Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Red flag on a woman with a track record of being with younger men
I kind of knew, She was sexually assaulted/ raped at a young age and I heard something about women like that being freaks or they can't get enough. I know it sounds fukked up but It's not their fault that they're damaged. She doesn't act like it and She's forthcoming with everyone about what happened to her even publicly speaking out about what happened to her to raise awareness. But her getting with this younger dude, idk it just bothered me. Should I just walk out on her ass?
 
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I kind of knew, She was sexually assaulted/ raped at a young age and I heard something about women like that being freaks or they can't get enough. I know it sounds fukked up but It's not their fault that they're damaged. She doesn't act like it and She's forthcoming with everyone about what happened to her even publicly speaking out about what happened to her to raise awareness. But her getting with this younger dude, idk it just bothered me. Should I just walk out on her ass?

man everyone has a sob story. Protect yourself
 

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Yeah Idk, I always thought rape was something else like there are sob stories and then there's that. She's attractive, gorgeous actually, but yeah she has a history of men sexually assaulting/harassing her.
'you aren't a professional, she needs professional help. That said you will do what you want either way.
 

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No. I had the same screen name here I had where I met her.

stop using the same SNs across Social media. Unless you have a brand you are getting paid from then you shouldn't be shocked. The Coli is a major Forum and TLR pops up high in Google Searches (hence why content here ends up on other sites).
 

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What would you do if you found out someone who told you all this shyt about you mean alot to them and that they will always love you....you found out they fukked around on you when you were going through some hard times? In my case I had been dealing with some depression issues mainly having to do with suicide. I got admitted to a hospital. Well this broad I used to mess with recently showed back up in my life and she let slip that she had a fling with a guy younger than me. I met her when she was 24 and I was 19. She told me she met this guy when she was 28 and he was 21. I don't know, I just don't feel like what we had was special anymore.


She said the guy she dated was more like a fling that wanted more, like that was supposed to make me feel better. And that all this shouldn't bother me.
She's a sexual predator.
 

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I kind of knew, She was sexually assaulted/ raped at a young age and I heard something about women like that being freaks or they can't get enough. I know it sounds fukked up but It's not their fault that they're damaged. She doesn't act like it and She's forthcoming with everyone about what happened to her even publicly speaking out about what happened to her to raise awareness. But her getting with this younger dude, idk it just bothered me. Should I just walk out on her ass?
Yes leave. She needs to seek help and it ain't your job or responsibility to be there. She has no loyalty to you. So why should you have any?
 

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She's a sexual predator.
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Idk about that, she's genuinely a good person, she helps out with her community, she stands up for BIPOC communities, I mean even now she's working with AIM and BLM to hold a candlelight vigil on Thursday. I'm conflicted because this is all new to me. The whole reason she reached out is because of her health she was scared...because she has 2 autoimmune disorders and her organs were at risk of shutting down. She wanted to see if their was still something there.
 

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Idk about that, she's genuinely a good person, she helps out with her community, she stands up for BIPOC communities, I mean even now she's working with AIM and BLM to hold a candlelight vigil on Thursday. I'm conflicted because this is all new to me. The whole reason she reached out is because of her health she was scared...because she has 2 autoimmune disorders and her organs were at risk of shutting down. She wanted to see if their was still something there.
Just because she does all that doesn't mean she's not preying on younger men because she can control them. I'm not discounting her accomplishments. But if this was a man would anyone bother with that if they were dating much younger women?
 

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Just because she does all that doesn't mean she's not preying on younger men because she can control them. I'm not discounting her accomplishments. But if this was a man would anyone bother with that if they were dating much younger women?
But the thing is I wasn't with her when she was with the younger guy. It just fukks me up that she told me that when she tells me all this stuff about how much I mean to her. Idk am I overreacting? She did say her life wasn't all good back then either because she was another person. But again She told me all the times she was with him she was drunk....she'd black out and vaguely remember what they did in the morning. She says to this day, she does not remember anything they did. Like that makes it okay.
 

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But yeah hearing that shyt now from that perspective has me thinking differently...getting drunk with a 21 year old and having sex.
 

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But the thing is I wasn't with her when she was with the younger guy. It just fukks me up that she told me that when she tells me all this stuff about how much I mean to her. Idk am I overreacting? She did say her life wasn't all good back then either because she was another person. But again She told me all the times she was with him she was drunk....she'd black out and vaguely remember what they did in the morning. She says to this day, she does not remember anything they did. Like that makes it okay.
Is she preying on younger men? Yes or no? Sounds like you are making excuses for her.
 
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