Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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https://www.thecoli.com/threads/the-worst-day-of-my-life-was-when-my-child-was-born.826710/

:hubie: And this is why I say when a chick is showing you red flags, pay attention to that shyt because it can always culminate into stuff like this later on down the line. I can usually spot trouble a mile away due to experience and I know what its like to be with the wrong chick who could damn near drive you to the point of insanity. Luckily I never had kids with my ex so I dodged that bullet thankfully. And FFS at least stop going raw in these chicks.

It's my biggest weakness :mjcry:
 

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I’m at a point where I refuse to let others make me miserable. Slept through the entire day yesterday due to extreme migraines & woke up to multiple texts.

Her: “Helloooo”

Early this morning I responded back “ my bad was sleep throughout the day. Wassup.”

Her: So I called you yesterday and it went straight to voicemail

95: oh my phone must’ve did that but shid my bad

Her: why didn’t you pick up then?

95: stop questioning me like I’m a child shorty

Her: Why you lying? How did you see my text if you were sleep?

95: Hop off my line with this miserable insecure shyt. Go have a productive day.

Her: Big bet keep that same energy. blocked!!!

I don’t judge people & I understand people go through shyt but these women are broken :picard:

Yeah most of these chicks have severe trust/insecurity issues. My chick was like that but she's toned it down as time passed.
 

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Not for nothing if you're under the age of ...35 just stay single. The amount of fukkery going on in the dating world is crazy.

Any and every one that can cheat, is cheating :manny:
Yeah I agree with this, it's bloodsport out here :picard: If you didn't meet your high school/college sweetheart, it's best for a man to stay single until around 35, have your fun, build your career, make mistakes and learn from them. By then you should be wiser, and more of an attractive catch for a younger, good woman.
 

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https://www.thecoli.com/threads/the-worst-day-of-my-life-was-when-my-child-was-born.826710/

:hubie: And this is why I say when a chick is showing you red flags, pay attention to that shyt because it can always culminate into stuff like this later on down the line. I can usually spot trouble a mile away due to experience and I know what its like to be with the wrong chick who could damn near drive you to the point of insanity. Luckily I never had kids with my ex so I dodged that bullet thankfully. And FFS at least stop going raw in these chicks.
Yup. This is why I tell dudes to dip out of any and all relationships where the chick is already giving u grief without there being a baby in the picture. Ain’t no working things out because the cost of picking the wrong woman is too great. I read that thread and I couldn’t get myself to respond to it. That hell the dude is going thru is one I pray I never come close to experiencing.


And to those of u that can get highvalue women(women who are doctors, lawyers, etc), those are the women u impregnate cause the chances of them using U as an extra wallet are slim. They didn’t get where they are by being lazy.
 

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It's my biggest weakness :mjcry:

:ohlawd: Ain't nothing as sweet as raw wet p*ssy oh lawd.

Once the STD tests get exchanged the condoms go, every time:mjcry:

No judgement, we all been there. :manny: It does feel good though. :wow: Just be careful out there.

Yup. This is why I tell dudes to dip out of any and all relationships where the chick is already giving u grief without there being a baby in the picture. Ain’t no working things out because the cost of picking the wrong woman is too great. I read that thread and I couldn’t get myself to respond to it. That hell the dude is going thru is one I pray I never come close to experiencing.


And to those of u that can get highvalue women(women who are doctors, lawyers, etc), those are the women u impregnate cause the chances of them using U as an extra wallet are slim. They didn’t get where they are by being lazy.

True, those are the women with the most to lose who have stuff going for them. Like they say, water seeks its own level. Don't wanna end up knocking up some hoodrat and having to deal with shyt ole boy is.

With that said, lawyers and nurses tend to be the biggest freaks. :wow::banderas:
 

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that someone might as well commit that and see what dating in the after life is like :manny:






























But on a serious note, how old is this someone? :jbhmm: And what exactly is no experience? There's levels
That someone is 30 and never had a girlfriend.

Only had sex with hookers but he doesn't want to go down that route anymore.
 

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There's a level that I want to reach personally without anyone's help to be able to say I did it, for me. That's a contributing factor to why I'm single. I don't know why I just realized this today - but this is how I will answer this question going forward. Somewhere between this and I'm picky is the truth

That's exactly where I'm at and why I'm grinding so hard.

You don't want no one to say if it wasn't for them, you wouldn't have this or that. Nothing wrong with getting the necessary help when you do need it, but other than that, a man has to be fully competent and stand on his own two feet....anything else should be a bonus.
Been on my 99 HHH shyt heavy the past 2-3 years. At the point now where anybody who fukks up & isn’t immediate family is catching the bushes. Putting the capes down, No second chances, No explanations. Just get that shyt up outta here :camby:
 

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So where does someone with no experience, no luck on dating sites, and no friends meet women?

women are everywhere breh! I always say this just look at people around you, regardless of how you "look" there are people who are fatter than you, skinnier than you, uglier than you, shorter than you, poorer than you but they still found someone.

The odds are in your favor, you just need 1 woman out of all the billions to feel you.

Just have confidence! I've been in your shoes before I'm older now at 35, I remember in my early twenties it seemed hopeless sometimes, I've always been a introvert and was always extremely shy and drifted away from most of my friends when I moved. I remember even talking to a woman on the phone or getting a number felt like my odds were as good as winning the lottery. But just focused on other things in life besides women and poof things opened up.

And now I'm at 35 even in this COVID era I have a date today and tomorrow with two separate beautiful women and currently working on this radiologist.

If I can tell anything to younger man is work on yourself because especially as a black man once you get into your 30's if you have no kids out of wedlock, no marriages, crazy exes, and you have a decent job it becomes so easy!
 

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Been going strong with my asian chick 2 years off the strength advice i got from here :salute:.

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