Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I mean... if you talk to enough women over the entirety of your existence, you will come across women who hit you with some form of "let's just be friends".. which could mean she either lost interest for whatever reason, found another dude (and moved you to the bench), or was never interested to begin with but doesn't want to be direct.

Either way, it's rejection... which doesn't matter. Whether she says "i'm not interested", "this isn't the right time", "let's just be friends"... just realize that you know you've matured when you no longer linger or micro-analyze such nonsense.

Oh, you ain't tryna fukk? Cool. *KIM*
had one hit me with that the other day

but is still trying to go out with me. I'm just like:mjlol:.
 

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had one hit me with that the other day

but is still trying to go out with me. I'm just like:mjlol:.

Haha straight up

If a woman knows she can get you to hang out with her.. pay for her shyt.. give her attention as she babbles on about whatever... and she doesn't ever have to fukk? Shiiiiiiid best believe that's a gold mine for her :pachaha:

Free validation and boyfriend perks for just a side hug and a "you're a really sweet guy :smile: Ok bye!" every time :deadmanny:

Hahahahha

You gave the correct response brotha
 

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Haha straight up

If a woman knows she can get you to hang out with her.. pay for her shyt.. give her attention as she babbles on about whatever... and she doesn't ever have to fukk? Shiiiiiiid best believe that's a gold mine for her :pachaha:


Free validation and boyfriend perks for just a side hug and a "you're a really sweet guy :smile: Ok bye!" every time :deadmanny:

Hahahahha

You gave the correct response brotha
Yeah I straight up told her no I’m not interested in being friends and we prob shouldn’t hang out. She’s like I still wanna see you every now and then. :mjpls:I didn’t say much after that besides ok cool.


In my gut I feel like I’m a week or two from smashing
 
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Yeah I straight up told her no I’m not interested in being friends and we prob shouldn’t hang out. She’s like I still wanna see you every now and then. :mjpls:I didn’t say much after that besides ok cool.


In my gut I feel like I’m a week or two from smashing
pull back a bit. I’ve been hit with this in the past (and still ended up smashing) and most recently a month or so ago (go back a few pages) I haven’t responded to her in two weeks. Might be time for me to make my reappearance for a bit then pull back again :lolbron:

it’s not a bad deal IF she’s paying for herself and you continue to do you with other bytches. If she still expects you to pay and you’re not fukking then yeah you’re losing OD
 

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pull back a bit. I’ve been hit with this in the past (and still ended up smashing) and most recently a month or so ago (go back a few pages) I haven’t responded to her in two weeks. Might be time for me to make my reappearance for a bit then pull back again :lolbron:

it’s not a bad deal IF she’s paying for herself and you continue to do you with other bytches. If she still expects you to pay and you’re not fukking then yeah you’re losing OD
I think I’ve ever only bought a few drinks for her so I’m not sweating it
 

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I got on and in just a few minutes hella fat chicks lmfao. I was bored and made and account, just to see the landscape. I'll probably take it serious and make a new account when I hit my fitness goals.
Honestly, from my experience...

It's pretty much the same people you would see in real life. I would say dont descriminate on the ones with no pics. I know pretty girls who are on there with no pics because they are shy.
 

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Honestly, from my experience...

It's pretty much the same people you would see in real life. I would say dont descriminate on the ones with no pics. I know pretty girls who are on there with no pics because they are shy.

Why would anyone waste time talking to chicks who are too "shy" to post pics?

So I'm supposed to waste my energy on conversation with someone I might not even be attracted to? :mjlol:
 

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Why would anyone waste time talking to chicks who are too "shy" to post pics?

So I'm supposed to waste my energy on conversation with someone I might not even be attracted to? :mjlol:
i just say hi, what's up, two or three exchanges then i ask for a pic and they usually send it. I literally copy paste the same messages i send to everyone. Not much energy wasted :mjlol:

I understand the theory of what you guys are saying but sometimes it's not that deep. When i go on apps, i typically do 2 weeks stints of just sending the same messages to everyone. I don't read bios or nothing like that. Just set my search parameters and shoot the same messages to dozens of girls every day. Most don't reply. The ones that do then go in triage. The ones with no pics get asked for pics. Most send it, the ones that don't get bushed. If i don't like the pic they get bushed. Couple of more exchanges so we both see we are not bots and not socially inapte, then i ask for numbers. It's like a funnel. I typically end up with 3 or 4 i actually meet by the end of the funnel. Then i delete the app :ninja1:.

When you systematize shyt, it's hardly any energy wasted. You'll be surprised by the girls who don't post pics sometimes. But either way like i always say, y'all should do whatever works for you. I'm just offering another option :yeshrug:
 
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