Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Women love to leave stuff at your crib so they have an excuse to come back. (Shirt, underwear, makeup, accessories)

Don’t fall for the “it must of slipped out” line


The real problem are the men allowing them to come on through. Its so easy to say "no" or "I'll bring it to you", yet you have these simps who will easily bend over backwards just for p*ssy.
 

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It's actually an analysis not a diss...if you're going to be defensive in this forum, best move on. You gotta be honest with yourself, drop the ego, and accept the help. You're posting on here for a reason.
Dude your analysis wasn’t even that deep. I said I like her, unlike the other girls I get with. So of course it’s obvious I would be in a relationship with her. Your response was that I’m a square and that I have the boyfriend experience without getting any sex… when I told you I have sex with her .


I already dropped the ego when I came in this thread to be honest. I would take the advice if it actually made sense lol.


see my last post. Lol dudes minds are all kinda warped
I’m starting to see smoking and drinking is not good on the mind
 

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Dude your analysis wasn’t even that deep. I said I like her, unlike the other girls I get with. So of course it’s obvious I would be in a relationship with her. Your response was that I’m a square and that I have the boyfriend experience without getting any sex… when I told you I have sex with her .


I already dropped the ego when I came in this thread to be honest. I would take the advice if it actually made sense lol.

Right, like I said, that was your mistake, you went full square when you asked her. It wasn't a deep scenario, pretty standard. The better question is what do you want, a relationship with the broad or a solid rotation? Seems like you really only want a relationship, which again, is fine, but the way you approached it. was using square tactics.
 

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Dude your analysis wasn’t even that deep. I said I like her, unlike the other girls I get with. So of course it’s obvious I would be in a relationship with her. Your response was that I’m a square and that I have the boyfriend experience without getting any sex… when I told you I have sex with her .


I already dropped the ego when I came in this thread to be honest. I would take the advice if it actually made sense lol.



I’m starting to see smoking and drinking is not good on the mind

Everyone has different morals, but IMO being High is a no go (I'm not anti the benefits of marijuana, but medicating and recreational getting lit are two different buckets), and IMO you should never get drunk (Drinking for celebrations or a date is fine but find your sweet spot where you are fully functional still). IMO we gotta be able to think quick and sharp at all times.
 

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Everyone has different morals, but IMO being High is a no go (I'm not anti the benefits of marijuana, but medicating and recreational getting lit are two different buckets), and IMO you should never get drunk (Drinking for celebrations or a date is fine but find your sweet spot where you are fully functional still). IMO we gotta be able to think quick and sharp at all times.

It could be a problem, but a lot of the time, I find its just an excuse for people to express themselves due to the lack of ego and pride when high or drunk. In general the lack and or fear of communication is what keeps people like OP , using drugs as a crutch. Simple questions should never be a problem to ask. But again, a huge populous are either squares or afraid of confrontation.
 

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I've always broke birds down with that line "who fukked for weed/henny? put me on that list". Gets em angry all the time. That self analysis hits harder than a motherfukker when you show them that their pride and ego, mean nothing when all they've fukked are bodega Juan's and dealers all their lives.

:russ:

I just sit back and let them just talk. Maybe ask a few questions here and there, but they always expose themselves.
 

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How do I regain my confidence back after months of not being on tinder and shyt?

I’ve been going to this bar with my nikka like weekly for a month now. This one bartender is a cute brehette. Don’t always get her. She sometimes be staring but I think it’s because me and my nikka just chill. All the other nikkas or cacs that be around be so corny.

We order our food and shyt. Talk a bit with her but I don’t really keep it going.

I just feel so jaded. I got back on tinder and be texting these hoes and get bored. Maybe I’m tripping but I want something real. I just don’t want to just smash.

Am I tripping or this part of still accepting that they just good for nothing hoes?
 

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How do I regain my confidence back after months of not being on tinder and shyt?

Invest in yourself with hobbies & activities that promote progression. Working out, watching documentaries on topics you like, learning new cooking recipes.

I’ve been going to this bar with my nikka like weekly for a month now. This one bartender is a cute brehette. Don’t always get her. She sometimes be staring but I think it’s because me and my nikka just chill. All the other nikkas or cacs that be around be so corny.

We order our food and shyt. Talk a bit with her but I don’t really keep it going

that’s on you. Understand WHY you don’t keep the conversation rolling and move accordingly. You either make a move or you don’t, just know why you are doing that.

