Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Primetime]

Man this a coworker for months she been giving me signs always around me once even got me food randomly when I was in another part of the workplace and came and gave me. Always ending up around me giving me so much choosing signals. Got her number a few weeks ago and she does this lol. Got all professional out of nowhere talking bout she don’t mix work with things like that when she was the one always giving signals lmao

The young girls are so strange. She does have the wandering eyes thing going though so I feel like she def thirsts for attention

anyway Man U already know female nature I’m expecting her to be doing just what y’all described and switch up when I talk to her less and get a promotion and just level up in general lol

Just me personally, but i always avoid fukking with any female coworkers.

Understand that unless yall end up getting married, 99% of these interactions with women are short term. Finite. It could be 2 days or it could be 2 months or 2 years.. but your roster/rotation is going to change, evolve, and dissolve. Which is just fine if your dating environment isn't an enclosed habitat where you have to still see the muthafukka every day even when things inevitably run their course.

And of course, you could do everything right and follow every shiny gem in this thread about approach, self-improvement, confidence, etc.. and some women will simply wake up one day and still choose violence. lol. So i make sure not to "shyt where i eat", as the popular phrase goes.

 

[Serious]

Anyone else run into this awkward shyt.

So literally every time I sign into this dating app, this chick I’m talking to wants to randomly start calling me. Guess she sees I’m online, then gets worried that I’m talking to other chicks. But if she’s on there all the time then she’s clearly talking to other dudes a lot. It’s weird we talk a lot and have even been on a couple dates but it’s like damn give me some space to date other people, because I’m sure she does the same. She’s even tried to throw a question out to see if I’m seeing other people, even she’s clearly said open to seeing others until she’s in a committed relationship.


I hate that shyt, when people act like it’s ok for them to do something, but if someone they’re dating, interested in or married to does it, then they start feeling some type of way.


/rant

 

[Serious]

Only fukk with chicks that got shyt to lose.

This can't be stressed enough

Oh shyt, the goat dropping gems

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Anyone else run into this awkward shyt.

So literally every time I sign into this dating app, this chick I’m talking to wants to randomly start calling me. Guess she sees I’m online, then gets worried that I’m talking to other chicks. But if she’s on there all the time then she’s clearly talking to other dudes a lot. It’s weird we talk a lot and have even been on a couple dates but it’s like damn give me some space to date other people, because I’m sure she does the same. She’s even tried to throw a question out to see if I’m seeing other people, even she’s clearly said open to seeing others until she’s in a committed relationship.


I hate that shyt, when people act like it’s ok for them to do something, but if someone they’re dating, interested in or married to does it, then they start feeling some type of way.


/rant

You better be fukking this chick to allow her to stress you out like this.

No shots at you, but it blows my mind when guys allow girls who they are not even shacking with to make their lives difficult. It's one thing if it's your girl or one of your jumpoffs, but some rando?

 

[Turbulent]

Anyone else run into this awkward shyt.

So literally every time I sign into this dating app, this chick I’m talking to wants to randomly start calling me. Guess she sees I’m online, then gets worried that I’m talking to other chicks. But if she’s on there all the time then she’s clearly talking to other dudes a lot. It’s weird we talk a lot and have even been on a couple dates but it’s like damn give me some space to date other people, because I’m sure she does the same. She’s even tried to throw a question out to see if I’m seeing other people, even she’s clearly said open to seeing others until she’s in a committed relationship.


I hate that shyt, when people act like it’s ok for them to do something, but if someone they’re dating, interested in or married to does it, then they start feeling some type of way.


/rant

either tell her you are seeing other people or tell her it's none of her business.

And if you are still interested in her, ask her out as it's pretty clear you are on her mind.

Honestly, I don't even see what the problem is. What you see as an awkward situation, I see as an opportunity. And if you are not interested, who cares how she feels about it?

 

[MikelArteta]

Anyone else run into this awkward shyt.

