Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How close are you and this dude?

Personally I stay out of people's business. You do what you think is the right thing but people tend to attack the messenger, so.... :hubie:

Im close but not that much if you see what i mean. Yeah i know what am gonna do. Im gonna keep my mouth shut. I know my homie so. And i don't know how long she was in the app, maybe she just didnt delete her account. Anyway either way not my problem. :hubie:

I learned 10 years ago not to interfere between a couple affairs, even if its your closest friends. :hubie:
 

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What type of nikkas you be chilling with? @Guizmo if thats yo mans for real for real then let him know his hoe out on the field.


Im chilling with a tight circle. He hang around us a couple of times. He comes to my house often. And he broke up with her ex not a long time ago. So i don't know if he serious or it's just a rebound. Some stuff happened... But for the moment i keep my mouth shut. He is doing his thing if you know what i mean lol.
 

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I needed this. I be in here spitting game but as a man I have to admit that I slip and take the L a lot as well. It’s apart of the game.

I talk to a lot of females out here, mostly for sexual reasons, of course. But there is one chick I actually like that I see every time I go back to town. Never drama between us and we always enjoy each other company— I want to say last holiday break I saw her almost everyday but one or two days.


Couple nights ago your boy got mad sloppy drunk and decided to hit her up. I asked the what are we question and if she’s talking to anyone else :francis: something I always say you should never do in here. Her response was we’re just talking and that if she was talking to someone else she would let me know.


I knew that response already since she’s got a lot of going on in her life but my drunk ass :francis: asked the questions anyways.

we’re not on bad terms or anything but that shyt to me is a lesson to fall back and regroup. I haven’t texted her in like 3/4 days.

I quoted this post because I felt like I was tryna validate myself to her even though she’s not asking for a validation. I mean that’s what happens when you like someone and you want said so person to be yours right? :yeshrug:


I understand the part about not giving a fukk but I do value her opinion. All I’m saying is I shouldn’t make emotional decisions like that.


Besides the obvious mistake of getting drunk and going full Drake, never value the opinion of women. They're capricious by nature. No woman knows what she wants, but she knows what she likes. And its not a guy like you. Its a guy like me. And physical attraction is just a tiny fraction. I'm not gonna ask her questions about her decision making, I'm gonna invite her out, be kind of a dikk, but funny, and boom, another dopey broad in my rotation. What I'm saying to you essentially, is to move first, question later. You're giving her the boyfriend experience without her having to pay by having sex with you. Your time should be the most important thing in your life. Stop giving away casual conversation for free.
 

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I needed this. I be in here spitting game but as a man I have to admit that I slip and take the L a lot as well. It’s apart of the game.

I talk to a lot of females out here, mostly for sexual reasons, of course. But there is one chick I actually like that I see every time I go back to town. Never drama between us and we always enjoy each other company— I want to say last holiday break I saw her almost everyday but one or two days.


Couple nights ago your boy got mad sloppy drunk and decided to hit her up. I asked the what are we question and if she’s talking to anyone else :francis: something I always say you should never do in here. Her response was we’re just talking and that if she was talking to someone else she would let me know.


I knew that response already since she’s got a lot of going on in her life but my drunk ass :francis: asked the questions anyways.

we’re not on bad terms or anything but that shyt to me is a lesson to fall back and regroup. I haven’t texted her in like 3/4 days.

I quoted this post because I felt like I was tryna validate myself to her even though she’s not asking for a validation. I mean that’s what happens when you like someone and you want said so person to be yours right? :yeshrug:


I understand the part about not giving a fukk but I do value her opinion. All I’m saying is I shouldn’t make emotional decisions like that.
Hold up you said what are we :why:


