Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Theres dis bad lil chick dat work at planet fitness I been wantin to hilla at for a min but I just feel lame and awkward tryna do it while she wit her co workers n shyt. I be tryna catch her alone but it aint been happenin. Advice?

You're likely to be more successful at the gym than anywhere else, gym rats are always easy, and the job does get boring. Find out some of her interests, just don't be thirsty. Or plainly offer coffee, never seen a bird that didn't do coffee if she works or goes to the gym...as always, time + proximity=sex, so create opportunities to be around her. Coffee/park always works for me. Manipulate her vanity and insecurities (gym). Mention that she'll stay fit even through a walk in the park.
 

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my thing is if im playing the roster game, I'll simply disconnect. Dudes who believe in the concept of marriage, aint doing the roster stuff with a chick that is worth marrying. Roster requires a degree of management but should also be strictly business where anything with a ROI deemed unworthy gets replaced.


Considering the numbers...marriage should only be done for the non tax deductible gifts of cash. Besides that, not worth it. Always focus on thyself, however, many men are simps and can't even dream of having a roster of women, so they settle.
 

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Considering the numbers...marriage should only be done for the non tax deductible gifts of cash. Besides that, not worth it. Always focus on thyself, however, many men are simps and can't even dream of having a roster of women, so they settle.
My point is having a roster is supposed to cancel out sub optimal performance because you simply replace that person in the rotation
 

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She let me do anal :noah:

They all let me do anal, haven't run into one yet that doesn't. To be fair I introduce toys and light fingering, so eventually I don't give them a choice while in the middle of foreplay or sex, love the surprised face followed by "I didn't think it would feel good". You'd be surprised how many women are sexually immature.
 

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My point is having a roster is supposed to cancel out sub optimal performance because you simply replace that person in the rotation

Some men, even with a roster, are soft/lonely, so they basically want the girlfriend experience without the commitment or they simply lie about it. To be fair, one has to be pretty robotic/sociopathic since most can't even disconnect from an ex in their life. Agreed however, it should cancel out the mediocre performance....in theory.
 

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You will breh
I remember my first time being dumped. Bought flowers, begged, wrote a card, poems. :picard:

Couldn’t fathom how someone who said they loved me etc would now be so cold, someone I talked to every day for three years could just stop just like that

learned a lot , it’s always best to go no contact and don’t look back. You save your dignity

I remember last girl that dumped me it was through text I didn’t even say anything , month later she called me crying and how she wanted another chance (didn’t give one)

If someone wants to be with you they will if they don’t there’s nothing you can do

It was never really love. I still have girls who actually love me, and would come back instantly, but they're rotten, I can't keep cancer like them in my life. And I mean these birds would mule coke for me if I asked....even worse, one was a pornstar, who literally still texts me even though she has a fiance.
 

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They all let me do anal, haven't run into one yet that doesn't. To be fair I introduce toys and light fingering, so eventually I don't give them a choice while in the middle of foreplay or sex, love the surprised face followed by "I didn't think it would feel good". You'd be surprised how many women are sexually immature.
No lie it feels like you always just be trying to one up everyone in this thread :jbhmm:
 

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it's more often than not, a lie, so they don't sound like whores, which no one cares about in this era of everyone going down on each other. Could also be dudes have told her that shes bad at it. I'd have to ask several follow up questions.
:russ: facts. But what follow ups I'm sure it's the former. But to delve deeper and ask follow ups might put her on the defensive as she might think I'm judging her OR she'll think I care. A lose lose in my opinion since I'm not judging nor do I care :yeshrug:
 

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I ask shorty what turn her on
She said men who chase the bag
With that red face tongue out emoji too
This is a black woman who wants to be an anchorwoman
 
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Guys my ex dumped me a week ago but I haven’t talked to her since. Her bday is in couple weeks. So is it weird and strange that wish her a happy bday out of being kind? I mean I don’t expect us to strike a convo or get back together but I just worried that she would hurt my ego and ignore my happy birthday lol


Interesting enough, the girl I was dating, her birthday was yesterday. She stopped talking to me months ago. I cared for her to the point where I honestly would have been fine with being just friends with her because I felt like our bond was that thorough even if it didn't workout romantically. I saw that wasn't the case for her. As much as I wanted to wish her happy birthday, I didn't. I'm never talking to her again unless she initiates the conversation and I suggest you do the same. She dumped you so she clearly made it clear where you stand in her life.

You gotta be okay with a relationship/situationship ending at any time and just walking away.
 
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Cause my roster deep :wow:

Plus she really on her shyt. She went to two different brunch events Sunday and stopped by crib in between cause I was close to one of the spots. Then later that night she was with her "best friend" chillin out by the pool smoking hookah
When you say on her shyt you mean bullshyt?
 

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Guys my ex dumped me a week ago but I haven’t talked to her since. Her bday is in couple weeks. So is it weird and strange that wish her a happy bday out of being kind? I mean I don’t expect us to strike a convo or get back together but I just worried that she would hurt my ego and ignore my happy birthday lol
Don't do it.
 

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Some men, even with a roster, are soft/lonely, so they basically want the girlfriend experience without the commitment or they simply lie about it. To be fair, one has to be pretty robotic/sociopathic since most can't even disconnect from an ex in their life. Agreed however, it should cancel out the mediocre performance....in theory.
I've said this before there are a lot of men playing a game they think they should be playing with this roster shyt. And it's trickled down to women wanting to be like men and it has resulted in hookup/roster culture. This is breeding unhappy people and toxic relationship habits. People need to go back to one to one dating unless you're the aforementioned sociopath. It's fukking up people's psyche.
 
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