So literally every time I sign into this dating app, this chick I’m talking to wants to randomly start calling me. Guess she sees I’m online, then gets worried that I’m talking to other chicks. But if she’s on there all the time then she’s clearly talking to other dudes a lot. It’s weird we talk a lot and have even been on a couple dates but it’s like damn give me some space to date other people, because I’m sure she does the same. She’s even tried to throw a question out to see if I’m seeing other people, even she’s clearly said open to seeing others until she’s in a committed relationship.


I hate that shyt, when people act like it’s ok for them to do something, but if someone they’re dating, interested in or married to does it, then they start feeling some type of way.


/rant

unmatch
chick sounds jodi arias crazy

 

[Serious]

either tell her you are seeing other people or tell her it's none of her business.

And if you are still interested in her, ask her out as it's pretty clear you are on her mind.

Honestly, I don't even see what the problem is. What you see as an awkward situation, I see as an opportunity. And if you are not interested, who cares how she feels about it?

Nah you missing the point, we already met and talked. She just gets more aggressive when I’m online. Heck she even brought it up to me that she sees other people until she’s in a relationship. I’m just noticing every time I go on the app she’ll start calling / texting my offline number.

 

[Serious]

unmatch
chick sounds jodi arias crazy

Breh Yeah know they got that fire.

I’m 100% certain on this.


Would have found out last week, but I fukked up. It’s a long story I may tell in due time. But I’m just seeing where it goes right now, because I lowkey have a lot of fun with this chick.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Breh Yeah know they got that fire.

I’m 100% certain on this.


Would have found out last week, but I fukked up. It’s a long story I may tell in due time. But I’m just seeing where it goes right now, because I lowkey have a lot of fun with this chick.

Why are yall even still communicating via the app?

 

[Turbulent]

Nah you missing the point, we already met and talked. She just gets more aggressive when I’m online. Heck she even brought it up to me that she sees other people until she’s in a relationship. I’m just noticing every time I go on the app she’ll start calling / texting my offline number.

That's what I got from your original post.

What I'm saying is, if she asks you if you are seeing other people you just either tell her yes or you tell her it's none of her business. You answer with either of these and she will stop asking.

If you still want her despite fukking up, all you gotta do is ask to meet her again the next time she texts or calls because she sees you on the app. The fact she is enquiring about other girls is a clear sign she is still interested /keeping tabs on you despite you fukking up. Am i missing something?

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's what I got from your original post.

What I'm saying is, if she asks you if you are seeing other people you just either tell her yes or you tell her it's none of her business. You answer with either of these and she will stop asking.

If you still want her despite fukking up, all you gotta do is ask to meet her again the next time she texts or calls because she sees you on the app. The fact she is enquiring about other girls is a clear sign she is still interested /keeping tabs on you despite you fukking up. Am i missing something?

breh needs to block her. Its like going to a porno video store and seeing somebody and they asking “hell you doing here?” Its like hell you right here with me, what are YOU doing here?

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Is tinder gold worth it?

 

[Turbulent]

breh needs to block her. Its like going to a porno video store and seeing somebody and they asking “hell you doing here?” Its like hell you right here with me, what are YOU doing here?

I see your point but it depends how she is asking him. It's not clear if the tone is "i caught you talking to other girls " or if it's more a "hey so hum... Are you seeing other people? Cause I'm still interested if you are ".

 

[DapMeUp!]

breh needs to block her. Its like going to a porno video store and seeing somebody and they asking “hell you doing here?” Its like hell you right here with me, what are YOU doing here?

 

[Apollo Creed]

I see your point but it depends how she is asking him. It's not clear if the tone is "i caught you talking to other girls " or if it's more a "hey so hum... Are you seeing other people? Cause I'm still interested if you are ".

breh hell she doing on the dating app herself if she gets in her feelings about him being on it lmfao.

literally nothing you can present can justify it. If breh ignores this red flag thats on him.