Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Just started a new job making around $20.00 an hour. My current gf just don’t know I’m finna break up with her.

She basically forced me in a relationship & I just said “fukk it I’m bored so let’s do this :francis:

I tell everyone that I do not want kids so don’t even bring it up in any discussion. Cause I’m a shut that shyt down with the quickness.

Shorty got a daughter & a retarded baby daddy who refused to see his kid for an entire year. :francis:

Need help telling this woman I don’t want to be with her in the nicest way possible :snoop:

"Take your emotions out of the equation and the right decision becomes clear."

Essentially your emotions (fears, insecurities, etc) makes you juelz different pathways in your head to avoid the reality/simplicity in front of you.
To use your post as an example my brother... be honest, is the reality really that you were just bored? :sitdown:

Is that why you got with a chick that has kids (which you don't want) and tells you about her baby daddy situation with her kid (which you don't want to hear about)?

As fed up/frustrated/standoff'ish as you present yourself, you then ask for the nicest most beating-around-the-bush-asss way to tell her the simplest thing lol. What's the fear habibi?
 

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To use your post as an example my brother... be honest, is the reality really that you were just bored? :sitdown:

Is that why you got with a chick that has kids (which you don't want) and tells you about her baby daddy situation with her kid (which you don't want to hear about)?

As fed up/frustrated/standoff'ish as you present yourself, you then ask for the nicest most beating-around-the-bush-asss way to tell her the simplest thing lol. What's the fear habibi?
I’m confused by your post :mjlol:
But nah seriously I do like her & I have a tendency of hopping in relationship due to boredom (stupid, I know :snoop:)

I just don’t want to hurt her feelings again that’s all
 

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I’m confused by your post :mjlol:
But nah seriously I do like her & I have a tendency of hopping in relationship due to boredom (stupid, I know :snoop:)

I just don’t want to hurt her feelings again that’s all
You're hurting her feelings more by not being real with her. You're thinking like a female right now breh. Just tell her you've been thinking a lot and that you're not happy in the relationship and it's only fair that you are honest with her. If she asks why, tell her because you don't see yourself having or raising kids and because you're not feeling the same passion or whatever. She might hurt but it will be more hurt the more you try to soften the blow. Women know when you are bsing them because they do it ALL THE TIME to other women and to men they are breaking up with. So you might as well be real. She might be upset but she will respect and appreciate it later on.

Also stop acting like you are trying to spare her feelings. You are trying to avoid awkwardness and discomfort which is about your feelings, not hers. You are trying to trick yourself to believe it's about protecting her feelings (again, like a woman typically would).
 

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I’m confused by your post :mjlol:
But nah seriously I do like her & I have a tendency of hopping in relationship due to boredom (stupid, I know :snoop:)

I just don’t want to hurt her feelings again that’s all

Haha no worries. I was connecting your post to a prior one i made a few days ago but it probably got lost in translation.

However...

You're hurting her feelings more by not being real with her. You're thinking like a female right now breh. Just tell her you've been thinking a lot and that you're not happy in the relationship and it's only fair that you are honest with her. If she asks why, tell her because you don't see yourself having or raising kids and because you're not feeling the same passion or whatever. She might hurt but it will be more hurt the more you try to soften the blow. Women know when you are bsing them because they do it ALL THE TIME to other women and to men they are breaking up with. So you might as well be real. She might be upset but she will respect and appreciate it later on.

Also stop acting like you are trying to spare her feelings. You are trying to avoid awkwardness and discomfort which is about your feelings, not hers. You are trying to trick yourself to believe it's about protecting her feelings (again, like a woman typically would).

^^This is essentially what i was getting at
 

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Also.. it kinda came across like you didn't get in a relationship out of boredom but because you actually liked whatever it was you liked about that girl... and/or you didn't have anything better going for you so you opted for some stable p*ssy despite her situation going direclty against your very standards...

..but now that you got this new $20/hr gig you're feeling it's time to level up. I didn't want to flat out assume, so that's why i asked whether boredom was the real reason you let this girl force you into a relationship chose this specific girl.
 

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I’m still laughing at $20 / hr being leveling up. :mjlol:

35+ I could see but $20. :dead:
Nothing wrong with making 20$ an hour. And it is leveling up say if he was making 15$ before. But leaving your girl because you got a raise is the corny part of it. Just say you weren't feeling her from the beginning and leave it at that. Why dudes adding sauce into the reasons they want to leave their girls? (again, like a female would)
 

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Sometimes the reason we have girl issues or trouble getting puss is our lack of emotional maturity. From time to time it might be a good idea to look in the mirror. We talk a lot of shyt about these girls and what they are not doing right but too many times we are the ones who created the conditions that allowed them to act the way they act. We talk a lot about checking these girls but maybe it's time to check ourselves...
 

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Sometimes the reason we have girl issues or trouble getting puss is our lack of emotional maturity. From time to time it might be a good idea to look in the mirror. We talk a lot of shyt about these girls and what they are not doing right but too many times we are the ones who created the conditions that allowed them to act the way they act. We talk a lot about checking these girls but maybe it's time to check ourselves...
:leon:
 

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I came off a long relationship in 2015 and didn't know where to start with online dating. It was hard at first but I soon became an expert on dating and what woman want. My confidence and outlook on life changed greatly within those 3 years where I had a system and knew exactly what to say or do in any situation based on all the experience of dating I acquired. I have told some friends on what to do when they needed help and they have had a lot of success based off just a few easy tips. A lot of people have told me that I should go into Tinder Coaching because I have had a lot of experience. Now, after finding the love of my life and Wife who I found from Tinder

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