Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Krisrunner2049

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Damn @Krisrunner2049 i fell off my cold approach game again

Back to square one, I been hugging the wall all night these past 2 weeks. Letting those opportunities go by :francis:

I swear I gotta get over this shyt and stay consistent with it.

It’s definitely like going to the gym. This on and off shyt is not it.
Yeah consistency is key. As much as I dislike the old heads here they right about one thing, if ya just randomly bs with women don’t have to be seen as a cold approach, just random convo it kinda makes it easier to do so when the right time comes:wow:
 

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idk if less dudes are going to college but college is where youre supposed to be approaching chicks in your or different social circles (because some
Folks maybe late bloomers and really HS is too restrictive cause youre literally a kid) and learning how to approach and talk to women. But it seems like this isnt even happening so now dudes are out here awkward as hell.
All the guys in my age bracket that don’t go to college just work 40-60 hours at Walmart or some similar job and their words “they don’t care for women rn” so you may be onto something :ohhh:I started cc 2 years ago, I just turned 19 got home from basic/AIT, and I was online schooled for like the last 2 years of hs my mom was determined I see no parts of any girls, so when I pulled up to cc I was ready:mjlit:and yeah a lotta guys just kept to themselves I can’t imagine uni being different, just less competition for me:mjlol:just gotta watch out for them white bois that wanna get tight when the girl they think they own but haven’t even talked to wanna fw me, it happened already:russ:
 

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Doing the dating app thing for a week to see what the landscape is like. Observations so far:
  • Regardless of the app you're on, everything is behind a paywall. Hinge let's you like a handful of people per day before saying you need to pay to like more. Because of how expensive it is, this is the app people are going to take much more seriously.
  • On Bumble, even with the first move, women won't initiate conversation. Also, a lot of women in their mid to late 30s who want children are going to have to give that dream up. Lastly, I like that you can use filters to get rid of people you wouldn't date. If you're into politics, this is up your alley.
  • Tinder, got over 20 matches in one day, but they're all locked behind the Gold paywall. My pictures suck, but they're not the end all be all. If someone thinks you're attractive, they'll like your profile. With that said, some more pictures wouldn't hurt.
 

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Doing the dating app thing for a week to see what the landscape is like. Observations so far:
  • Regardless of the app you're on, everything is behind a paywall. Hinge let's you like a handful of people per day before saying you need to pay to like more. Because of how expensive it is, this is the app people are going to take much more seriously.
  • On Bumble, even with the first move, women won't initiate conversation. Also, a lot of women in their mid to late 30s who want children are going to have to give that dream up. Lastly, I like that you can use filters to get rid of people you wouldn't date. If you're into politics, this is up your alley.
  • Tinder, got over 20 matches in one day, but they're all locked behind the Gold paywall. My pictures suck, but they're not the end all be all. If someone thinks you're attractive, they'll like your profile. With that said, some more pictures wouldn't hurt.

they show your profile to more people to boost those numbers to get you to pay to see who liked you
 

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Doing the dating app thing for a week to see what the landscape is like. Observations so far:
  • Regardless of the app you're on, everything is behind a paywall. Hinge let's you like a handful of people per day before saying you need to pay to like more. Because of how expensive it is, this is the app people are going to take much more seriously.
  • On Bumble, even with the first move, women won't initiate conversation. Also, a lot of women in their mid to late 30s who want children are going to have to give that dream up. Lastly, I like that you can use filters to get rid of people you wouldn't date. If you're into politics, this is up your alley.
  • Tinder, got over 20 matches in one day, but they're all locked behind the Gold paywall. My pictures suck, but they're not the end all be all. If someone thinks you're attractive, they'll like your profile. With that said, some more pictures wouldn't hurt.

Facebook and Instagrams still free
 

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I need some advice. Was talking to this girl, shyt ain't work out after one date (I ghosted her) then we reconnected and long story short she invited me on a trip. I decided not to go cause I would use up my pto which isn't guaranteed approval anyway and I found it odd that we didn't speak for months yet she wanted to invite me on a 5 day trip and felt maybe she might be suckering me to pay for shyt. She said we could meet before the trip if I couldn't get the days so I hit her up about meeting Sunday and she flaked and gave excuses or said we'll see so I dismissed.

She then hit me up saying a friend of her's in a group chatted posted my messages and to be careful with who I talk too. She claimed this person was probably talking to me while me and her weren't talking. I don't know if she is making it up or this shyt is true but she won't give up the persons name. Any advice on how to get her to spill the beans? She invited me to her house to "talk things out" but I just want the persons name.
 