What part of the game is that :mindblown:
@TradePascalSiakam
 

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Besides the obvious mistake of getting drunk and going full Drake, never value the opinion of women. They're capricious by nature. No woman knows what she wants, but she knows what she likes. And its not a guy like you. Its a guy like me. And physical attraction is just a tiny fraction. I'm not gonna ask her questions about her decision making, I'm gonna invite her out, be kind of a dikk, but funny, and boom, another dopey broad in my rotation. What I'm saying to you essentially, is to move first, question later. You're giving her the boyfriend experience without her having to pay by having sex with you. Your time should be the most important thing in your life. Stop giving away casual conversation for free.
I have sex with her goofy

And I said I have a rotation


You just tryna flex on me rather than give legit advice :stopitslime:


Hold up you said what are we :why:


What part of the game is that :mindblown:
@TradePascalSiakam
:snoop: I know dog


I drank beer + liquor and then smoked a lot


Woke up like :huhldup:
 

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Hold up you said what are we :why:


What part of the game is that :mindblown:
@TradePascalSiakam

He's a square, literally like 90% of the male population. I realized that when I was 18 when I had a very deep conversation with a gigolo I knew. Many of the men from every era were simple squares who were always bad with women, but time + proximity and money, helped. You'd be surprised how many men are settling out there because they lack proper game. This is where I saw the izm and life, on the same curve. Men who get it, and men who are tricks.
 

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He's a square, literally like 90% of the male population. I realized that when I was 18 when I had a very deep conversation with a gigolo I knew. Many of the men from every era were simple squares who were always bad with women, but time + proximity and money, helped. You'd be surprised how many men are settling out there because they lack proper game. This is where I saw the izm and life, on the same curve. Men who get it, and men who are tricks.

99.9% of this thread is squares thus they need to live by square rules. Issue is dudes trying to be something they aren't because dumb ass rap songs and the media telling them being a square is wrong.
 

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I have sex with her goofy

And I said I have a rotation


You just tryna flex on me rather than give legit advice :stopitslime:


You must be new here, I give plenty of solid advice, stop being defensive, read carefully and accept everything I say as advice. Yes you have a "rotation", congrats, yet you're on here telling us how you're acting like a square when you get drunk, over some rando who's giving you butterflies in your stomach. Nobody is flexing, I'm literally telling you where your mistakes are present. Its up to you, to stop the behavior. Though it seems like you're using liquor as an excuse to get all up in your feelings and go full blown female with questions like "what are we?"...sound less like you have a rotation, and more like you have one girl you want to be fukking.
 

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You must be new here, I give plenty of solid advice, stop being defensive, read carefully and accept everything I say as advice. Yes you have a "rotation", congrats, yet you're on here telling us how you're acting like a square when you get drunk, over some rando who's giving you butterflies in your stomach. Nobody is flexing, I'm literally telling you where your mistakes are present. Its up to you, to stop the behavior. Though it seems like you're using liquor as an excuse to get all up in your feelings and go full blown female with questions like "what are we?"...sound less like you have a rotation, and more like you have one girl you want to be fukking.


nikka said sound like you just want one girl to be fukking


Like that’s a diss


:russ::russ::russ::russ:





I forgot the coli 6 cert group of nikkas that only fukks 15 outta 10s in Hollywood


Lemme fall back all wise one
 

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nikka said sound like you just want one girl to be fukking


Like that’s a diss


:russ::russ::russ::russ:





I forgot the coli 6 cert group of nikkas that only fukks 15 outta 10s in Hollywood


Lemme fall back all wise one


It's actually an analysis not a diss...if you're going to be defensive in this forum, best move on. You gotta be honest with yourself, drop the ego, and accept the help. You're posting on here for a reason.
 

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How the BM / Nurse I was messing with, was literally in Dubai yesterday. Dude was tricking, Rolex, bags, clothes, roses.

:ohhh:

Moral of the story #86845846744: Women may say, “the guy fukking me needs to make xyz” this is babble. There is always be somebody smashing for the lower price / free.


I've always broke birds down with that line "who fukked for weed/henny? put me on that list". Gets em angry all the time. That self analysis hits harder than a motherfukker when you show them that their pride and ego, mean nothing when all they've fukked are bodega Juan's and dealers all their lives.
 
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