Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

Anyone else got a burner ig account for thots?

Gotta separate it.

 

[lamont614]

And just saying when a woman dumps you 95 percent of the time it’s over. She’s thought about it for months, she’s talked to her girls, mom maybe even close guy friends giving her one sided story that they all agree with and you go girl.

When she’s kissing you, being affectionate she’s slowly detaching, she’s mourning the loss of the relationship while she’s with you.

you might pick up things and ask what’s wrong and get a nothing everything is great to calm your fears

it’s just like at work when they getting rid of your azz

they’ve had meetings to discuss you, slowly give you less work etc. Then one day you come into work and have a 9am meeting where someone from hr is there and you’re being walked out.


So when women drop them thangs on you it’s already over she’s mourned the relationship

it’s why when men cheat wnd a woman breaks up in anger many times she goes back because the emotional ties are still there and she didn’t have time to break it



be a step ahead , now that I’m older the moment I feel a chick waning I just eject


I was cavorting with this chick for a few months we meet up one day at her place, she’s just on her phone I always gotta say something. I then said I’m going and ask if she wants to do breakfast she said nah that’s ok

I knew that was it, never said another word and I’ve never heard from her again


Another chick was on that we have a spiritual connection never met a guy like you blah blah. I remember texting her two days later get the ive been so busy blah blah


Never said anything again never heard from her again


Gotta be a step ahead always

Nah I ignored her for two straight days we live together


she was pissed she came home and would talk to me and I ignored her on some petty shyt she left


I’m so dumb


Gotta come with terms with it





that has happened to me with other woman tho where they act distant I didn’t really care about them like I did this one that’s why it hurts
I was way to comfortable being a a$$hole

 

[Max B]

no lie bro she probably has someone already lined up…maybe a guy at work…or some shyt…

idk if ur ex has friends but them bytches prolly trashed u too

Idk if she does have guy lined up but day before she sent me that text she was with her friends for a whole day so I’m assuming it’s something they said to her

 

[InGodWeTrust]

She let me do anal

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

She let me do anal

+10

 

[Actually6Foot3]

I feel like that "I don't really do this" line is imbedded in women's DNA

I'm smashing this chic last night and grab her to give me head. She Gon say "I haven't given head in so long"

I'm like

"You just gave me head Thursday"

She Gon say.

"That's different. I was laying down."

 

[J.E.T.S]

You will breh
I remember my first time being dumped. Bought flowers, begged, wrote a card, poems.

Couldn’t fathom how someone who said they loved me etc would now be so cold, someone I talked to every day for three years could just stop just like that

learned a lot , it’s always best to go no contact and don’t look back. You save your dignity

I remember last girl that dumped me it was through text I didn’t even say anything , month later she called me crying and how she wanted another chance (didn’t give one)

If someone wants to be with you they will if they don’t there’s nothing you can do

I don’t know what it is about that 2 and 3 year mark in a relationship, but nikkas be getting dumped lol

I also been through that twice. I never begged tho..

One had broke up with me because I got caught cheating. She literally told me it was nothing I could say or do. I did what most men did and not took ownership of it and blamed her… but, I told her I didn’t want to leave, it was a mistake, and I did love her. When she started ignoring me everyday at home and being cold I KNEW I had to leave, otherwise when she started fukking other nikkas I couldn’t say that she didn’t tell me what it was.

I went get me an apartment three weeks after she started giving me the cold shoulder.

she with a rap nikka with money now.. she seems happy as hell.

couldn’t be me tho… we did some NASTY nasty shyt while in that relationship.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I don’t know what it is about that 2 and 3 year mark in a relationship, but nikkas be getting dumped lol

I also been through that twice. I never begged tho..

One had broke up with me because I got caught cheating. She literally told me it was nothing I could say or do. I did what most men did and not took ownership of it and blamed her… but, I told her I didn’t want to leave, it was a mistake, and I did love her. When she started ignoring me everyday at home and being cold I KNEW I had to leave, otherwise when she started fukking other nikkas I couldn’t say that she didn’t tell me what it was.

