Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Uno Venova

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Still with my chick. 6 months now. Her birthday was late last month and Christmas coming up. If I stay with her imma be the parent that dreads the holiday season :snoop:
Lmao I'm here excited as fukk for her reaction to my gift. :pachaha:

She actually asked me for a Christmas list because she ain't even wanna guess about what I wanted:to:
 

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Just literally saw my homie girl on them dating apps. Don't even know what to do :snoop:

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Met a fine ass single mother of 3. Seriously fine as hell, like IG model fine. #1 Baby daddy locked up for drug trafficking, #2 is an idiot deadbeat. She has a job, car and renting a house. She’s 34.. kids 8, 12, and 15.

I have none and I’m 36. What y’all think?


Pump and dump or plate her up for a while. Now its different for guys like me, I can fukk a mom and control where I nut, don't get involved and don't mention anything about my personal life. She knows her role. I'm "boyfriend" at best, but as far as any of them are concerned, I'm as mysterious as the dark side of the moon. If you can control your creampies if any...and wrap her around your finger, then go ahead. But you have to be honest with yourself, if you're some square who just wants an older girlfriend who's hot, to brag about, you're doing it wrong.
 

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How close are you and this dude?

Personally I stay out of people's business. You do what you think is the right thing but people tend to attack the messenger, so.... :hubie:

They reason you stay out of it is cause lotta couples are swingers. I know a dude who my homie saw his chick on an app, told dude, dude said thanks, and he married chick months later.

only time you get ya boy involved is if chick comes at you or you have confirmation your boy aint on no freaky ish
 
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How close are you and this dude?

Personally I stay out of people's business. You do what you think is the right thing but people tend to attack the messenger, so.... :hubie:

this is the real question...

i 110% agree with and understand why people say to stay out of it, but i got a couple day one bros, on some we-go-back-to-the-sandbox type ish that i would inform immediately. if they choose to question my integrity or start moving like hoes, then let the pieces fall where they may. i could at least sleep well knowing that i kept it thorough with my peoples :manny:
 

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They reason you stay out of it is cause lotta couples are swingers. I know a dude who my homie saw his chick on an app, told dude, dude said thanks, and he married chick months later.

only time you get ya boy involved is if chick comes at you or you have confirmation your boy aint on no freaky ish
What type of nikkas you be chilling with? @Guizmo if thats yo mans for real for real then let him know his hoe out on the field.
 

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I needed this. I be in here spitting game but as a man I have to admit that I slip and take the L a lot as well. It’s apart of the game.

I talk to a lot of females out here, mostly for sexual reasons, of course. But there is one chick I actually like that I see every time I go back to town. Never drama between us and we always enjoy each other company— I want to say last holiday break I saw her almost everyday but one or two days.


Couple nights ago your boy got mad sloppy drunk and decided to hit her up. I asked the what are we question and if she’s talking to anyone else :francis: something I always say you should never do in here. Her response was we’re just talking and that if she was talking to someone else she would let me know.


I knew that response already since she’s got a lot of going on in her life but my drunk ass :francis: asked the questions anyways.

we’re not on bad terms or anything but that shyt to me is a lesson to fall back and regroup. I haven’t texted her in like 3/4 days.

I quoted this post because I felt like I was tryna validate myself to her even though she’s not asking for a validation. I mean that’s what happens when you like someone and you want said so person to be yours right? :yeshrug:


I understand the part about not giving a fukk but I do value her opinion. All I’m saying is I shouldn’t make emotional decisions like that.
 

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Definitely don't sound like no black folks lol. We'll set a ho out but ain't no way I'm sharing my girl tf
Yeah sound like some cuckold shyt. Brehs ain't on that time. Black men are not voluntarily sharing they women AT ALL.
 
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women make my life worst. like, they literally lower my quality of life by every perceivable metric :heh:

maybe my own baggage is getting in the way of me enjoying them like a man in his mid 20s should, maybe im just chronically drawn to wack bytches... but whether im juggling a roster or tryna keep maintenance on one joint, i always have this feeling that they are an extreme drain on me.

the plan this new year is to let all of the plates fall and re-invest all of that time, money, effort and energy ive blown back into myself.
 

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women make my life worst. like, they literally lower my quality of life by every perceivable metric :heh:

maybe my own baggage is getting in the way of me enjoying them like a man in his mid 20s should, maybe im just chronically drawn to wack bytches... but whether im juggling a roster or tryna keep maintenance on one joint, i always have this feeling that they are an extreme drain on me.

the plan this new year is to let all of the plates fall and re-invest all of that time, money, effort and energy ive blown back into myself.
You’re on point. They’re energy vampires. That’s why I’m always going monk mode. You fukk 100 bytches and it doesn’t do anything beneficial for your life.
 
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