Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

Some bytch barely text head shots...i was like im tryna see a full body pic and she like "but i don't know u" bytch i dont know if ur fat lol...i sent her a dikk pic n next morning she was like "im free tomm we should get breakfast!"

NOOOOOO!...i need proof of ur body before i waste time n $ lol


Have this other bytch...2 jobs and 1 kid...sucks at textn but wants a BF lol


I just want some side p*ssy

These single mothers running the step daddy offense out here

 

[J Money]

Ima wait till things reopen before I do anything with women. Got a couple goals I want to hit before summer:

Pay off credit cards
Drive again
Get my CCNA
Become a non smoker
Lose about 20 pounds
Get my network+
Move out

So gonna be in a drought till July see yall then

Although saying that I think some lady at my workplace might be a swinger. Will update if correct

 

[Turbulent]

that's what I do though

Girl # 1 that unmatched - just saw this bytch this past Saturday. Talked to her after on Sunday and Monday. last thing we left it Monday was she sent some restaurant link and I said yeah I've heard of it, I'd try it. yesterday I didnt feel like saying anything so I didn't, today I checked and she had unfollowed me from IG and unmatched me

Girl # 2 unmatched - ask her last Thur to hang out the next day. that Friday was a storm so on Fri I said ok let's just find another day soon. didn't chit chat after that. checked today and she unmatched me. for not talking to her since Friday i guess? I didn't want to set up a plan for this coming weekend (I have other shyt going on this weekend with other girls) so I didn't say anything, cuz Im not gonna make plans a week and a half in advance (for the weekend after this one)

My honest opinion...

Girl 1#

You spent 2 days talking/texting without setting up anything. If you weren't gonna set up a meet in those convos, you shouldn't have been on the phone for those 2 days. At the end of the second day, she saw you weren't gonna arrange for you to meet so she tried her best to do it by sending you a link the the restaurant (which by the way is bad because now you put her in a position where she has to lead). Then you send her some vague shyt about "you would try it" without inviting her. Breh... I can't even blame her.

Girl 2#

This one the way I see it, it's all in the wording. You ask her out for the next day then have to cancel because of an act of god, cool. The best course after that in my opinion is to ask her when is the next time she's free and put the ball in her court. If she says Saturday, you say you can't because blablabla. And then make a counter offer for a day when you can. If she says she can't on that day without proposing another day, you say cool seems like we can't for this week, when you are free hit me up and we will link up. Then you don't contact until she does. Why tell her let's find another day soon instead of finding that other day now and then getting off the phone? Wasting time breh.

This is gonna sound harsh and i mean no disrespect but you're not taking the lead breh. Both of them saw that if setting up a simple date was this complicated for you, then you probably would be the same way about leading things to the bedroom and they got turned off.

 

[Bless't]

That's actually a good idea.

TBH some of these chicks wanna know too much too soon. Had this pushy broad I linked with the other day asking me what company I work for. Like bytch, none of your fukking business. Told her I'm in IT, that's all she needs to know. I'm not asking her what hospital she works in FOH.

This shyt. The gull some of these broads have to immediately want to know which company you work for. FOH.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

I’ve gotten so turned off by women that I’m not even attracted to them anymore. Like I just wanna focus on myself, things like working out, reading, practicing good habit that’s what I’ll be doing till the stars aligned and I meet a women that I actually like, this dating chicks just to date is not it

 

[Vinny Lupton]

My honest opinion...

Girl 1#

You spent 2 days talking/texting without setting up anything. If you weren't gonna set up a meet in those convos, you shouldn't have been on the phone for those 2 days. At the end of the second day, she saw you weren't gonna arrange for you to meet so she tried her best to do it by sending you a link the the restaurant (which by the way is bad because now you put her in a position where she has to lead). Then you send her some vague shyt about "you would try it" without inviting her. Breh... I can't even blame her.

Girl 2#

This one the way I see it, it's all in the wording. You ask her out for the next day then have to cancel because of an act of god, cool. The best course after that in my opinion is to ask her when is the next time she's free and put the ball in her court. If she says Saturday, you say you can't because blablabla. And then make a counter offer for a day when you can. If she says she can't on that day without proposing another day, you say cool seems like we can't for this week, when you are free hit me up and we will link up. Then you don't contact until she does. Why tell her let's find another day soon instead of finding that other day now and then getting off the phone? Wasting time breh.

This is gonna sound harsh and i mean no disrespect but you're not taking the lead breh. Both of them saw that if setting up a simple date was this complicated for you, then you probably would be the same way about leading things to the bedroom and they got turned off.

This is fair, thanks

Girl 1 I already smashed this past Sat and didn't really want to again anyway so i didn't lose.much there

Girl 2 I'll apply that in the future because it's gonna snow again here for sure in the near future

I think part of my problem is I'm talking to more girls than there are more available free weekend days (i don't like to get distracted with this bullshyt during Sun-Wed) and also too many convos to manage

 

[Apollo Creed]

I’ve gotten so turned off by women that I’m not even attracted to them anymore. Like I just wanna focus on myself, things like working out, reading, practicing good habit that’s what I’ll be doing till the stars aligned and I meet a women that I actually like, this dating chicks just to date is not it

hookup culture isn't normal, but here we are.