I just feel so jaded. I got back on tinder and be texting these hoes and get bored. Maybe I’m tripping but I want something real. I just don’t want to just smash.

Am I tripping or this part of still accepting that they just good for nothing hoes?

You’re on Tinder, but looking for something real? :francis: If you’re looking for something real, then why are you entertaining women that you believe are low quality? Are you lonely and need a texting buddy? Feel you need to have a “roster” in order to be the man? Ask yourself this before you end up breaking a solid chick’s heart or waste a thot’s time with your confusion.
 

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Invest in yourself with hobbies & activities that promote progression. Working out, watching documentaries on topics you like, learning new cooking recipes
I’ll try this. The other day I was at the store looking for work pants. It was two shawties and one was choosing but man I didn’t feel it in me to approach. I just didn’t want to be disappointed. fukk I don’t like that negativity I’ve fallen back in. I’m too grown for that.


that’s on you. Understand WHY you don’t keep the conversation rolling and move accordingly. You either make a move or you don’t, just know why you are doing that.
Maybe it’s her aura, shawty just doin her job. I just feel a bit anxious when she talks to me. Fear of embarrassing myself. Idk breh. I don’t want to catch feelings if I meet another cool brehette who I get along very well with just to be dumped.

You’re on Tinder, but looking for something real? :francis: If you’re looking for something real, then why are you entertaining women that you believe are low quality? Are you lonely and need a texting buddy? Feel you need to have a “roster” in order to be the man? Ask yourself this before you end up breaking a solid chick’s heart or waste a thot’s time with your confusion.
Tinder girls are more receptive and accepting of me than bumble, hinge and real life bytches.

Because a nikka gets lonely lol even if I spend the whole weekend with my nikkas. We men, we need a woman’s presence. Whether it’s sex and/or kicking it. I don’t care for a “texting buddy”.

I do feel less of man if I’m not fukking, that’s only because I was roasted so badly as a teen for being a virgin. It’s stupid but I never got over that.

I don’t even know where to find or recognize a solid woman. In my experience they all so deceptive liars and always doing the opposite of what they say.
 

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I’ll try this. The other day I was at the store looking for work pants. It was two shawties and one was choosing but man I didn’t feel it in me to approach. I just didn’t want to be disappointed. fukk I don’t like that negativity I’ve fallen back in. I’m too grown for that

Rejection is simply apart of not only the dating game, but life in general. Can’t run away from it.

Learn not to get too high or too low in life. She either gives out her # & y’all click, or she says no, walks away, and you respect that. No reason to have a black cloud over you because a stranger ain’t fw you.


Maybe it’s her aura, shawty just doin her job. I just feel a bit anxious when she talks to me. Fear of embarrassing myself. Idk breh. I don’t want to catch feelings if I meet another cool brehette who I get along very well with just to be dumped

her aura? Man, shordi a bartender at a bar. fukk type of energy does she have about her to where you hesitant to talk? I’ve been guilty of this in the past, but men put way too much importance into a women either due to her looks, profession, or status. She shyts and farts just like you g, ain’t shyt special about her.

What about YOUR aura? The presence YOU have in the room? Focus on that. Also, she’s a bartender at a bar…. her job is in a social environment bruh. She’s well aware she can be approached by someone at anytime to talk. Learn to read the room you’re in.

Tinder girls are more receptive and accepting of me than bumble, hinge and real life bytches

they want your attention, that’s why. I clowned dude talking about his spirit being sucked out on Tinder, but he has a point. Those women want followers, attention, and validation. fukk ‘em and toss em out. but you’re goal is NOT to fukk hoes on Tinder… so you basically on their for no reason. Like owning a PlayStation but buying a copy of Halo.

like I said, in-person is the best option. You better take that energy you have mass texting hoes on Tinder and apply that to real life.

I do feel less of man if I’m not fukking, that’s only because I was roasted so badly as a teen for being a virgin. It’s stupid but I never got over that.

I don’t even know where to find or recognize a solid woman. In my experience they all so deceptive liars and always doing the opposite of what they say.

Get over it. It’s not stupid, as this problem has obviously plagued many grown men to where they cry about it to the world. Sex is seen as an accomplishment or badge of honor as you get older.

