i know a dude who often complains about how women treat him, how much he sacrificed in passed relationships and even in passed/current friendships with males and females. and yet he still gets into those types of relationships eventhough he feels that way. I told him a couple of times, you don't have to do shyt in life. it's all your choice. stop being a victim. he's says "you don't understand...blablabla..." After the second time i just let him be. My theory is that dude has a martyrdom complex. Like he's attached to the state of mind of feeling sorry for himself and others feeling sorry for him. so he ensures it continues. the dude from your post might be one of those type dudes too. The feeling of "sacrifice" makes them feel happy and not being appreciated makes them feel even more happy because it makes them a martyr even more.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Brehs, I don't think I've ever witnessed a bigger L LIVE right in front of me than the story I'm about to tell...
There's a dude at my job (a pretty physical warehouse job) who's 27 years old with 4 kids with his wife... My nikka works about 3 jobs...
1. Our job, he works 10-7pm, and then pulls CRAZY OT every night from 7-11 most of the time... sometimes working till 1 in the morning (like last night)
2. He works at ups from 5 in the morning to 9:30 am before coming back to work
3. Word is he works a third job on the weekends too...
There are countless days when he sleeps in his car and doesn't even take showers. nikka is working all this to buy a house, which in most cases is honorable, but now for the kicker...
His wife DOES NOT WORK.
He drives a shyt car, but he bought her a Range Rover.
He is also paying for a baby sitter... for his wife... WHO. DOESN'T. WORK!
Now, the final fact SHOULDN'T matter that much on it's own but added all together, makes this shyt worse... A dude said he saw him and his wife at walmart a few saturdays ago (he was still in his work uniform) and said his wife was fat and hideous... I couldnt believe it... at least if she was a beyonce type bytch i could rationalize it in my mind as him simping but she don't even look good...
Dude is killing himself for a worthless bytch...
dude is slave to the p*ssy? Dude needs to move to another country.
beezy
Old Member
Brehs, I don't think I've ever witnessed a bigger L LIVE right in front of me than the story I'm about to tell...
There's a dude at my job (a pretty physical warehouse job) who's 27 years old with 4 kids with his wife... My nikka works about 3 jobs...
1. Our job, he works 10-7pm, and then pulls CRAZY OT every night from 7-11 most of the time... sometimes working till 1 in the morning (like last night)
2. He works at ups from 5 in the morning to 9:30 am before coming back to work
3. Word is he works a third job on the weekends too...
There are countless days when he sleeps in his car and doesn't even take showers. nikka is working all this to buy a house, which in most cases is honorable, but now for the kicker...
His wife DOES NOT WORK.
He drives a shyt car, but he bought her a Range Rover.
He is also paying for a baby sitter... for his wife... WHO. DOESN'T. WORK!
Now, the final fact SHOULDN'T matter that much on it's own but added all together, makes this shyt worse... A dude said he saw him and his wife at walmart a few saturdays ago (he was still in his work uniform) and said his wife was fat and hideous... I couldnt believe it... at least if she was a beyonce type bytch i could rationalize it in my mind as him simping but she don't even look good...
Dude is killing himself for a worthless bytch...
Scustin Trillberlake
Banned
The comments on that blog are racist as fukk though. Article even borderline gets a bit racist.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
It's always funny how they have to use hyperbole and over exaggerate when getting defensive. Here's her response to another male poster when I said a dude who has been hurt can learn from the experience and grow wiser:
What I've seen personally and the way that a lot of men act on here, "growing wiser" equates to being bitter. You'll never get attached again, every chick is the devil, learn not to love these hoes and all that other crap.
1 - If someone doesn't want to get attached again....what's wrong with that? What's wrong with safeguarding yourself after getting your heart broken? Isn't that a natural response?
2 - Who the fukk said "every" chick is "the devil"?
You see how they're so quick to get emotional. 3 - What right thinking man would "love hoes" anyway? We love REAL women!
You know, any old shyt to make the weak minded dudes too scared to speak up while all the manginas twist their necks like Shanaynay in agreement.
I made one little statement that pain helps a man to grow, so because she didn't like that she had to come with the typical slick mouth underhanded comment instead of just keeping it moving.
Just like how a lot of racist white folk feel threatened when they come across that one educated and confident black person who knows their worth, so it is with a lot of these fukked up chicks who feel the same about a man who doesn't fall for the feminist/mangina okey doke.
That's why I love this thread because it's almost like a virtual forcefield that keeps all the a$$holes out while educating others.
