Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Always have a throwaway IG for whatever clandestine activities...No random bird is knowing my last name....I'm the fukking lizard king for all she knows, she's not gonna be able to Google me.

I always use my middle name on Apps
 

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I always use my middle name on Apps

That's actually a good idea.

TBH some of these chicks wanna know too much too soon. Had this pushy broad I linked with the other day asking me what company I work for. :dahell: Like bytch, none of your fukking business. :rudy:Told her I'm in IT, that's all she needs to know. I'm not asking her what hospital she works in FOH.
 

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That's actually a good idea.

TBH some of these chicks wanna know too much too soon. Had this pushy broad I linked with the other day asking me what company I work for. :dahell: Like bytch, none of your fukking business. :rudy:Told her I'm in IT, that's all she needs to know. I'm not asking her what hospital she works in FOH.
Lol man just create a fake name in general
 

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:stopitslime:Same girl who thought I was going to chase her asked me if I’d like to go out with her. After 4 months? Nah. Told me how two dudes have disappointed her since I met her :mjlol: her heart was hurt lmao! Ok! I ignored her ass and sent her a reply 8 hours later like word? You wanna go out? She said I stayed in :russ: man I don’t give a fukk if you fine and I wanna fukk you! I ain’t waiting in line like to be all in your ass sniffing your p*ssy! Kiss my ass!
I feel you but the flip side is, if ypu are fukking girls you are always in line. No matter what she says or how much she pretends it's only you, until she is madly in love with you, there is always a dude she would fukk with before you. That's just some shyt you have to swallow if you want to fukk women. The trick is to not put in more emotion than them and to not take this shyt personal or serious. When it's your turn you come in and be smooth it without caring too much. You make it fun for the both of you and get her to chase you. You let her come and go, let her play her games while you stay busy making moves on your passion /getting money /other women. When she sees her games don't move you she gets more attracted, starts getting more emotionally involved, and you have fukked for a couple of months consistently while having fun (and still while she still chasing you 100%) eventually she will forget other dudes and even Drake couldn't fukk her cause you have her heart. Then you can do whatever you want. But you gotta accept the rules in the beginning.

Like i said, the one you were talking about had other dudes in line who ended up messing up but she was honest about it. Some girls will be talking to you and pretend it's only you to satisfy your ego. Whether they lie or tell the truth, there are always other dudes ahead of you (at first).
 

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I feel you but the flip side is, if ypu are fukking girls you are always in line. No matter what she says or how much she pretends it's only you, until she is madly in love with you, there is always a dude she would fukk with before you. That's just some shyt you have to swallow if you want to fukk women. The trick is to not put in more emotion than them and to not take this shyt personal or serious. When it's your turn you come in and be smooth it without caring too much. You make it fun for the both of you and get her to chase you. You let her come and go, let her play her games while you stay busy making moves on your passion /getting money /other women. When she sees her games don't move you she gets more attracted, starts getting more emotionally involved, and you have fukked for a couple of months consistently while having fun (and still while she still chasing you 100%) eventually she will forget other dudes and even Drake couldn't fukk her cause you have her heart. Then you can do whatever you want. But you gotta accept the rules in the beginning.

Like i said, the one you were talking about had other dudes in line who ended up messing up but she was honest about it. Some girls will be talking to you and pretend it's only you to satisfy your ego. Whether they lie or tell the truth, there are always other dudes ahead of you (at first).

this post should be tagged as one of the most genuine gems in this thread.

if u can maintain emotional distance with women you will succeed with them beyond ur wildest expectations. But most men don’t have the discipline. They can act well composed with women they’re not really into. But when that chick who checks all the boxes comes along, men forget the rules and start to treat her special.

sadly in this day in age, u can never be too obvious with ur affection otherwise you risk a woman wondering if she can get u, what other higher caliber of men can she get.

and like others have already said, it gets easier to be emotional distant if and only if you have a profitable passion u enjoy outside of women. It could be a business or anything that has the capacity to be beneficial to you in important ways.

Women come and go brehs. Blessed is he who derives joy from his own passion.
 
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this post should be tagged as one of the most genuine gems in this thread.

if u can maintain emotional distance with women you will succeed with them beyond ur wildest expectations. But most men don’t have the discipline. They can act well composed with women they’re not really into. But when that chick who checks all the boxes comes along, men forget the rules and start to treat her special.

sadly in this day in age, u can never be too obvious with ur affection otherwise you risk a woman thinking if can get u, what other higher caliber of men can she get.

and like others have already said, it gets easier to be emotional distant if and only if you have a profitable passion u enjoy outside of women. It could be a business or anything that has the capacity to be beneficial to you in important ways.

Women come and go brehs. Blessed is he who can derive fulfilling joy and happiness in his own passion.
I appreciate it breh.

