Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Sometimes as men, we need to humble ourselves and just realize we aren't that guy to every women we speak to.

We all know how it is when a woman is really into you. She will stop at nothing to see you as often as possible.
Case in point, she was too busy to see me for like almost 2 months, but had time to see buddy enough to the point where it's become serious and exclusive now.

The game is the game :manny:
So you were her 3rd or 4th option? That’s what I got from this.

Her first option (the one she couldn’t get) can get her whenever he wants. Just remember that.
 

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So you were her 3rd or 4th option? That’s what I got from this.

Her first option (the one she couldn’t get) can get her whenever he wants. Just remember that.

Yeah that's exactly what I'm saying, but at the time I didn't know for sure she was seeing someone else.
But when you meet off an app you almost got to assume they are vetting through a couple guys:manny:
 
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I haven't been used for dinner before. I have been used for shots but that is usually my fault because by the time that happens I'm drunk and offering free shots.

I wonder if it's because of your guys age or your location and that speaks volumes about them? I know there are some chicks that ain't shyt and be using dudes that way.
BUT I know how often dudes are in girls DMs asking to take them out.... So when she accepts your offer that has to mean something, at least from my experience....
Now she could be using you for a meal but she could of also found you attractive and you somehow fukked that up . . . . . .

I don't know if some of you brehs realize this but some threads, responses here, and posters be sounding crazy as hell when they talk about their situations :pachaha:

A lot of brehs be carrying anxiety, bitterness, resentment and every other negativity under the sun. You can hide it but it reveals itself through the cracks and women be either consciously or subconsciously recognizing that shyt and be ready to bounce.



I'm probably off about these particular situations here but my tangent speaks overall for men.

I be hanging with and talking to females all the time :pachaha: shyt just be becoming natural to me now


I also forget that we on a forum and most brehs here probably introverted af with weak to average social skills.
 

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I haven't been used for dinner before. I have been used for shots but that is usually my fault because by the time that happens I'm drunk and offering free shots.

I wonder if it's because of your guys age or your location and that speaks volumes about them? I know there are some chicks that ain't shyt and be using dudes that way.
BUT I know how often dudes are in girls DMs asking to take them out.... So when she accepts your offer that has to mean something, at least from my experience....
Now she could be using you for a meal but she could of also found you attractive and you somehow fukked that up . . . . . .

I don't know if some of you brehs realize this but some threads, responses here, and posters be sounding crazy as hell when they talk about their situations :pachaha:

A lot of brehs be carrying anxiety, bitterness, resentment and every other negativity under the sun. You can hide it but it reveals itself through the cracks and women be either consciously or subconsciously recognizing that shyt and be ready to bounce.



I'm probably off about these particular situations here but my tangent speaks overall for men.

I be hanging with and talking to females all the time :pachaha: shyt just be becoming natural to me now


I also forget that we on a forum and most brehs here probably introverted af with weak to average social skills.

dudes aint honest.

dudes claim they want rosters and sex yet be acting like boyfriends to chicks who already have FWBs they get sex from

dudes fear rejection from what they really want thus they play the i wanna be yo boyfriend role hoping chick gives them sex
 

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dudes aint honest.

dudes claim they want rosters and sex yet be acting like boyfriends to chicks who already have FWBs they get sex from

dudes fear rejection from what they really want thus they play the i wanna be yo boyfriend role hoping chick gives them sex
This why I advocate brehs working on their social skills all the time here.

We say dudes be in girls inboxes 24/7 and this is understatement. THEY BE IN THERE.

I got a girl I'm talking to now her phone be blowing tf up from the most random people around town. Lot of these dudes just inbox her talking about fukking or inviting her over to their crib (to fukk). And she says whenever she sees all these dudes in public they be quiet af like their messages don't exist. :laff::laff:

Her and a few other girls I talk to inbox be deep af and you know why they ignore all these messages or just waste guys times?

Their answer is: "I don't know him".

Brehs be forgetting that these girls don't know you're charming or what you like in real life. They're not about to risk their life for sex when they can get that everywhere and anywhere.

Again, I know some chicks are dirty out here and will use a man. But usually when a chick agrees to meeting up for a dinner or something she usually finds something in the dude.... might be the pictures or it might be his texting game... then usually dudes fukk it up by being too stuck up or what you've said.

I haven't used a dating app in months... I strive in the locations I hang out at. I just approach them and casually talk to them... they get to know me and realize I'm fun to be around.


That feeling of when a girl asks for your info or they hit u up on fb days later be the ultimate ego boost brehs :shaq:
 
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