I needed this. I be in here spitting game but as a man I have to admit that I slip and take the L a lot as well. It’s apart of the game.
I talk to a lot of females out here, mostly for sexual reasons, of course. But there is one chick I actually like that I see every time I go back to town. Never drama between us and we always enjoy each other company— I want to say last holiday break I saw her almost everyday but one or two days.
Couple nights ago your boy got mad sloppy drunk and decided to hit her up. I asked the what are we question and if she’s talking to anyone else
something I always say you should never do in here. Her response was we’re just talking and that if she was talking to someone else she would let me know.
I knew that response already since she’s got a lot of going on in her life but my drunk ass
asked the questions anyways.
we’re not on bad terms or anything but that shyt to me is a lesson to fall back and regroup. I haven’t texted her in like 3/4 days.
I quoted this post because I felt like I was tryna validate myself to her even though she’s not asking for a validation. I mean that’s what happens when you like someone and you want said so person to be yours right?
I understand the part about not giving a fukk but I do value her opinion. All I’m saying is I shouldn’t make emotional decisions like that.