Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

If a woman is dropping you cause of what you did or said then she wasn’t really into you in the first place.



It only takes a few seconds to figure out if she tingles from seeing you. Might as well be upfront. It’s more successful than doing this:

I’m not spending my time doing dinners. Only activities which are geared towards my interest. I refuse to be out here filling her stomach, unless I’m filling her stomach.

 

[PharaohAtem]

If they aren’t messaging back you within 10 minutes of the match.

Bush / Unmatch.

Hoes collecting nikkas like yu-gi-oh cards

 

[Apollo Creed]

This why I advocate brehs working on their social skills all the time here.

We say dudes be in girls inboxes 24/7 and this is understatement. THEY BE IN THERE.

I got a girl I'm talking to now her phone be blowing tf up from the most random people around town. Lot of these dudes just inbox her talking about fukking or inviting her over to their crib (to fukk). And she says whenever she sees all these dudes in public they be quiet af like their messages don't exist.

Her and a few other girls I talk to inbox be deep af and you know why they ignore all these messages or just waste guys times?

Their answer is: "I don't know him".

Brehs be forgetting that these girls don't know you're charming or what you like in real life. They're not about to risk their life for sex when they can get that everywhere and anywhere.

Again, I know some chicks are dirty out here and will use a man. But usually when a chick agrees to meeting up for a dinner or something she usually finds something in the dude.... might be the pictures or it might be his texting game... then usually dudes fukk it up by being too stuck up or what you've said.

I haven't used a dating app in months... I strive in the locations I hang out at. I just approach them and casually talk to them... they get to know me and realize I'm fun to be around.


That feeling of when a girl asks for your info or they hit u up on fb days later be the ultimate ego boost brehs

dudes wanna do everything be be themselves lol. If a chick dont what you for the person you are do you really event want her? Dudes put more into impressing women than learning who they are as men. When you are happy with who you are as a man, naturally talking about yourself snd what you enjoy will be in a confident manner. Literally just talking about what you enjoy snd tying it back to her to provide input on what she likes or what she knows about the things you like is human convo 101

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

dudes wanna do everything be be themselves lol. If a chick dont what you for the person you are do you really event want her? Dudes put more into impressing women than learning who they are as men. When you are happy with who you are as a man, naturally talking about yourself snd what you enjoy will be in a confident manner. Literally just talking about what you enjoy snd tying it back to her to provide input on what she likes or what she knows about the things you like is human convo 101

Yeah why would I fukk with someone who doesn’t want me

we don’t do that when guys don’t wanna be our friends we don’t even care


Should apply that to women

 

[King]

fukkkkkkkkkkkkk

My mouthpiece is straight GARBAGE

 

[Ahadi]

fukkkkkkkkkkkkk

My mouthpiece is straight GARBAGE

Nah. She just didn’t fukk w you like that. Lol

 

[King]

Nah. She just didn’t fukk w you like that. Lol

Hopefully so, we was feeling each other over text but I guess over the phone she was like nah

Carried that mfing conversation harder than Jerome Bettis did for the 1997 Steelers


Mad awkward, fukk it tho onto the next one

 

[NoirDynosaur]

This why I advocate brehs working on their social skills all the time here.

We say dudes be in girls inboxes 24/7 and this is understatement. THEY BE IN THERE.

I got a girl I'm talking to now her phone be blowing tf up from the most random people around town. Lot of these dudes just inbox her talking about fukking or inviting her over to their crib (to fukk). And she says whenever she sees all these dudes in public they be quiet af like their messages don't exist.

Her and a few other girls I talk to inbox be deep af and you know why they ignore all these messages or just waste guys times?

Their answer is: "I don't know him".

Brehs be forgetting that these girls don't know you're charming or what you like in real life. They're not about to risk their life for sex when they can get that everywhere and anywhere.

Again, I know some chicks are dirty out here and will use a man. But usually when a chick agrees to meeting up for a dinner or something she usually finds something in the dude.... might be the pictures or it might be his texting game... then usually dudes fukk it up by being too stuck up or what you've said.

I haven't used a dating app in months... I strive in the locations I hang out at. I just approach them and casually talk to them... they get to know me and realize I'm fun to be around.


