Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Max.]

Welp this mixed broad flaked(hasnt opened my snap) so im going to this pawgs house instead…

i got my gf on mute lol

woke up n saw the mixed broad blocked me bcuz she flaked lmao

anyways the pawg was cool…she was rubbn on the dikk in the couch,.,her annoying ass kid was up tho till like 10pm

 

[WavyHair ChippedTeeth]

I gotta dead this shyt I got with this one girl. We matched on hinge last year. She would disappear and reappear weeks later, which didn’t phase me all that much cuz my rotation was actually unmanageable so there was no need to make it more so. We finally met in the flesh 3 months ago.

The positives: she’s lowkey a baddie, doing her PhD, has mad style and our bants are dope. The negatives: disappearing and reappearing act with some convenient excuse. Seems to be scared or unwilling to be intimate as she ignored proposals to kick it indoors, always suggesting a neutral ground

I can’t front, the lack of buns has gotten to me. I feel my patience is now exhausted. There are other girls tryna to get with a nikka, and granted she might be badder than them, but one must go where they’re celebrated. 3 months is a long time and I work way too hard to make plans for someone that might just want to be on a platonic tip and/or got a rotation of her own.

The M.O is only live hoes, no scared bytches

My only dilemma is if I should just go ghost or let her know it ain’t working for me. In my heart, I know the later is Hail Mary play, but something tells me I might have to do it anyway cuz it’s likely she’ll check in and highlight any perceived distance.

If your roster is healthy, drop her.

 

[Snoopy Loops]

If your roster is healthy, drop her.

The roster is kinda shaky atm, hence the diatribe. If it was healthy, I probably wouldn’t care. Been mad busy at work recently, so roster building has suffered a bit. shyt probably won’t let up for a while, so every investment turned sour stings a bit more.

 

[bill riser]

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Tried to get at this slim Latina cougar at this spot across the street from my gym and got the “you’re too yung for me but thanks sweetie” ether. If I had it like @Pdiddy i coulda persisted and asked to hang out or whatever but I just took it as practice to get over approach nerves

 

[VertigoKnight]

Most black dudes aren't hitting Asians at your numbers. I can't even remember one black/Asian couple I've seen recently (definitely not many bad Asians).

Are you mixed with anything?

Naw just a normal black guy. I do have one plus I guess, I stand out with my accent here and know how to present myself.

Like when I first started dating here I wasn't really checking out Asian women as I believed they weren't checking for brehs. But then they started hitting me up on the apps and I found we had mutual experiences and we got along very well.

But yeah I can see I'm definitely an outlier when it comes to brehs dealing with them.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Naw just a normal black guy. I do have one plus I guess, I stand out with my accent here and know how to present myself.

Like when I first started dating here I wasn't really checking out Asian women as I believed they weren't checking for brehs. But then they started hitting me up on the apps and I found we had mutual experiences and we got along very well.

But yeah I can see I'm definitely an outlier when it comes to brehs dealing with them.

Where do you live? Seems like you are in a place where black men are rare enough to become a fetish.

 

[360dagod]

Met this one girl and the chemistry was vibrant after one phonecall...

Hopefully going on another date tomorrow

Anything can happen at any moment, but I'm gonna be positive about this one and put my chips on the table

 

[VertigoKnight]

How many of y'all are familiar with that female tactic of bashing and knocking certain restaurants when you have offered to take them out to lunch? I'm not saying every time it's disingenuous but, come on, I just feel it in my bones that they just want to go someplace else instead of just being grateful that someone is offering to take them out to eat.



And I'm not talking about like McDonald's or some shyt but not necessarily a five-star restaurant either. Something like a Cheddar's or outback, or golden corral, etc.

Edit:
Or is it that many women are super fickle about food and a lot of guys just eat what's presented (within reason)?

Very familiar. And those chicks can get a stepping. I like good food but you're gonna have to show me your good company before we go out for any food these days.

When I re-entered the dating scene in 2018 and was inviting chicks out to eat. A few pulled that move, I'd suggest a place they'd say how about this place instead? Me being an ass I'd go with that as I wanted the drawers. Most of the time I got them but those chicks were boring outside of that so I bushed them once I smashed.

In my experience I like that the women I currently deal with are open to a variety of places and haven't tried to pull that ungrateful shyt on me. In fact a lot of the time they're happy to treat me and pay. Both chicks I saw this past weekend got the bill as I covered the last one.

Thats the kind of energy I want to see from any woman I see these days. Then I won't second guess when I want to treat her and take her out.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Where do you live? Seems like you are in a place where black men are rare enough to become a fetish.

I live in Vancouver. Definitely not an abundance of black guys here, at least when I moved here, much more now though. I see brehs everywhere now. But in terms of the fetish stuff I'm attuned to look out for that from women. That's also one of the things these asian women understand. Being looked at as a stereotype or a sexual fetish is off putting for them as well.

So much so that they always look out for that red card with any man they start talking to. I'm not shocked or surprised to hear how many men here start off conversations with non white women with the I've never had an (insert ethnicity) woman before.

It's why I don't really gel with the white women here who like me on the apps and approach me at clubs and other places. I always feel that hungry for big black cock energy from a lot of them. Where any black guy will do.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

It’s official I,1LT,Runner2049, am resigning my commission from the Cold Approach Forces. I’m not built like @Pdiddy to push thru the rejections and awkward first approaches. Stay up brehs

 

[Neuromancer]

I gotta dead this shyt I got with this one girl. We matched on hinge last year. She would disappear and reappear weeks later, which didn’t phase me all that much cuz my rotation was actually unmanageable so there was no need to make it more so. We finally met in the flesh 3 months ago.

The positives: she’s lowkey a baddie, doing her PhD, has mad style and our bants are dope. The negatives: disappearing and reappearing act with some convenient excuse. Seems to be scared or unwilling to be intimate as she ignored proposals to kick it indoors, always suggesting a neutral ground

I can’t front, the lack of buns has gotten to me. I feel my patience is now exhausted. There are other girls tryna to get with a nikka, and granted she might be badder than them, but one must go where they’re celebrated. 3 months is a long time and I work way too hard to make plans for someone that might just want to be on a platonic tip and/or got a rotation of her own.

The M.O is only live hoes, no scared bytches

My only dilemma is if I should just go ghost or let her know it ain’t working for me. In my heart, I know the later is Hail Mary play, but something tells me I might have to do it anyway cuz it’s likely she’ll check in and highlight any perceived distance.

Bush her. Don't reward behavior you don't like with your time.

 

[Neuromancer]

Met this one girl and the chemistry was vibrant after one phonecall...

Hopefully going on another date tomorrow

Anything can happen at any moment, but I'm gonna be positive about this one and put my chips on the table

Good on you bro.

 

[Neuromancer]

I live in Vancouver

You're originally on that Greenwich mean time right?

 

[MikelArteta]

My quick gems brehs

I need a spot for a date , none of that museum, art gallery, restaurant, picnic, walk

its going to be raining but i can't think of anything