
YOUR aura? The presence
YOU have in the room? Focus on that. Also, she’s a bartender at a bar…. her job is in a social environment bruh. She’s well aware she can be approached by someone at anytime to talk. Learn to read the room you’re in.
Tinder girls are more receptive and accepting of me than bumble, hinge and real life bytches
they want your attention, that’s why. I clowned dude talking about his spirit being sucked out on Tinder, but he has a point. Those women want followers, attention, and validation. fukk ‘em and toss em out. but you’re goal is NOT to fukk hoes on Tinder… so you basically on their for no reason. Like owning a PlayStation but buying a copy of Halo.
like I said, in-person is the best option. You better take that energy you have mass texting hoes on Tinder and apply that to real life.
I do feel less of man if I’m not fukking, that’s only because I was roasted so badly as a teen for being a virgin. It’s stupid but I never got over that.
I don’t even know where to find or recognize a solid woman. In my experience they all so deceptive liars and always doing the opposite of what they say.
Get over it. It’s not stupid, as this problem has obviously plagued many grown men to where they cry about it to the world. Sex is seen as an accomplishment or badge of honor as you get older.
It’s not.
there’s nikkas in jail doing life sentences for trying to get their jimmy wet. The “good girl, straight A student” is getting slutted out by a bum ass nikka with a STD in a dingy ass basement. Prostitution is the oldest profession. See where I’m going with this? Sex is not as glamorous as society tries to portray it. There was even a thread a few days ago on how most people aren’t good at sex itself. Just be wanting to fukk because they look attractive or they need a nut busted.
what does define you is your character. Your moral code. Do you stand on your word? Are you dependable? Do you have the drive to be the best at anything you strive for? Do you show resilience when adversity hits? Do you have the ability to walk away? YOUR CHARACTER DEFINES YOU. It bleeds into your romantic, personal, and professional career.