I went get me an apartment three weeks after she started giving me the cold shoulder.

she with a rap nikka with money now.. she seems happy as hell.

couldn’t be me tho… we did some NASTY nasty shyt while in that relationship.

lets be real why do u need to be with someone 2 yrs and not engaged? Lmfao.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I’m officially at the point I just look down at women. No way I’m ever getting married.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Out of the whole group of yung nikkas I was standing with I was the only one looking at this slim thicc white girl that passed by. But the way thecoli tell it is that all the yung nikkas my age is like me, but it’s the opposite . I know I have a problem but I spent too long tryna avoid looking at ass and getting p*ssy just to fit in, my time now

 

[Apollo Creed]

Out of the whole group of yung nikkas I was standing with I was the only one looking at this slim thicc white girl that passed by. But the way thecoli tell it is that all the yung nikkas my age is like me, but it’s the opposite . I know I have a problem but I spent too long tryna avoid looking at ass and getting p*ssy just to fit in, my time now

You a whole weirdo breh

 

[Apollo Creed]

I’m officially at the point I just look down at women. No way I’m ever getting married.

You werent fit to lead a house anyways. You have too many issues you need to resolve

 

[BigE214]

Is it normal for a 33 year old woman with kids to be going out every weekend with her friends?

like I never met a woman that goes out all the time and every time her homegirls and cousins call her.

I’m talking bars, clubs, pool parties, all that…

frequent girls trips too

claims her last nikka was controlling and she stopped “going out like that” for a couple of years..

In my mind, “I was like bytch I see why!”

im sure that’s a main factor as to why they ended or am I trippin?

I know she has kids Coli, but she has a lot of other good qualities and I’ve dated women with kids before

what y’all think?

If she's a late bloomer, then it's understandable - still a lot of it is red flags. Some women feel like once they are "unshackled" from someone they are going to "live their best life"

I got one that's 34, divorced and has an 11 year old. Didn't party in college - failed married and since 30 she's been like what you described.

Since I've know here (less than a year) she ALWAYS doing something, karokee, planning trips, hookah, lounge, dinner, girls nights, girls trip and it's exhausting just trying to keep up so I can stay engaged in good conversation.

What it comes down to if you're trying to get serious with her is balance - if she ain't willing to cut back on all that then she just ain't the one

 

[Killigraphy]

Is it normal for a 33 year old woman with kids to be going out every weekend with her friends?

like I never met a woman that goes out all the time and every time her homegirls and cousins call her.

I’m talking bars, clubs, pool parties, all that…

frequent girls trips too

claims her last nikka was controlling and she stopped “going out like that” for a couple of years..

In my mind, “I was like bytch I see why!”

im sure that’s a main factor as to why they ended or am I trippin?

I know she has kids Coli, but she has a lot of other good qualities and I’ve dated women with kids before

what y’all think?

Addicts can very rarely hide their vices. In this case, she's been going to bars constantly, wasting away imbibing poison, while wondering why no man wants to stay or why they try to control her shyt behavior. Is it normal? Definitely, a lot of single or disgruntled moms, aren't happy people, they seek solace in the numbness of liquor, no hobbies, no vices, just empty husks who spent their youth face down on a toilet.

 

[Apollo Creed]

If she's a late bloomer, then it's understandable - still a lot of it is red flags. Some women feel like once they are "unshackled" from someone they are going to "live their best life"

I got one that's 34, divorced and has an 11 year old. Didn't party in college - failed married and since 30 she's been like what you described.

Since I've know here (less than a year) she ALWAYS doing something, karokee, planning trips, hookah, lounge, dinner, girls nights, girls trip and it's exhausting just trying to keep up so I can stay engaged in good conversation.

What it comes down to if you're trying to get serious with her is balance - if she ain't willing to cut back on all that then she just ain't the one

exhausting? Lol why are you even taking her serious