Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Rozay Oro

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I need to get my confidence back brehs. I’m working out and day 8 of no fap. Help me regain my confidence. These women have done a number on me but not anymore.
 

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Got a new job and I’m stacking bread. So no chasing.
Listen I fumbled a girl choosing at the drive thru just now. My confidence is shot because I recently took too long to fukk this cute brehette and she ended up friendzoning me. No fapping or porn.
 

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Got a new job and I’m stacking bread. So no chasing.
Listen I fumbled a girl choosing at the drive thru just now. My confidence is shot because I recently took too long to fukk this cute brehette and she ended up friendzoning me. No fapping or porn.
Stay on your grind. Women are unimportant now.
 

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Chick 1 Friday

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Saturday chick 2
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Wednesday chick 3
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the king is back

Looks like you already got em but next time you can make it a lil easier on yourself by telling them what time you want to meet them and where. If it doesn't work for them then they'll respond with an alternative. Asking girls if they're busy or whatnot isn't something I'd advise since women struggle with options and could lead to them flaking... although I will say if you're dealing with single moms then asking is okay.
 

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Looks like you already got em but next time you can make it a lil easier on yourself by telling them what time you want me to meet them and where. If it doesn't work for them then they'll respond with an alternative. Asking girls if they're busy or what works best for them leads to flaking... although I will say if you're dealing with single moms then asking is okay.


Thanks for the pointers breh will make the changes for next tIMe

I don't deal with women with kids
 

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Currently seeing a 29 year old chemist, she’s had 3 LTR’s averaging 18 months since she was 19, no kids. been seeing her for a year.

she’s nice overall, said she wants to get married and have kids someday, but i don’t think I want to lock this one down, mainly because she got 13 confirmed bodies, but only 3 LTR’s that went for a considerable amount of time. Considering she went to college and grad school the number itself to me isn’t too atypical, not the best, but not crazy. I’m being hypocritical too because my number is easily double that, but that double standard is always there a breh can’t help it. :francis:

Ran her traits through the coli satanic database and did not get any hits, no animal print , overly arched eyebrows or things of the sort, but a chick that’s had a string of 4-6 month relationships for so many years with only a few LTR’s may not be the move for a wife. I know it ain’t nothing out here in the streets, and there are some chicks that out her record to shame, but i don’t want to join team GMB if i cuff this one and things don’t work out.
 

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Currently seeing a 29 year old chemist, she’s had 3 LTR’s averaging 18 months since she was 19, no kids. been seeing her for a year.

she’s nice overall, said she wants to get married and have kids someday, but i don’t think I want to lock this one down, mainly because she got 13 confirmed bodies, but only 3 LTR’s that went for a considerable amount of time. Considering she went to college and grad school the number itself to me isn’t too atypical, not the best, but not crazy. I’m being hypocritical too because my number is easily double that, but that double standard is always there a breh can’t help it. :francis:

Ran her traits through the coli satanic database and did not get any hits, no animal print , overly arched eyebrows or things of the sort, but a chick that’s had a string of 4-6 month relationships for so many years with only a few LTR’s may not be the move for a wife. I know it ain’t nothing out here in the streets, and there are some chicks that out her record to shame, but i don’t want to join team GMB if i cuff this one and things don’t work out.

If you're around the same age as her then you not going to find too many people with a number lower than that. I would say it's better to not even ask but seeing how she sounds like her head is on straight and had possible LTR potential then yeah you gotta vet these hoes lol.
 
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Currently seeing a 29 year old chemist, she’s had 3 LTR’s averaging 18 months since she was 19, no kids. been seeing her for a year.

she’s nice overall, said she wants to get married and have kids someday, but i don’t think I want to lock this one down, mainly because she got 13 confirmed bodies, but only 3 LTR’s that went for a considerable amount of time. Considering she went to college and grad school the number itself to me isn’t too atypical, not the best, but not crazy. I’m being hypocritical too because my number is easily double that, but that double standard is always there a breh can’t help it. :francis:

Ran her traits through the coli satanic database and did not get any hits, no animal print , overly arched eyebrows or things of the sort, but a chick that’s had a string of 4-6 month relationships for so many years with only a few LTR’s may not be the move for a wife. I know it ain’t nothing out here in the streets, and there are some chicks that out her record to shame, but i don’t want to join team GMB if i cuff this one and things don’t work out.
I think the best question is does she know how to be a partner. That's the problem. If you just fukking when do you gain the experience to be a partner? Sometimes it ain't even these chicks fault. They can't identify people who want to be serious and people who want to smash. How is her relationship with her pops?
 

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I think the best question is does she know how to be a partner. That's the problem. If you just fukking when do you gain the experience to be a partner? Sometimes it ain't even these chicks fault. They can't identify people who want to be serious and people who want to smash. How is her relationship with her pops?
she’s good with communicating, listening, and adjusting, she’s good at being a partner. her pops was pretty strict and they had a tense relationship growing up. that’s probably the biggest of all her red flags for me. they’re good now, but she didn’t like him very much growing up since he was tough on her. her mom is the nicer one from what i can tell .
 

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she’s good with communicating, listening, and adjusting, she’s good at being a partner. her pops was pretty strict and they had a tense relationship growing up. that’s probably the biggest of all her red flags for me. they’re good now, but she didn’t like him very much growing up since he was tough on her. her mom is the nicer one from what i can tell .
Has she given any indication that she can't nurture?
 

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If you're around the same age as her then you not going to find too many people with a number lower than that. I would say it's better to even ask but seeing how she sounds like her head is on straight and had possible LTR potential then yeah you gotta vet these hoes lol.
yeah the number thing is a crapshoot. she broke down the details on her count (and her friend did too on the low :mjpls:) and i wasn’t too floored by none of the stories, and call me jaded but i was just glad she wasn’t selling the p*ss or camming because a lot of women up here do that.

Has she given any indication that she can't nurture?
no, haven’t had that concern at all.
 
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[/spoiler] yeah the number thing is a crapshoot. she broke down the details on her count (and her friend did too on the low :mjpls:) and i wasn’t too floored by none of the stories, and call me jaded but i was just glad she wasn’t selling the p*ss or camming because a lot of women up here do that. [/spoiler]


no, haven’t had that concern at all.
Then I'd either cut her off before it gets any further or tell her. Hey this makes me uncomfortable.
 
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