Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The amount of profiles I'm seeing with women talking about gaining covid weight and how they're trying to lose it is hilarious. Especially considering a lot of these women were already one cheeseburger away or in a handful of cases 3 cheeseburgers over.

:picard:

Going to be a hard summer for a lot of broads.

brehs better come out of covid better than they were before. Its time to shine lol
 

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The amount of profiles I'm seeing with women talking about gaining covid weight and how they're trying to lose it is hilarious. Especially considering a lot of these women were already one cheeseburger away or in a handful of cases 3 cheeseburgers over.

:picard:

Going to be a hard summer for a lot of broads.


I'm looking at a chicks profile right now and 3 of her photos she looks fat and the other 3 slim

But I can can tell by her jaw and tje quality of the photos which are old and new :belI:
 

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Fellas, we have to hold ourselves to a higher standard in all aspects in life. Key word OURSELVES, not just the women we date. I've realized that a lot of men want women to view and treat us a way we don't even view or treat ourselves. Frauding. We want to demand the best out of folks yet we go around accepting the bare minimum from ourselves half assing or procrastinating through life?

You can't expect someone to give you THEIR best self if YOU won't even give YOU your best self? How can you expect someone to respect you when it could be clear to them that you don't even respect yourself.

Food for thought. If it applies to you, you'll know.

Half assing on your finances/job/education
Half assing on your health/diet/fitness
Half assing on your looks/hygiene/clothing
 

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The amount of profiles I'm seeing with women talking about gaining covid weight and how they're trying to lose it is hilarious. Especially considering a lot of these women were already one cheeseburger away or in a handful of cases 3 cheeseburgers over.

:picard:

Going to be a hard summer for a lot of broads.
If they wrote that in their profile you know they got fat as fukkkkkk
 
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I agree but unfortunately, if a man wants to have kids and a family one day, it has to be done. And i feel like it would be pretty hard for a man to not learn this stuff and then one day get married and all of a sudden know and apply this stuff
Just don’t get anyone pregnant in the process of u learning this stuff
 

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I just want to say to my coli family. I’m feeling very optimistic bout this brehette. We text (not a lot, I’ve learned from my mistakes) and I always make her smile and laugh at work. Remain flirty too, not simpy. I just hope she’s serious as me and I don’t turn out to be the side dikk. That always hurts but, I don’t show it.
 

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I have an IG account and I see a random ass girl from HS.

I go on her page and see she has me blocked already :dead:

I'm taking W's in life except with women :heh:

I'm much more content with it now though.

That anger simply goes away when you focus your mind on other aspects of your life.

I'm deleting all those dating apps. No luck and it's a waste of time.

Got an interview for a promotion next week. :smugbiden:
 

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Been a month back on the apps and i wish i could go back in time a month and slap myself for barking up all the wrong trees. I got ones that threw me their number now without me asking, ones that make sure to send smiley faces n shyt all the time now, I was wasting my time with these cold one-word reply broads, broads that didn't wanna link, and other bullshyt. I was out of the loop for a few years so I have an excuse for being rusty but I got a nice flow going now :wow:
 

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I just want to say to my coli family. I’m feeling very optimistic bout this brehette. We text (not a lot, I’ve learned from my mistakes) and I always make her smile and laugh at work. Remain flirty too, not simpy. I just hope she’s serious as me and I don’t turn out to be the side dikk. That always hurts but, I don’t show it.


Seems like you're an older man and currently want a girlfriend.....and that's fine depending on age, but don't think you're gonna get young chicks who want to stay loyal...its sidechick heaven when they're in their 18's-29...Your only problem is that you hope she's serious about you. Its irrelevant, your happiness comes first and then trickles down. Stop looking for an anchor, and work on yourself. Good women will be there, but are a byproduct of a great life well lived. Everything else is working, especially since you work with her; time + proximity is the best gambit, however, it seems like you're becoming attached to a concept, I'd say do your best to erase it from your mind...focus on thyself.
 

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Y'all ever have a chick say let's just be friends (before you get to smash) only to end up smashing?

I think this chic is testing me or playing with me(I never put all my eggs in one basket)

Met once, went back to her place. Make out, hand on her t*ts all that. Then I guess she started having second thoughts paused it. I chilled for a bit and left :manny: She hit me the next day we chopped it up. I hit her a couple days ago we chopped it up and she's now saying she doesn't want to date anyone. doesn't want a FWB situation yada yada and gave me the option to be a friend or bush

:jbhmm:

Normaly I'd INSTA-BUSH on the spot, delete and keep it moving but the demon in me feels like I can kill this one if I chill and play my cards right :youngsabo: And for free since we'll be hanging "as friends" I don't have to come out of pocket. :manny:

Worst case she had a cute friend I met when I went out with her last week that ,ngl, I wanted more so might gun for that if I see her again.

No scarcity mindset either. Got two other chics lined up for the weekend and my vacation the following week :demonic:

It's getting warm in NYC. 60 degree weather loading next week. I'll be in the streets all summa :ahh:

I've had my favorite line said countless times "you're not my type"...I always respond with "So do you wanna shag now or shag later?"...because I know what that means instantly. Next few hours are gonna be playing with her hair, and learning about her fav positions and how she never "tried anal".:win:

So a broad telling me "lets be friends", means shes gonna be swallowing more than I'm gonna be fukking her...honestly, never a bad time. And I feel you there fella, that 60 degree weather is gonna be smooth :banderas:
 

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Fellas, we have to hold ourselves to a higher standard in all aspects in life. Key word OURSELVES, not just the women we date. I've realized that a lot of men want women to view and treat us a way we don't even view or treat ourselves. Frauding. We want to demand the best out of folks yet we go around accepting the bare minimum from ourselves half assing or procrastinating through life?

You can't expect someone to give you THEIR best self if YOU won't even give YOU your best self? How can you expect someone to respect you when it could be clear to them that you don't even respect yourself.

Food for thought. If it applies to you, you'll know.

Half assing on your finances/job/education
Half assing on your health/diet/fitness
Half assing on your looks/hygiene/clothing

I highly recommend a book called Declare War on Yourself by Marc Summers that touches on this. I mentioned it in the 6 figures 6 certs section.

This is a great book for men in particular who are half assing and not taking themselves seriously in life. It's not a pleasant read for some because he doesn't go the "be kind to yourself" route. It's VERY harsh and a punch in the gut type of book and will hit several nerves, but it's what dudes need to hear. If you're not a book person I would recommend listening to the audio.
 

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Welp I met her after work. Shes texting me the whole day asking if we're still on. Asking how if coming dressed up which since I'm coming from work is business casual. We went bowling.

She comes out make up done, hair done, lip gloss, perfume, crop top sweater in 30 degree weather under a pea coat. :patrice:

We split the bill :smugfavre:

I was sober the whole time unlike the first link ..... I realized that she's type annoying and I want her friend 100%:ehh:
it all works out in the end :salute:
 

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I highly recommend a book called Declare War on Yourself by Marc Summers that touches on this. I mentioned it in the 6 figures 6 certs section.

This is a great book for men in particular who are half assing and not taking themselves seriously in life. It's not a pleasant read for some because he doesn't go the "be kind to yourself" route. It's VERY harsh and a punch in the gut type of book and will hit several nerves, but it's what dudes need to hear. If you're not a book person I would recommend listening to the audio.
ordered.

1 day shipping will be here tomorrow. :salute:
 
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