Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

It's more this. If she calls thats two hours gone right there without me even realizing. It just gives me an easy out to continue procrastinating and demonstrates I ain't doing shyt with my time.

what time of job do you have? If there is something you can say you are studying for then use that to minimize the time. I'd carve out X amount of hours a week you dont mind to communicate. Flat out ignoring isn't the best thing to do if you want someone on your roster, but making them aware 'hey working on this goal' should make them mindful and if they aren't mindful then that is a red flag you ask yourself if you want to deal with.

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

what advice yall have for being able to recover for Round 2 faster? when I was younger I used to be ready to go again in 10-15 min but now it takes much longer

improve your diet, and drink more water.

 

[CP3.]

improve your diet, and drink more water.

This is probably it because I been struggling with that too and my diet is terrible atm

 

[CP3.]

I know this probably been said before but I hate these chicks with aggressive bios aimed at small guys. I'm tall gang so it doesn't impact me but they would be the first to call you a pig if you had a bio saying "no fat girls" etc You probably get screenshot and go viral on twitter for all the They/Them's to drag you through the mud

 

[Guvnor]

Question brehs, what qualities/traits do you say a man should look for in a good wife/serious relationship? I know this varies for everyone but I'd like to hear different perspectives.

Me personally I look for a woman who is ambitious, intelligent, caring and has a nurturing side, wiling to work out disagreements and compromise, submissive(in the bedroom and lets me lead in general), feminine, also a woman who doesn't mind treating me/investing in the relationship every now and isnt into wasting money as well even if I pay for most of the dates or whatever (the kind of woman who would say the words that's too expensive don't buy that one or I got it this time or I wanted to surprise you).

I stay clear of chicks who are birds (ghetto) or got one too many bird friends seriously. Also chicks with too many guy friends.

 

[CP3.]

Question brehs, what qualities/traits do you say a man should look for in a good wife/serious relationship? I know this varies for everyone but I'd like to hear different perspectives.

Me personally I look for a woman who is ambitious, intelligent, caring and has a nurturing side, wiling to work out disagreements and compromise, submissive(in the bedroom and lets me lead in general), feminine, also a woman who doesn't mind treating me/investing in the relationship every now and isnt into wasting money as well even if I pay for most of the dates or whatever (the kind of woman who would say the words that's too expensive don't buy that one or I got it this time or I wanted to surprise you).

I stay clear of chicks who are birds (ghetto) or got one too many bird friends seriously. Also chicks with too many guy friends.

You pretty much summed it up for me.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

It's more this. If she calls thats two hours gone right there without me even realizing. It just gives me an easy out to continue procrastinating and demonstrates I ain't doing shyt with my time.

Can someone explain to me what the fukk there is to talk about for two hours? I start getting a headache after 25-30 minutes on the phone

 

[Serious]

Can someone explain to me what the fukk there is to talk about for two hours? I start getting a headache after 25-30 minutes on the phone

Had a chick try to fall asleep on the phone wit me. I seriously think this was done more so to make sure I ain’t talking to other girls at a certain time

 

[MikelArteta]

Question brehs, what qualities/traits do you say a man should look for in a good wife/serious relationship? I know this varies for everyone but I'd like to hear different perspectives.

Me personally I look for a woman who is ambitious, intelligent, caring and has a nurturing side, wiling to work out disagreements and compromise, submissive(in the bedroom and lets me lead in general), feminine, also a woman who doesn't mind treating me/investing in the relationship every now and isnt into wasting money as well even if I pay for most of the dates or whatever (the kind of woman who would say the words that's too expensive don't buy that one or I got it this time or I wanted to surprise you).

I stay clear of chicks who are birds (ghetto) or got one too many bird friends seriously. Also chicks with too many guy friends.

humble, God Fearing, has been in a relationship longer than a year, no children, 25-33, ex ain't hanging around in the picture, rarely curses, doesn't smoke, has hair ain't into these bald head chicks, not fat, has me as her number 1

 

[BaggerofTea]

Question brehs, what qualities/traits do you say a man should look for in a good wife/serious relationship? I know this varies for everyone but I'd like to hear different perspectives.

