Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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my last ex sent me HBD text and gift cause it was 2-3 months after we broke up, so on her b day i sent a HBD text just cause of that, but its best to close that door when you break up. Leaving the door halfway open always leads to awkwardness. Yall can never be friends so why even do it. At max if its someone you were with for years, you can have an open door if they need advice or a fam member you met dies, but you shouldn't initiate any of that.
It’s insignificant man. I’m pretty even on calling the battle of the sexes but it doesn’t help you in the least.
True that. Thanks guys I needed to hear this before I did something I would regret later on
 

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Guys my ex dumped me a week ago but I haven’t talked to her since. Her bday is in couple weeks. So is it weird and strange that wish her a happy bday out of being kind? I mean I don’t expect us to strike a convo or get back together but I just worried that she would hurt my ego and ignore my happy birthday lol

DONT!!!!
 

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Guys my ex dumped me a week ago but I haven’t talked to her since. Her bday is in couple weeks. So is it weird and strange that wish her a happy bday out of being kind? I mean I don’t expect us to strike a convo or get back together but I just worried that she would hurt my ego and ignore my happy birthday lol


Don’t do it
Carry on
You don’t owe anything to someone who dumped you.

You text and then all day you look at your phone hoping for a text dreading why you did it then maybe you get a thanks or nothing at all


If there is one thing I learned through the years is silence you can never mess up
 

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why yall break up
She hinted at marriage for awhile which I have entertained it but I was being hesitant at same time. She never gave me explanation when she texted me just that “we are not getting anywhere and it’s best we both go separate ways and not waste each other’s time”

I didn’t even bother to reply I just left her on read. Haven’t talked to her since but I was always curious to why all of sudden I didn’t see any signs at all. Only reason why I thought sending happy birthday was so I had reason to message than I was gonna ask her why she dump me but I’m assuming it comes down to marriage. Anyways I don’t think a closure is needed for this imo you man are right I shouldn’t send happy birthday text it would make me look bad
 

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Don’t do it
Carry on
You don’t owe anything to someone who dumped you.

You text and then all day you look at your phone hoping for a text dreading why you did it then maybe you get a thanks or nothing at all


If there is one thing I learned through the years is silence you can never mess up
Yeah I agree with you bro. Just getting dumped out of no where sucks this like my first time experience something like this. But I guess I will get over it with time
 

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Yeah I agree with you bro. Just getting dumped out of no where sucks this like my first time experience something like this. But I guess I will get over it with time


You will breh
I remember my first time being dumped. Bought flowers, begged, wrote a card, poems. :picard:

Couldn’t fathom how someone who said they loved me etc would now be so cold, someone I talked to every day for three years could just stop just like that

learned a lot , it’s always best to go no contact and don’t look back. You save your dignity

I remember last girl that dumped me it was through text I didn’t even say anything , month later she called me crying and how she wanted another chance (didn’t give one)

If someone wants to be with you they will if they don’t there’s nothing you can do
 

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I've been wondering about something

How do women judge a guy with his mask on?

I asked a few women this and they say that they fill in the blank based on the rest of his presentation.

Any woman in here want to chime in?

Do you make a negative or positive assumption of a dude's attractiveness when he has a mask on?
 

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You will breh
I remember my first time being dumped. Bought flowers, begged, wrote a card, poems. :picard:

Couldn’t fathom how someone who said they loved me etc would now be so cold, someone I talked to every day for three years could just stop just like that

learned a lot , it’s always best to go no contact and don’t look back. You save your dignity

I remember last girl that dumped me it was through text I didn’t even say anything , month later she called me crying and how she wanted another chance (didn’t give one)

If someone wants to be with you they will if they don’t there’s nothing you can do



this last page crazy
Same thing I’m going thru

My ex just dumped me I can’t believe she is being so cold towards me it’s crazy

I’ve come to terms with it I’m salty because I fukked I had so many chances I just needed one more :snoop:
You will breh
I remember my first time being dumped. Bought flowers, begged, wrote a card, poems. :picard:

Couldn’t fathom how someone who said they loved me etc would now be so cold, someone I talked to every day for three years could just stop just like that

learned a lot , it’s always best to go no contact and don’t look back. You save your dignity

I remember last girl that dumped me it was through text I didn’t even say anything , month later she called me crying and how she wanted another chance (didn’t give one)

If someone wants to be with you they will if they don’t there’s nothing you can do



Damn did she ever talk to you again the one you was begging?
 

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Don’t go back to that one if you aren’t serious about marriage. She obviously is worried about her biological clock and if you put a ring on it kids won’t be far behind and then you might be trapped in a situation you didn’t necessarily sign up for.
 

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She hinted at marriage for awhile which I have entertained it but I was being hesitant at same time. She never gave me explanation when she texted me just that “we are not getting anywhere and it’s best we both go separate ways and not waste each other’s time”

I didn’t even bother to reply I just left her on read. Haven’t talked to her since but I was always curious to why all of sudden I didn’t see any signs at all. Only reason why I thought sending happy birthday was so I had reason to message than I was gonna ask her why she dump me but I’m assuming it comes down to marriage. Anyways I don’t think a closure is needed for this imo you man are right I shouldn’t send happy birthday text it would make me look bad
He old are y’all?
 

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Don’t go back to that one if you aren’t serious about marriage. She obviously is worried about her biological clock and if you put a ring on it kids won’t be far behind and then you might be trapped in a situation you didn’t necessarily sign up for.
Yeah bro, she had idea if we’re dating it’s gonna end up in marriage but she didn’t want wait on me so she cut it off. Ah well like you said i wasn’t even serious anyways
 

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Yeah bro, she had idea if we’re dating it’s gonna end up in marriage but she didn’t want wait on me so she cut it off. Ah well like you said i wasn’t even serious anyways
Yeah if you try to go back you’re only gas lighting her so you can keep your dikk wet which isn’t going to end well for either of you.
 

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this last page crazy
Same thing I’m going thru

My ex just dumped me I can’t believe she is being so cold towards me it’s crazy

I’ve come to terms with it I’m salty because I fukked I had so many chances I just needed one more :snoop:




Damn did she ever talk to you again the one you was begging?
She cold cause she with another man
 
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