 

[Snoopy Loops]

I got a situation on my hands with my girl. I’m seeing some red flags but they’re a byproducts of lies I’ve told. So not sure if we should just dead it, cuz it’s kinda toxic at this point

Spoiler

Basically when we weren’t exclusive, she would see missed calls from other women. At the time, we’d been seeing each other for 6 months and she was pressing a nikka to cuff but I wasn’t sure if we were fully compatible.

She confronted me on two occasions and I lied like a scary ass nikka. I eventually confessed to the shyts weeks later. So naturally, she felt betrayed. She said she would move on, but it seems like anything can trigger trust issues

On one hand, i feel shes trippin a lil too much cuz she was asking too many questions. I wasn’t concerned if she was fukking anyone else and didn’t bother to inquire even when I saw shyt. On the other hand, I actually feel I betrayed her.

She recently went thru my phone but I found out. Shes been apologetic but I’m fairly confident she’ll do it again. I’ve been faithful but have replied a text here and there on friendly shyt, thus triggering her trust issues

My close homies been saying I should dead it cuz that level of disrespect shouldn’t be tolerated, but I feel kinda responsible for it, so I’m kinda torn.

 

[TRUEST]

I got a really unique situation on my hands with my girl. I’m seeing some red flags but they’re a byproducts of lies I’ve told. So not sure if we should just dead it, cuz it’s kinda toxic at this point

Spoiler

Basically when we weren’t exclusive, she would see missed calls from other women. At the time, we’d been seeing each other for 6 months and she was pressing a nikka to cuff but I wasn’t sure if we were fully compatible.

She confronted me on two occasions and I lied like a scary ass nikka. I eventually confessed to the shyts weeks later. So naturally, she felt betrayed. She said she would move on, but it seems like anything can trigger trust issues

On one hand, i feel shes trippin a lil too much cuz she was asking too many questions. I wasn’t concerned if she was fukking anyone else and didn’t bother to inquire even when I saw shyt. On the other hand, I actually feel I betrayed her.

She recently went thru my phone but I found out. Shes been apologetic but I’m fairly confident she’ll do it again. I’ve been faithful but have replied a text here and there on friendly shyt, thus triggering her trust issues. Been saying

My close homies been saying I should dead it cuz that level of disrespect shouldn’t be tolerated, but I feel kinda responsible for it, so I’m kinda torn.

Your friends sound immature. And u do too. U don’t need 6 months to know if u wanna cuff a girl or not. U didn’t have to string her along for that long.

And I don’t blame her for going through ur phone as long as she isn’t hiding hers. In this day and age, only an idiot won’t try to verify the loyalty of a partner.

 

[Snoopy Loops]

Your friends sound immature. And u do too. U don’t need 6 months to know if u wanna cuff a girl or not. U didn’t have to string her along for that long.

And I don’t blame her for going through ur phone as long as she isn’t hiding hers. In this day and age, only an idiot won’t try to verify the loyalty of a partner.

She was hiding hers. She was big on her privacy

I had medical issues. Had been out of a relationship for like 5 months before I met her. Was tryna grind and shyt.

I told her I wasn’t ready for anything at all. I hadn’t even fukked before I told her that. She was pissed for a bit but came back.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Your friends sound immature. And u do too. U don’t need 6 months to know if u wanna cuff a girl or not. U didn’t have to string her along for that long.

And I don’t blame her for going through ur phone as long as she isn’t hiding hers. In this day and age, only an idiot won’t try to verify the loyalty of a partner.

lol nah aint nobody going through my phone. But yeah it doesn't take 6 months to figure out if you want to commit to someone. Hell really a month or two will tell you if you want to take the next step.

 

[Snoopy Loops]

lol nah aint nobody going through my phone. But yeah it doesn't take 6 months to figure out if you want to commit to someone. Hell really a month or two will tell you if you want to take the next step.

We were more or less in a relationship and having a good time tbh, but we just didn’t have the discussion.

There was a month in there where my medical issues got me questioning my life and shyt. So I was not in a good place. Plus she was also doing her own shyt too.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I’m free. Thank you, I took such a big L by giving out two Valentine’s Day gifts. Never again, I’m respectful but fukk it. Been playing that mode one or whatever the fukk it’s called book

Edit:
I have evolved, sometimes I don’t even answer bytches back on texts if it’s an open ended question or just an impulsive text from them. I’m just penis not your boo, bytch

 

[Rozay Oro]

@JadeB we gotta help the brotha get p*ssy on his own without trickin. Much love brotha no hate here.

 

[Snoopy Loops]

I’m free. Thank you, I took such a big L by giving out two Valentine’s Day gifts. Never again, I’m respectful but fukk it. Been playing that mode one or whatever the fukk it’s called book

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