Yes, it really is about the discipline. And also about doing this shyt for real (pursuing your passion/purpose, taking care of yourself, putting in some emotion but not too much, etc). It has to be true, not a tactic. The difference between playing games and having game.
 

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Carrying these conversations through the middle of the week is exhausting. How many times can you ask my how was my day or how's my day going?I went to work and went home just like you :beli: got unmatched by 2 different girls that were all about it before but then they didn't hear from me for a day or two. Seems like you gotta match them on Sundays but then don't start talking to them til Wednesday
 

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Carrying these conversations through the middle of the week is exhausting. How many times can you ask my how was my day or how's my day going?I went to work and went home just like you :beli: got unmatched by 2 different girls that were all about it before but then they didn't hear from me for a day or two. Seems like you gotta match them on Sundays but then don't start talking to them til Wednesday
Just set up meets. Too much time on the phone gets you nowhere fast. Focus on setting up a meet.
 

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Just set up meets. Too much time on the phone gets you nowhere fast. Focus on setting up a meet.
that's what I do though

Girl # 1 that unmatched - just saw this bytch this past Saturday. Talked to her after on Sunday and Monday. last thing we left it Monday was she sent some restaurant link and I said yeah I've heard of it, I'd try it. yesterday I didnt feel like saying anything so I didn't, today I checked and she had unfollowed me from IG and unmatched me

Girl # 2 unmatched - ask her last Thur to hang out the next day. that Friday was a storm so on Fri I said ok let's just find another day soon. didn't chit chat after that. checked today and she unmatched me. for not talking to her since Friday i guess? I didn't want to set up a plan for this coming weekend (I have other shyt going on this weekend with other girls) so I didn't say anything, cuz Im not gonna make plans a week and a half in advance (for the weekend after this one)
 

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Carrying these conversations through the middle of the week is exhausting. How many times can you ask my how was my day or how's my day going?I went to work and went home just like you :beli: got unmatched by 2 different girls that were all about it before but then they didn't hear from me for a day or two. Seems like you gotta match them on Sundays but then don't start talking to them til Wednesday

The problem like I mentioned before, is that now due to covid these hoes want to build something, so now they're taking tactics from men and want to have conversation every day instead of just going out and fukking. The other problem being; women just aren't as entertaining or charming as men are. We move the chains, so seeing/hearing a girl attempt to do so is just cringe. Your value is your vagina, mine is everything under the sun, if shes not down to meet up, don't bother.
 

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this post should be tagged as one of the most genuine gems in this thread.

if u can maintain emotional distance with women you will succeed with them beyond ur wildest expectations. But most men don’t have the discipline. They can act well composed with women they’re not really into. But when that chick who checks all the boxes comes along, men forget the rules and start to treat her special.

sadly in this day in age, u can never be too obvious with ur affection otherwise you risk a woman wondering if she can get u, what other higher caliber of men can she get.

and like others have already said, it gets easier to be emotional distant if and only if you have a profitable passion u enjoy outside of women. It could be a business or anything that has the capacity to be beneficial to you in important ways.

Women come and go brehs. Blessed is he who derives joy from his own passion.

I say it all the time, be desireless, don't become part of the thirsty dudes in her life. Shes gonna have those starving hyena's waiting for the opportunity to grab the rebound. When dealing with women and their tantrums, it pays to be stoic and cold, putting them on ice is the go-to. Let her get lost in her irrelevant and petulant behavior. They feed off of emotions, give them none and they lose. More men just need to realize that their happiness is paramount and trickles down onto the relationship, a woman isn't the finish line.
 

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Some bytch barely text head shots...i was like im tryna see a full body pic and she like "but i don't know u" bytch i dont know if ur fat lol...i sent her a dikk pic n next morning she was like "im free tomm we should get breakfast!"

NOOOOOO!...i need proof of ur body before i waste time n $ lol


Have this other bytch...2 jobs and 1 kid...sucks at textn but wants a BF lol


I just want some side p*ssy
 

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Some bytch barely text head shots...i was like im tryna see a full body pic and she like "but i don't know u" bytch i dont know if ur fat lol...i sent her a dikk pic n next morning she was like "im free tomm we should get breakfast!"

NOOOOOO!...i need proof of ur body before i waste time n $ lol


Have this other bytch...2 jobs and 1 kid...sucks at textn but wants a BF lol


I just want some side p*ssy

For the first one; She's fat, but clearly she wants the D, get your blowjob young fella.

For the second; Moms are basically children with children, tell her you'll be her BF, but treat her like bootycall....watch how she all of a sudden has time, still, pay for nothing, don't go out with her and the kid. Offer nothing but dikk and a good time.

For both; Pump and dump, have them spend their time wanting to please you and give you attention. I'm not one to date single mothers, but there is a way of doing it depending on the situation.
 
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