Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Had to bush this chick. She pushing 30 and we were talking on the phone and sex came up and she made a comment about having to "put a ring on it first". Shes muslim but not very religious so I asked her if she's a virgin. She talm bout she dont feel comfortable answering that question. BLOCKED! I’m not playing Coochie games with no old ass 30 year old bytch. :camby:
 

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When it comes to online dating, just get to the point. You ain't tryna be her texting buddy, you want to get to business.


I used to write witty one-liners. Shakespeare's type of shyt. Realized...I'm wasting madddd energy.


Sometimes, I'll take a break. Then hop back in.


The reason, I mainly prefer face-to-face. Building attraction over text CAN work, but, it lacks the initial excitement and anticipation that the real world comes with.
 

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Had to bush this chick. She pushing 30 and we were talking on the phone and sex came up and she made a comment about having to "put a ring on it first". Shes muslim but not very religious so I asked her if she's a virgin. She talm bout she dont feel comfortable answering that question. BLOCKED! I’m not playing Coochie games with no old ass 30 year old bytch. :camby:


I would've just said "Put your mouth on it first"...again, some women know how the simps in their lives act, her response was a conditioned one due to her being a spinster, being ugly, therefore no one really talks to her, and or entitled nonsense from mediocre p*ssy. Good job, nothing much I can add, just a dap and a drink.

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I tell women when we first start talking I'm not going to text/call you everyday. Women are like children they get bored easily. If it ain't your main girl you cuffed you don't need to be on the phone everyday.

This....but also, it is important to know that the tactic serves as a great anchoring technique if you're dealing with a broad you want to keep on your plate for a while. It depends on who you are, but I love the sound of my own voice, I also enjoy giving advice, to be fair, I only resort to texting/calling a lot when a woman has something, or when I want to condition her. Basically more behavioral techniques. This works a lot with above average looking women, to be more precise, what some would consider 8's or 9's (I don't believe in 10's). They have bigger insecurities/daddy issues. Condition them to always expect your call, talk plenty; when they misbehave, ice them, and they'll miss everything, from the phone calls, to the advice given.

I've also used this tactic, to get; money, wardrobe, jewelry, rides to other states, etc. I'm always sitting there just shaking my head like "It can't be this easy"....


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I need places to meet women now. All these damn places are closed and meet ups are all virtual. And I can no longer drink alcohol should I just wait around in book stores?
 

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When it comes to online dating, just get to the point. You ain't tryna be her texting buddy, you want to get to business.


I used to write witty one-liners. Shakespeare's type of shyt. Realized...I'm wasting madddd energy.


Sometimes, I'll take a break. Then hop back in.


The reason, I mainly prefer face-to-face. Building attraction over text CAN work, but, it lacks the initial excitement and anticipation that the real world comes with.
I tell em early on, bluntly texting is wack and an inefficient and ineffective form of communication when it comes to getting to know someone, then I pivot to the number.

After you get the number the next pivot is to meeting up.
 

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Every time you ejaculate, your pituitary gland produces a surge of oxytocin and prolactin, hormones that make you relax. These hormones suppress dopamine, the neurotransmitter responsible for arousal. Scientists suspect that lengthened refractory periods are caused by age-related changes in the pituitary system, which disrupt the balance of oxytocin and prolactin and suppress dopamine. One natural solution: Raise your dopamine levels by eating more foods rich in vitamins B6, B12, and folate, such as chickpeas, tuna, and asparagus.

I stick to tuna, if you're not a fan of fish, move on to hummus, beef liver, and or; Spinach/Collard greens. Remember, your body starts absorbing the nutrients from said foods, 3-6 hours after you eat. So you want to time it accordingly. I always eat 4-6 ours before sex anyway, especially when all you need is one can of tuna. Beyond that, its natural virility and testosterone.
Thanks, I do fw tuna because of the protein numbers so I'ma try to just eat more and get some b6 and b12 vitamins
 

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Too many potential dates.

I'm a 6 fig dude now but I could take every chick that wants to go out for some ice cream and be spending too much. I could have a new date every day of the week but it's a lot of energy after a days work.

Good problems but Idk
 

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Too many potential dates.

I'm a 6 fig dude now but I could take every chick that wants to go out for some ice cream and be spending too much. I could have a new date every day of the week but it's a lot of energy after a days work.

Good problems but Idk


Eat before every date, give yourself a reason to not spend on anyone, you included. Coffee is my go-to, and even then, I get my own. If convo is lame, I'm outta there, with Summer coming, what I like to do is lure them in with a date spot (usually Pinkberry), I of course never end up going. These birds are looking for a meal ticket, and I see right through that.....can't get mad that someone is playing the underhanded game better than you.
 

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Thanks, I do fw tuna because of the protein numbers so I'ma try to just eat more and get some b6 and b12 vitamins


Keep in mind that while they will give you a boost, its small and takes literally hours for maximum potential output. Caffeine would be the quicker option (Energy drink or just strong coffee), it takes about 10-60 minutes to reach full operating levels, however, I never advocate it down the line, I prefer a proper meal than sugar, salt and caffeine. Though, I do drink coffee on the regular.
 

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I need places to meet women now. All these damn places are closed and meet ups are all virtual. And I can no longer drink alcohol should I just wait around in book stores?


You can't drink alcohol due to health issues? Because I'm sure Barefoot wine is still plenty cheap and is basically the new thot juice. As for meet ups, your local park, you'd be surprised with how many women don't walk a few blocks passed their general living area. I've had women who have lived in NY all their lives, never even go deep into Central Park. Show a bytch a statue/obelisk and she'll cream. Its free, and usually gets them going. If you don't have a park, google places with nice views around your area.

Here's a good tactic; rooftop (or any high view you can find) play a movie from your phone, the line that works every time "lets make our own drive-in theater"....if shes not blowing you by the end of night...
 
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