Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[<<TheStandard>>]

I mean I wouldn't call it friend zone we been talking for like 6 months now. We pretty much know everything about each other. We've kissed multiple times and we've talked about hooking up. We've gotten close to being in a relationship twice but one or the other backed out at the last second.

She cut it off the first time and said she wanted to stay friends and I wasnt having it at all. But after like 2 weeks of talking to other guys and stuff she comes right back to me and the talk starts again.

The second time was just recently. I kinda got bored I couldn't stand talking to her anymore I didn't really enjoy hanging out with her or anything and I kinda want to enjoy doing my own thing for a while, so I kinda hinted that I didnt want a relationship anymore and she said she felt the same. But the girl still wants to be friends man!

She is def wifey material girls like this come once in a lifetime I feel like. up.

For your own sanity, you gotta throw this girl in the bushes. You gotta get it through your head that you are the prize breh. You thinking this girl is once in a lifetime will only lead to you being disappointed. Trust me, I've been there. I can guarantee you she's not the once in a lifetime girl you think she is just off what you've told us. You have her on a pedestal and she's done nothing to earn it. It's been 6 months & she's still playing games.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

In my humble opinion, it's not the actual being a brazen a$$hole that attracts women, just the confidence that it seems to reflect. Women see a guy who's confident enough to treat them like garbage and see a man who must have lots to offer them if he acts as if he doesn't even need to treat them well in order to get in their pants. The "nice guys" are looking like they're trying to qualify themselves because they need to, rather than acting like they've already arrived and therefore have nothing to prove to the beautiful women.

damn, nicca this is heat. I fukks with it. Good stuff

 

[Jason B]

@ Kevm3, DaygoTaco,& rapdonttweet: I pretty much agree with much of what yall have said in response to my last post. Again, I was strictly stating the difference in terms of how I have dealt with women in the past and and how some guys I know personally have dealt with them and how women responded differently. At this point, I realize that you can treat family and friends (if they are not on bullshyt) with human decency/respect but you sure is hell cannot do the same with ANY woman without her trying to come at you sideways. They say the definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again and expect a different result, so I am looking to adopt a new approach overall which basically includes treating women how they truly want to be treated in order to be respected by them.

 

[Jason B]

Breh... this past summer I was seeing this girl, I waited 2 months to have sex... She hit me with the "I'm old-fashioned" bullsh1t (after I probably fukked up somewhere or she met someone better ) I stayed around and as soon as I heard the word "friend" after an argument I and got the fukk out.

Leave that bish alone.

My moms told me on some G shyt, "That early, if she aint sleeping with you, she's sleeping with someone else"

I don't believe in that goody goody shyt from girls no more, even if she's a saint, if her interest level is high enough she'll do whatever to keep you.

That is right. There isnt much of anything that will stop a woman from being in the presence of the man to whom she is attracted.

 

[rapdonttweet]

Breh... this past summer I was seeing this girl, I waited 2 months to have sex... She hit me with the "I'm old-fashioned" bullsh1t (after I probably fukked up somewhere or she met someone better ) I stayed around and as soon as I heard the word "friend" after an argument I and got the fukk out.

Leave that bish alone.

My moms told me on some G shyt, "That early, if she aint sleeping with you, she's sleeping with someone else"

I don't believe in that goody goody shyt from girls no more, even if she's a saint, if her interest level is high enough she'll do whatever to keep you.

I agree up to a point. There are real girls who want to wait until marriage, but if she's really into you she will be doing everything else up to that. Intense makeout sessions, handjobs, blowjobs, etc. The sexual interest will be there, even if the sex itself is not.

 

[rapdonttweet]

@ Kevm3, DaygoTaco,& rapdonttweet: I pretty much agree with much of what yall have said in response to my last post. Again, I was strictly stating the difference in terms of how I have dealt with women in the past and and how some guys I know personally have dealt with them and how women responded differently. At this point, I realize that you can treat family and friends (if they are not on bullshyt) with human decency/respect but you sure is hell cannot do the same with ANY woman without her trying to come at you sideways. They say the definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again and expect a different result, so I am looking to adopt a new approach overall which basically includes treating women how they truly want to be treated in order to be respected by them.

No one's saying treat em like shyt, we're saying don't confuse respect with passiveness. a$$holes get women because they are confident, aggressive, and go after what they want, not because they are a$$holes. You can do those things while still being a good dude.

There is absolutely nothing indecent about being confident and taking initiative. You gotta understand that what women are seeing from you isn't respect, they're seeing passive, meek, indecisive, and a big one, non-sexual. These are all words you should be trying to avoid, especially the last one. Yes, they probably appreciate compliments but they're not looking for a puppy to fawn over them, they're looking for a man. And heck, even a puppy initiates physical contact without having to beat around the bush or ask if something's okay.

