Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Going out tonight,too. How you brehs get at women at the bars? I’m still staying true to not smashing drunk women, but I also underestimated how some fine women actually go to bars:russ:couldn't hurt to get #s or Snapchat and plan something for later like I used to do at UCLA parties
 

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i wouldn't apologize at all. Even if he wrong just be like 'sorry you feel that way' and end the relationship. You'd be doing both of yourselves a favor as things have reached an end, and this aint a marriage to be fighting for (which adds unnecessary stress).
I think it's good for his own soul (not for her sake) to apologize if he feels like he went against his own code in some way and as a result embarrassed her. That's why I went through both scenarios (feeling like he did nothing wrong vs. feeling like he fukked up)
 

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My great Uncle is in his 70s, he called me today to catch up on things.

Now this man has seen it all, Vietnam, prison, becoming rich, losing it all, city and rural life, and SEVEN marriages, so he’s seen his fair share of people and maneuvered between many social circles.

We were talking about relationships, and this is what he said:
“You still with that cute girl of yours? :obama:

“Nah :steviej:
“I thought you was going to say that”:lolbron:

“Yea it didn’t work out :manny:

“That’s fine nephew. You’re young, intelligent, and making good money, you will have access to different types of women from many walks of life as you ascend through society.

Just make sure the woman genuinely cares about you, and the well being of others around you.
Don’t get no chick that says she is only nice to her man, and stand-offish to your friends and others, especially ones that can’t benefit her. A recipe for disaster. A good woman will care and ask about all aspects of your life.”

After the convo, I scrolled on IG, and see 2 women post about this exact things saying that’s their “whole vibe” :mjlol:

The elders be knowing :wow:
 

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It's all about controlling the frame now. Do you feel like you did anything wrong? If not don't apologize or try to excuse your behavior. If yoy were righteous in your behaviour, then you were just seeing if the girl was down after you felt a vibe.

If you feel like you wete wrong, only apolovize once and say you went after the girl cause you felt a vibe with her but should have let her (the main girl) known first (only apologize for that part).
I did nothing wrong. I'm single and we both are so I was just on the app shooting my shot. However it shocked me because me and her agreed to just be friends and though their is a romantic vibe there I never knew she would tell her friends about me or she saw it as that deep. Apparently this friend I spoke to on facetime as well when she was on the phone but didn't know lol.

Almost had a similar situation. Filipino chick I was hooking up with occasionally told me that she and her GFs have a WhatsApp group chat where they post all their dating prospects.

From her being on my IG I saw that a chick that I'd spoken to previously but we never met up, has been one of her long time friends since they were teenagers.

Not about to be out on a dating APB so sidestepped her friend for now. The thing is she must know me and her friend are hooking up. As I know they be sharing messages they're having with guys.

:lolbron:
Damn that's crazy :mjlol: you got to love technology lol. New ways to get nikkas caught up smh
 

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Is it wrong if I ignore messages from this boring ass chick. We went out on our third date tonight and I aint even get a kiss and I swear she gave me one of them church hugs from the side and shyt with a pat on the back. She was on her phone during the date and all kinds of shyt. Think I'm gonna just delete her number and cut my losses with that shyt. She was fine but boring!

I guess I'm just not good at making a woman open up if she is the quiet type. Got to work on that.
 

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My great Uncle is in his 70s, he called me today to catch up on things.

Now this man has seen it all, Vietnam, prison, becoming rich, losing it all, city and rural life, and SEVEN marriages, so he’s seen his fair share of people and maneuvered between many social circles.

We were talking about relationships, and this is what he said:
“You still with that cute girl of yours? :obama:

“Nah :steviej:
“I thought you was going to say that”:lolbron:

“Yea it didn’t work out :manny:

“That’s fine nephew. You’re young, intelligent, and making good money, you will have access to different types of women from many walks of life as you ascend through society.

Just make sure the woman genuinely cares about you, and the well being of others around you.
Don’t get no chick that says she is only nice to her man, and stand-offish to your friends and others, especially ones that can’t benefit her. A recipe for disaster. A good woman will care and ask about all aspects of your life.”

After the convo, I scrolled on IG, and see 2 women post about this exact things saying that’s their “whole vibe” :mjlol:

The elders be knowing :wow:
If by “caring for others around u” he meant ur blood relatives, then that’s good advice. Your girl should be courteous to everyone in your circle but not to the level he’s talking about. If you’ve got shady n1ggas in ur crew and a overly friendly girl - that’s how u get got.
 

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Is it wrong if I ignore messages from this boring ass chick. We went out on our third date tonight and I aint even get a kiss and I swear she gave me one of them church hugs from the side and shyt with a pat on the back. She was on her phone during the date and all kinds of shyt. Think I'm gonna just delete her number and cut my losses with that shyt. She was fine but boring!

I guess I'm just not good at making a woman open up if she is the quiet type. Got to work on that.

breh if u gotta ask is it wrong to ignore a boring chick then u need to do more work on yourself honestly
U even stated she was doing all this shyt on the date like being on the phone and what not
I would of walked the hell out and left her there :camby:
I dont know even know why u continued to talk to her even after the date :snoop:
Focus on yourself and what u want outta life and out of women and don’t settle for less or take rude or disrespectful shyt simple as that
 

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breh if u gotta ask is it wrong to ignore a boring chick then u need to do more work on yourself honestly
U even stated she was doing all this shyt on the date like being on the phone and what not
I would of walked the hell out and left her there :camby:
I dont know even know why u continued to talk to her even after the date :snoop:
Focus on yourself and what u want outta life and out of women and don’t settle for less or take rude or disrespectful shyt simple as that
I didn't, after she left in her cab I didn't respond to her text or nothing. She sent a text letting me know she got in safe but I think I'll just ignore it and not text her that I don't think this is gonna work. She should know that lol, im good.
 

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I made her a little letter in an envelope and even drew on the bytch with an anime movie character she like. If she fukks with it cool, if not. It’s cool.
I was gonna set on the doorknob but the high tech door bell with cam lit up so I placed it on the door mat and dipped.
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Yo my nikka you gotta chill :francis:
 

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I made her a little letter in an envelope and even drew on the bytch with an anime movie character she like. If she fukks with it cool, if not. It’s cool.
I was gonna set on the doorknob but the high tech door bell with cam lit up so I placed it on the door mat and dipped.
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I hope she files a restraining order against you.
 
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