Me personally I look for a woman who is ambitious, intelligent, caring and has a nurturing side, wiling to work out disagreements and compromise, submissive(in the bedroom and lets me lead in general), feminine, also a woman who doesn't mind treating me/investing in the relationship every now and isnt into wasting money as well even if I pay for most of the dates or whatever (the kind of woman who would say the words that's too expensive don't buy that one or I got it this time or I wanted to surprise you).

I stay clear of chicks who are birds (ghetto) or got one too many bird friends seriously. Also chicks with too many guy friends.

Honest
Loyal
Humble

 

[DJSmooth]

is speaking to a chick everyday counter productive? we don't text a lot throughout the day but she always calls once she leaves work

I'm thinking of ignoring the calls now since we meeting in person on the weekend anyway

I tell women when we first start talking I'm not going to text/call you everyday. Women are like children they get bored easily. If it ain't your main girl you cuffed you don't need to be on the phone everyday.

 

[Killigraphy]

what advice yall have for being able to recover for Round 2 faster? when I was younger I used to be ready to go again in 10-15 min but now it takes much longer

Every time you ejaculate, your pituitary gland produces a surge of oxytocin and prolactin, hormones that make you relax. These hormones suppress dopamine, the neurotransmitter responsible for arousal. Scientists suspect that lengthened refractory periods are caused by age-related changes in the pituitary system, which disrupt the balance of oxytocin and prolactin and suppress dopamine. One natural solution: Raise your dopamine levels by eating more foods rich in vitamins B6, B12, and folate, such as chickpeas, tuna, and asparagus.

I stick to tuna, if you're not a fan of fish, move on to hummus, beef liver, and or; Spinach/Collard greens. Remember, your body starts absorbing the nutrients from said foods, 3-6 hours after you eat. So you want to time it accordingly. I always eat 4-6 ours before sex anyway, especially when all you need is one can of tuna. Beyond that, its natural virility and testosterone.

 

[Killigraphy]

is speaking to a chick everyday counter productive? we don't text a lot throughout the day but she always calls once she leaves work

I'm thinking of ignoring the calls now since we meeting in person on the weekend anyway

Depends on what you're looking for, a bird you just want to pluck, hit up every once in a while during the week, never double text, and never reply/text during the weekends.

Obviously you have to text more if you're working a girl to be on your plate constantly. I've made it a behavioral technique, to chat a girl up whenever I want something. But if shes got nothing to offer at all (basically a bum) she gets a text rarely during the week, and its only to meet up.

 

[Killigraphy]

Question brehs, what qualities/traits do you say a man should look for in a good wife/serious relationship? I know this varies for everyone but I'd like to hear different perspectives.

Me personally I look for a woman who is ambitious, intelligent, caring and has a nurturing side, wiling to work out disagreements and compromise, submissive(in the bedroom and lets me lead in general), feminine, also a woman who doesn't mind treating me/investing in the relationship every now and isnt into wasting money as well even if I pay for most of the dates or whatever (the kind of woman who would say the words that's too expensive don't buy that one or I got it this time or I wanted to surprise you).

I stay clear of chicks who are birds (ghetto) or got one too many bird friends seriously. Also chicks with too many guy friends.

Firstly as it goes with all my gems....don't look to get married, it means nothing, it gets you; nothing. Moving on....

You really just want a woman who is self sufficient. If she can cook, change a lightbulb and hold a conversation, you should be fine. They all come with daddy issues, so don't try looking for a diamond in the rough. Look for traits that make her useful/supportive. You're not looking for happiness or peace from her, that's internal, and trickles onto the relationship. Besides that I pretty much agree with everything else you posted, so long as you stay away from gold diggers and or ghetto birds, you should be fine.

 

[Killigraphy]

humble, God Fearing, has been in a relationship longer than a year, no children, 25-33, ex ain't hanging around in the picture, rarely curses, doesn't smoke, has hair ain't into these bald head chicks, not fat, has me as her number 1

Here's the thing...I agree with you completely...however, statistics being what they are....if she's 25-33, she more than likely has a child, or is a dog mom/crazy cat lady, again, one does prefer the latter, however, you'll more than likely get the former. The solution? Keep searching while you're balling these milfs senseless.