Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Is it wrong if I ignore messages from this boring ass chick. We went out on our third date tonight and I aint even get a kiss and I swear she gave me one of them church hugs from the side and shyt with a pat on the back. She was on her phone during the date and all kinds of shyt. Think I'm gonna just delete her number and cut my losses with that shyt. She was fine but boring!

I guess I'm just not good at making a woman open up if she is the quiet type. Got to work on that.
Bush
 

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Is it wrong if I ignore messages from this boring ass chick. We went out on our third date tonight and I aint even get a kiss and I swear she gave me one of them church hugs from the side and shyt with a pat on the back. She was on her phone during the date and all kinds of shyt. Think I'm gonna just delete her number and cut my losses with that shyt. She was fine but boring!

I guess I'm just not good at making a woman open up if she is the quiet type. Got to work on that.

So many red flags and you're still asking? :heh:

Being "fine" is irrelevant. Dudes should be past that.

Just talking on the phone during a date is reason enough for me to bush a chick. I'm supposed to just sit there twiddling my thumbs like some dikkhead while she's blabbering to whoever?

She's not interested and she doesn't have any social etiquette either. I don't see any redeeming qualities from what you've posted. This should be a no brainer.
 

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Is it wrong if I ignore messages from this boring ass chick. We went out on our third date tonight and I aint even get a kiss and I swear she gave me one of them church hugs from the side and shyt with a pat on the back. She was on her phone during the date and all kinds of shyt. Think I'm gonna just delete her number and cut my losses with that shyt. She was fine but boring!

I guess I'm just not good at making a woman open up if she is the quiet type. Got to work on that.

I'll overlook a chick not giving it up on a first date, sometimes it's not the right time, but I like to see a bit of romantic contact, a kiss goodnight etc.

Third date should ideally be the final chance smashing date, in my experience if a chick is not making it easy to get her back to your place or hers on a third date, it's never happening.

The fact you said it was the third date and she is side hugging you means yeah bush her. She's wasting your time and hers.
 

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I invited a woman I have a lot in common with out to have tea. I'd like to get to know her better but I can't read her and I'm very good at reading people. Either she's nervous around me, uncomfortable around me or isn't interested. Anyone got any pointers for getting a better read? I mean us being friends wouldn't be a bad thing to me but I also don't know if I just generally make her uncomfortable.
 

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Is it wrong if I ignore messages from this boring ass chick. We went out on our third date tonight and I aint even get a kiss and I swear she gave me one of them church hugs from the side and shyt with a pat on the back. She was on her phone during the date and all kinds of shyt. Think I'm gonna just delete her number and cut my losses with that shyt. She was fine but boring!

I guess I'm just not good at making a woman open up if she is the quiet type. Got to work on that.
I'd say hey. I don't know if we're a good fit.
 

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I invited a woman I have a lot in common with out to have tea. I'd like to get to know her better but I can't read her and I'm very good at reading people. Either she's nervous around me, uncomfortable around me or isn't interested. Anyone got any pointers for getting a better read? I mean us being friends wouldn't be a bad thing to me but I also don't know if I just generally make her uncomfortable.
i feel like youre better off being transparent and asking if shes uncomfortable or not. Women be nervous af sometimes, she might even be feeling you and shes nervous bout it or sum :manny:

women be weird sometimes showing affection i unno what it is
 
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