It makes my day to read any dude who has made an improvement in his life as a result of this thread.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
It's always funny how they have to use hyperbole and over exaggerate when getting defensive. Here's her response to another male poster when I said a dude who has been hurt can learn from the experience and grow wiser:
What I've seen personally and the way that a lot of men act on here, "growing wiser" equates to being bitter. You'll never get attached again, every chick is the devil, learn not to love these hoes and all that other crap.
1 - If someone doesn't want to get attached again....what's wrong with that? What's wrong with safeguarding yourself after getting your heart broken? Isn't that a natural response?
2 - Who the fukk said "every" chick is "the devil"?
3 - What right thinking man would "love hoes" anyway? We love REAL women!
You know, any old shyt to make the weak minded dudes too scared to speak up while all the manginas twist their necks like Shanaynay in agreement.
I made one little statement that pain helps a man to grow, so because she didn't like that she had to come with the typical slick mouth underhanded comment instead of just keeping it moving.
Just like how a lot of racist white folk feel threatened when they come across that one educated and confident black person who knows their worth, so it is with a lot of these fukked up chicks who feel the same about a man who doesn't fall for the feminist/mangina okey doke.
That's why I love this thread because it's almost like a virtual forcefield that keeps all the a$$holes out while educating others.
It makes my day to read any dude who has made an improvement in his life as a result of this thread.
It's similar to what that gentleman from the UK was speaking about in those two YouTube audio clips that were posted on the previous page. Some of the greatest backlash we'll receive in trying to better ourselves and go against the grain will come from our own women. I saw that thread you were talking about and she was definitely reaching. It's like Kev said, we' re not bitter. Go talk to the guys who are stuck in a loveless marriage with a woman that doesn't respect them, or the guys paying child support for children who aren't theirs. Those guys are bitter and they have a right to be, we're just aware of the bullshyt that has been happening around us. Anyone who just trivializes what we're saying, obviously hasn't read through this thread.
Scustin Trillberlake
Banned
Brehs, I don't think I've ever witnessed a bigger L LIVE right in front of me than the story I'm about to tell...
There's a dude at my job (a pretty physical warehouse job) who's 27 years old with 4 kids with his wife... My nikka works about 3 jobs...
1. Our job, he works 10-7pm, and then pulls CRAZY OT every night from 7-11 most of the time... sometimes working till 1 in the morning (like last night)
2. He works at ups from 5 in the morning to 9:30 am before coming back to work
3. Word is he works a third job on the weekends too...
There are countless days when he sleeps in his car and doesn't even take showers. nikka is working all this to buy a house, which in most cases is honorable, but now for the kicker...
His wife DOES NOT WORK.
He drives a shyt car, but he bought her a Range Rover.
He is also paying for a baby sitter... for his wife... WHO. DOESN'T. WORK!
Now, the final fact SHOULDN'T matter that much on it's own but added all together, makes this shyt worse... A dude said he saw him and his wife at walmart a few saturdays ago (he was still in his work uniform) and said his wife was fat and hideous... I couldnt believe it... at least if she was a beyonce type bytch i could rationalize it in my mind as him simping but she don't even look good...
Dude is killing himself for a worthless bytch...
Feels bad man...
It's always funny how they have to use hyperbole and over exaggerate when getting defensive. Here's her response to another male poster when I said a dude who has been hurt can learn from the experience and grow wiser:
What I've seen personally and the way that a lot of men act on here, "growing wiser" equates to being bitter. You'll never get attached again, every chick is the devil, learn not to love these hoes and all that other crap.
1 - If someone doesn't want to get attached again....what's wrong with that? What's wrong with safeguarding yourself after getting your heart broken? Isn't that a natural response?
2 - Who the fukk said "every" chick is "the devil"?
3 - What right thinking man would "love hoes" anyway? We love REAL women!
You know, any old shyt to make the weak minded dudes too scared to speak up while all the manginas twist their necks like Shanaynay in agreement.
I made one little statement that pain helps a man to grow, so because she didn't like that she had to come with the typical slick mouth underhanded comment instead of just keeping it moving.
Just like how a lot of racist white folk feel threatened when they come across that one educated and confident black person who knows their worth, so it is with a lot of these fukked up chicks who feel the same about a man who doesn't fall for the feminist/mangina okey doke.
That's why I love this thread because it's almost like a virtual forcefield that keeps all the a$$holes out while educating others.
It makes my day to read any dude who has made an improvement in his life as a result of this thread.
Real talk man, don't even bother explaining your arguing with women. They will take your argument and twist it into whatever they want to no matter how many times you protest.