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I need some advice. Was talking to this girl, shyt ain't work out after one date (I ghosted her) then we reconnected and long story short she invited me on a trip. I decided not to go cause I would use up my pto which isn't guaranteed approval anyway and I found it odd that we didn't speak for months yet she wanted to invite me on a 5 day trip and felt maybe she might be suckering me to pay for shyt. She said we could meet before the trip if I couldn't get the days so I hit her up about meeting Sunday and she flaked and gave excuses or said we'll see so I dismissed.

She then hit me up saying a friend of her's in a group chatted posted my messages and to be careful with who I talk too. She claimed this person was probably talking to me while me and her weren't talking. I don't know if she is making it up or this shyt is true but she won't give up the persons name. Any advice on how to get her to spill the beans? She invited me to her house to "talk things out" but I just want the persons name.
Don’t waste the energy but take her advice what share and with whom
 

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I need some advice. Was talking to this girl, shyt ain't work out after one date (I ghosted her) then we reconnected and long story short she invited me on a trip. I decided not to go cause I would use up my pto which isn't guaranteed approval anyway and I found it odd that we didn't speak for months yet she wanted to invite me on a 5 day trip and felt maybe she might be suckering me to pay for shyt. She said we could meet before the trip if I couldn't get the days so I hit her up about meeting Sunday and she flaked and gave excuses or said we'll see so I dismissed.

She then hit me up saying a friend of her's in a group chatted posted my messages and to be careful with who I talk too. She claimed this person was probably talking to me while me and her weren't talking. I don't know if she is making it up or this shyt is true but she won't give up the persons name. Any advice on how to get her to spill the beans? She invited me to her house to "talk things out" but I just want the persons name.


:dahell: fool block this woman and move on with your damn life.
 

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I need some advice. Was talking to this girl, shyt ain't work out after one date (I ghosted her) then we reconnected and long story short she invited me on a trip. I decided not to go cause I would use up my pto which isn't guaranteed approval anyway and I found it odd that we didn't speak for months yet she wanted to invite me on a 5 day trip and felt maybe she might be suckering me to pay for shyt. She said we could meet before the trip if I couldn't get the days so I hit her up about meeting Sunday and she flaked and gave excuses or said we'll see so I dismissed.

She then hit me up saying a friend of her's in a group chatted posted my messages and to be careful with who I talk too. She claimed this person was probably talking to me while me and her weren't talking. I don't know if she is making it up or this shyt is true but she won't give up the persons name. Any advice on how to get her to spill the beans? She invited me to her house to "talk things out" but I just want the persons name.
I need some advice. Was talking to this girl, shyt ain't work out after one date (I ghosted her) then we reconnected and long story short she invited me on a trip. I decided not to go cause I would use up my pto which isn't guaranteed approval anyway and I found it odd that we didn't speak for months yet she wanted to invite me on a 5 day trip and felt maybe she might be suckering me to pay for shyt. She said we could meet before the trip if I couldn't get the days so I hit her up about meeting Sunday and she flaked and gave excuses or said we'll see so I dismissed.

She then hit me up saying a friend of her's in a group chatted posted my messages and to be careful with who I talk too. She claimed this person was probably talking to me while me and her weren't talking. I don't know if she is making it up or this shyt is true but she won't give up the persons name. Any advice on how to get her to spill the beans? She invited me to her house to "talk things out" but I just want the persons name.
Why do you even care? lol ghost this chick and keep it moving breh. Who ever the 'mole' is will make themselves known once you ghost chick assuming she is even telling the truth.
 

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I need some advice. Was talking to this girl, shyt ain't work out after one date (I ghosted her) then we reconnected and long story short she invited me on a trip. I decided not to go cause I would use up my pto which isn't guaranteed approval anyway and I found it odd that we didn't speak for months yet she wanted to invite me on a 5 day trip and felt maybe she might be suckering me to pay for shyt. She said we could meet before the trip if I couldn't get the days so I hit her up about meeting Sunday and she flaked and gave excuses or said we'll see so I dismissed.

She then hit me up saying a friend of her's in a group chatted posted my messages and to be careful with who I talk too. She claimed this person was probably talking to me while me and her weren't talking. I don't know if she is making it up or this shyt is true but she won't give up the persons name. Any advice on how to get her to spill the beans? She invited me to her house to "talk things out" but I just want the persons name.

what kind of bird confusion shyt is this

see how she pulled you into her orbit of confusion :russ::hhh:

run. full stop.
 
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