It’s not.

there’s nikkas in jail doing life sentences for trying to get their jimmy wet. The “good girl, straight A student” is getting slutted out by a bum ass nikka with a STD in a dingy ass basement. Prostitution is the oldest profession. See where I’m going with this? Sex is not as glamorous as society tries to portray it. There was even a thread a few days ago on how most people aren’t good at sex itself. Just be wanting to fukk because they look attractive or they need a nut busted.

what does define you is your character. Your moral code. Do you stand on your word? Are you dependable? Do you have the drive to be the best at anything you strive for? Do you show resilience when adversity hits? Do you have the ability to walk away? YOUR CHARACTER DEFINES YOU. It bleeds into your romantic, personal, and professional career.
 

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Rejection is simply apart of not only the dating game, but life in general. Can’t run away from it.

Learn not to get too high or too low in life. She either gives out her # & y’all click, or she says no, walks away, and you respect that. No reason to have a black cloud over you because a stranger ain’t fw you.
Yeah I guess I’m just sensitive from my middle school to highschool experiences.
Yeah I gots to do it.
her aura? Man, shordi a bartender at a bar. fukk type of energy does she have about her to where you hesitant to talk? I’ve been guilty of this in the past, but men put way too much importance into a women either due to her looks, profession, or status. She shyts and farts just like you g, ain’t shyt special about her.

What about YOUR aura? The presence YOU have in the room? Focus on that. Also, she’s a bartender at a bar…. her job is in a social environment bruh. She’s well aware she can be approached by someone at anytime to talk. Learn to read the room you’re in.
I haven’t touched a shorty since august lol. Idk she too inviting atleast towards me. I’m pretty chill, not a goofy nikka.
they want your attention, that’s why. I clowned dude talking about his spirit being sucked out on Tinder, but he has a point. Those women want followers, attention, and validation. fukk ‘em and toss em out. but you’re goal is NOT to fukk hoes on Tinder… so you basically on their for no reason. Like owning a PlayStation but buying a copy of Halo.

like I said, in-person is the best option. You better take that energy you have mass texting hoes on Tinder and apply that to real life.
I never been good at real life approaching. I get nervous and shyt. I hate it. I can muscle through it but it seeps out.
Get over it. It’s not stupid, as this problem has obviously plagued many grown men to where they cry about it to the world. Sex is seen as an accomplishment or badge of honor as you get older.

It’s not.

there’s nikkas in jail doing life sentences for trying to get their jimmy wet. The “good girl, straight A student” is getting slutted out by a bum ass nikka with a STD in a dingy ass basement. Prostitution is the oldest profession. See where I’m going with this? Sex is not as glamorous as society tries to portray it. There was even a thread a few days ago on how most people aren’t good at sex itself. Just be wanting to fukk because they look attractive or they need a nut busted.

what does define you is your character. Your moral code. Do you stand on your word? Are you dependable? Do you have the drive to be the best at anything you strive for? Do you show resilience when adversity hits? Do you have the ability to walk away? YOUR CHARACTER DEFINES YOU. It bleeds into your romantic, personal, and professional career.
I try to be a man of integrity. When it comes to romance. I never been good at that. I give too much or too little. End up losing
 

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The real problem are the men allowing them to come on through. Its so easy to say "no" or "I'll bring it to you", yet you have these simps who will easily bend over backwards just for p*ssy.
Women love to leave stuff at your crib so they have an excuse to come back. (Shirt, underwear, makeup, accessories)

Don’t fall for the “it must of slipped out” line
Y’all don’t like women bro on god!!!! Y’all nikkas hate pussay more than gay nikkas. Move to the gayTL and get with @2 one 3 he’ll show y’all the way
 

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Y’all don’t like women bro on god!!!! Y’all nikkas hate pussay more than gay nikkas. Move to the gayTL and get with @2 one 3 he’ll show y’all the way


Little nikka who are you?


You leave every fukkin week just to come back to type some stupid shyt…


Like I said you’re a broke little fakkit who isn’t a factor.


You sign no checks
Deposit no funds


Go suck a dikk bruh…you need help
 

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Little nikka who are you?


You leave every fukkin week just to come back to type some stupid shyt…


Like I said you’re a broke little fakkit who isn’t a factor.


You sign no checks
Deposit no funds


Go suck a dikk bruh…you need help
I was using your name as an example. Not calling you out per say, chill out bruh:dame::dame:don’t want anything you got to offer:dame:. These nikkas just hate p*ssy and everytime I’m here they complaining about p*ssy:unimpressed:
 
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