If you know you're not bitter, no need to explain yourself. No matter how much you try, they'll be like, "Well you've been hurt. Well you're afraid to experience love," yada yada. If bitter is not feeling angry, but rather relaxed about not having to raise another man's child, pay alimony so another man can reap the benefits off of what I"m paying for, or just being swindled for favors by unappreciative women, then shoot, I'm bitter all day.
lol I've actually had a woman tell me i was possessed when she asked me where I'd take a woman I just met and I said Popeyes. The sense of entitlement these women have in this day and age is unbelievable, and the vast majority of it stems from simps gassing them up and hitting them with the TI, talking about, "Shawty you can have whatever you like."
These females actually think their presence or their company is worthy of receiving free meals at high class restaurants without even knowing or having the exclusivity with the dude. Nah, that's a no-go. If you've been down with me, loyal to me and all of that, sure, I'll take MY woman who is proven to be about me, to a fancy restaurant... but some girl I just met who has the audacity to demand me tricking out on her? She's out her mind.
What's a trip is that these females don't appreciate receiving free things. They actually believe they DESERVE it and will act indignant if they feel it's not up to their standards... as if they are really bringing something to the table to justify that. Most men, if a woman bought them a McDonalds meal, would be mad appreciative, like whoa, babygirl actually had enough generosity to pay for my meal. But you do that for some woman and she'll act like you offended her... that is if she's one of those women that like what you do for her instead of liking you. But if a negro want to fall into that sucker business of buying a woman $80 dinners and have her disappear on him to really deal with a dude she likes for free, be my guest.
The_King_of_Everything
Yeah.
Popeyes good as shyt tho 
that's some realness. but at the end of the day, worth is relative. That's what they're used to they are convinced that their market worth is a fancy restaurant. But if Trey Songz or who ever is popular right now asked her out to mickey Ds she wouldn't even hesitate or dare to act like she's too good for fast food.
It's always funny how they have to use hyperbole and over exaggerate when getting defensive. Here's her response to another male poster when I said a dude who has been hurt can learn from the experience and grow wiser:
What I've seen personally and the way that a lot of men act on here, "growing wiser" equates to being bitter. You'll never get attached again, every chick is the devil, learn not to love these hoes and all that other crap.
1 - If someone doesn't want to get attached again....what's wrong with that? What's wrong with safeguarding yourself after getting your heart broken? Isn't that a natural response?
2 - Who the fukk said "every" chick is "the devil"?
3 - What right thinking man would "love hoes" anyway? We love REAL women!
You know, any old shyt to make the weak minded dudes too scared to speak up while all the manginas twist their necks like Shanaynay in agreement.
I made one little statement that pain helps a man to grow, so because she didn't like that she had to come with the typical slick mouth underhanded comment instead of just keeping it moving.
Just like how a lot of racist white folk feel threatened when they come across that one educated and confident black person who knows their worth, so it is with a lot of these fukked up chicks who feel the same about a man who doesn't fall for the feminist/mangina okey doke.
That's why I love this thread because it's almost like a virtual forcefield that keeps all the a$$holes out while educating others.
It makes my day to read any dude who has made an improvement in his life as a result of this thread.
So true. Like I said this thread is a beacon of hope
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
exactly cause they figure the man aint nothing etc...On jobs I had I never talked to the prettiest woman.These women had simps buying them folowers,telling them how pretty they were but guess what?They got no play. There was a story in here about a woman who turned a man down because he came to their 1st date on a bike. See women want whats hot right now. A woman will get pregnant by a no good guy but they wont date a man who has a dollar and dream
women want a pump and dump stock instead of a long term gain.
exactly cause they figure the man aint nothing etc...On jobs I had I never talked to the prettiest woman.These women had simps buying them folowers,telling them how pretty they were but guess what?They got no play. There was a story in here about a woman who turned a man down because he came to their 1st date on a bike. See women want whats hot right now. A woman will get pregnant by a no good guy but they wont date a man who has a dollar and dream
I remember I had this call center job some years back. There was this fine hood rat who worked there. She wasn't hood rat by appearance, but I got the scoop on her from other cats who worked there before me, plus she had a kid. Now this chick always had nice clothes, jewelry, and she drove a Benz. Now the job paid ok, but enough where you could afford a Benz, plus for those who work in call centers (specifically sales type), the job has a high turnover. I think I only worked with her a month before she was gone (don't know how long she worked there before I got hired). I just figured some simp/sugar daddy was buying her shyt.