Figuring out how to be alpha without being an a$$hole is one of the greatest challenges a man will face. And once I figured it out it was a complete eye opener into what was wrong with the way I used to act.

 

[Jason B]

delete

 

[kevm3]

Kevm3 watch this episode of 48 hours

The Ballad of Mike and Dalia Dippolito [Full Dateline Episode] - YouTube

bout a girl that tried to play her husband and get him killed. Later she tries to deny it all when she sees that hes still alive after they told her he died.

You see how she came with those alligator tears too? Women are masters at playing the victim game and using things like tears and the such to make you feel sorry for them.

 

[Scotch Hall]

You see how she came with those alligator tears too? Women are masters at playing the victim game and using things like tears and the such to make you feel sorry for them.

It was crazy breh, I was watching that mad. Girl was just making them noises

at her just getting house arrest while she appeals

 

[Jason B]

No one's saying treat em like shyt, we're saying don't confuse respect with passiveness. a$$holes get women because they are confident, aggressive, and go after what they want, not because they are a$$holes. You can do those things while still being a good dude.

There is absolutely nothing indecent about being confident and taking initiative. You gotta understand that what women are seeing from you isn't respect, they're seeing passive, meek, indecisive, and a big one, non-sexual. These are all words you should be trying to avoid, especially the last one. Yes, they probably appreciate compliments but they're not looking for a puppy to fawn over them, they're looking for a man. And heck, even a puppy initiates physical contact without having to beat around the bush or ask if something's okay.

Figuring out how to be alpha without being an a$$hole is one of the greatest challenges a man will face. And once I figured it out it was a complete eye opener into what was wrong with the way I used to act.

I feel you. But for me, confidence was never an issue. The issue has been conducting myself in a respectful/proper manner (how I was raised as a child),which is a world apart from passivity. I have been this way in general with both men and women. But women, or at least those I have interacted with,tend to equate my respectful behavior with me being some kind chump despite the fact that I do not give them compliments nor kiss their asses. Then, I see some guys, even those in my family, treat women like trash and the women love and respect every bit of it and be like "WTF?". That is probably because I was taught that women value respectfulnes/decency from men, but reality has shown me the opposite.

It so ridiculous that some of my male relatives tell me that in order to get a woman's respect, I have to treat her like she is shyt on the bottom of my shoes since obviously, this approach has been very successful for them. So maybe I should begin to consider their advice on how to REALLY treat women,which it is definitely NOT how women SAY they want to treated ("I want a man to treat me as a human being, not less than to only be viewed as a sexual object.").

 

[MikelArteta]

I just got back from Cuba I got thangs to write breh, the American women is poisoned and a whore


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk breh!

 

[kevm3]

Man, ya'll just have to realize that it's the women, it's not you. I find that I've been making rationalizations to cover up some of the backwards decisions women make...
for example

Women are looking for great leadership
the Reality isn't that they are looking for positive leadership more than they are looking for a man to take control. There is a HUGE difference between the two. In fact, the simps and the nice guys are much better leaders than the 'bad boys' and players that these women keep choosing in their 20s. That's why these women get burned out on those bad boys and look for 'nice guys' in their 30s. The main difference between the bad boy and nice guy is that the bad boy takes much firmer control of the situation and knows how to and has no qualms with manipulating her emotional states. The nice guy refuses to do so out of 'respect' for her. Bad boy will make her mad. Nice guy won't. It has little to do with leadership, but rather, which of the two entities is more entertaining to her and will take control. The nice guys, who will take care of all financial responsibilities, make sure she is taken care of, etc., is a MUCH better leader. The bad boy is much more entertaining. Women prefer a man that can take control and be entertaining.

It's like that whole hierarchy of needs things. First priority for these westernized females is entertainment/emotional rollercoaster and THEN it's being provided for... and don't think it's just younger women. Older women do the SAME thing but they word it in a different way to make it seem not as juvenile. "Well he just wasn't allowing me to GROW the way I should. My emotions and spirit went unfulfilled being with him."

 

[Liquid]

I was about to make a long drop, but I will just say this to my online brehs.

Be careful if you are talking to someone out of state. Notice any strange patterns such as paying unusually close attention to athletes, celebrities, and other notable figures. Going out during the week at odd times...it might seem like a stretch to you at first, but if you are dealing with a bad female she might be entertaining some of these popular figures when they are in town. I am not sure if anyone on here has been in this situation, but I won't add anymore to this...you should all be able to put these things together.

 

[kevm3]

that long distance stuff is tough. it's hard enough to know if a woman is keeping it real and she's right there. add distance in the mix and it becomes a double whammy.

 

[Liquid]

that long distance stuff is tough. it's hard enough to know if a woman is keeping it real and she's right there. add distance in the mix and it becomes a double whammy.

Yeah the key is to not get too attached, just threw it out there for the younger heads who are considering it with all this online chatting going on now. Don't get played...dont' become the next catfish catch either.