That feeling of when a girl asks for your info or they hit u up on fb days later be the ultimate ego boost brehs

As a witness online and real life are totally different ballgames. Online its mainly just texting and photos, it lacks the spontaneity and the anticipation captured in real life presence. Plus flake rate is hella high.

At least in person a shawty can feel your personality, magnetic charm, presentation. Most of the girls including my college GF that left a memorable impression in me was from in person. Face to Face approach will always be the GOAT.. Nuff said!

 

[King]

As a witness online and real life are totally different ballgames. Online its mainly just texting and photos, it lacks the spontaneity and the anticipation captured in real life presence. Plus flake rate is hella high.

At least in person a shawty can feel your personality, magnetic charm, presentation. Most of the girls including my college GF that left a memorable impression in me was from in person. Face to Face approach will always be the GOAT.. Nuff said!

Hmm…

This is beginning to seem like the truth.

This online shyt is lame asl. Weird asf too. You can’t even gauge the chemistry properly through text. Get em on the phone and it’s like you’re talking to a different person.

 

[CountryBoyL]

Mane just had my live in girlfriend of a year tell me we shouldn’t renew a lease together. Damn never knew we had issues to this point. I got 2 kids that I have custody of and I was adamant about if we was to take this step together, then we would work through whatever together. shyt hit me out of nowhere and she told me the day after we came back from a hiking trip. Smh looking for a condo now as our lease is done at the beginning of January. Shawty couldn’t even let me know that this decision was on her mind at all. Ya boy going through it mane

 

[Apollo Creed]

Mane just had my live in girlfriend of a year tell me we shouldn’t renew a lease together. Damn never knew we had issues to this point. I got 2 kids that I have custody of and I was adamant about if we was to take this step together, then we would work through whatever together. shyt hit me out of nowhere and she told me the day after we came back from a hiking trip. Smh looking for a condo now as our lease is done at the beginning of January. Shawty couldn’t even let me know that this decision was on her mind at all. Ya boy going through it mane

if I understand correctly
1.its 4 of yall in a place (You, your 2 kids, and her)
2.yall been together a year
3.You never proposed to her?

IF 1-3 are true, I dont blame her for leaving to be honest. She's dumb for moving in without an engagement. May sound harsh but take a step out from your wants and look at the greater picture.

 

[CountryBoyL]

if I understand correctly
1.its 4 of yall in a place (You, your 2 kids, and her)
2.yall been together a year
3.You never proposed to her?

IF 1-3 are true, I dont blame her for leaving to be honest. She's dumb for moving in without an engagement. May sound harsh but take a step out from your wants and look at the greater picture.

well she said she doesn’t believe in marriage at all. She feels it’s not necessary. Believe me I would’ve in a heart beat and she knows it as well. Guess this wasn’t for her at the end of the day

 

[Apollo Creed]

well she said she doesn’t believe in marriage at all. She feels it’s not necessary. Believe me I would’ve in a heart beat and she knows it as well. Guess this wasn’t for her at the end of the day

yeah i think being with the kids probably solidified it wasnt for her, and honestly if a woman doesnt believe in marriage i would NOT cohabitat with her.yall keep yall own spaces and just meet when yall wanna spend time. Cohabitation is a marriage privilege imo.

 

[CountryBoyL]

yeah i think being with the kids probably solidified it wasnt for her, and honestly if a woman doesnt believe in marriage i would NOT cohabitat with her.yall keep yall own spaces and just meet when yall wanna spend time. Cohabitation is a marriage privilege imo.

yea lesson learned on my part. I was married before and went through the phase of telling myself I was fine without it ever happening again but in actuality I believe it’s a beautiful thing. Nonetheless I got 3-4 in this current spot with her until our lease is up so we keeping everything cordial and just enjoying this last bit of time I suppose

 

[BaggerofTea]

Mane just had my live in girlfriend of a year tell me we shouldn’t renew a lease together. Damn never knew we had issues to this point. I got 2 kids that I have custody of and I was adamant about if we was to take this step together, then we would work through whatever together. shyt hit me out of nowhere and she told me the day after we came back from a hiking trip. Smh looking for a condo now as our lease is done at the beginning of January. Shawty couldn’t even let me know that this decision was on her mind at all. Ya boy going through it mane

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She did you a favor breh