Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

DaRealness

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She sounds high interest at least, I would've been nicer about it. She clearly likes you

I disagree. She supposedly seems high interest, so what?

Just because a chick may or may not be high interest doesn't mean you have to tolerate combativeness. When he said his phone must have diverted to VM or whatever, don't come back on some "why didn't you pick up then" and then start interrogating a dude like he's your son who came back home late. She should have just left it at that. I don't owe you no damn explanations and you ain't my boss, so just mind who you talking to here.

I don't know the extent of their relationship, but it doesn't seem like anything official that he has to put up with bullshyt like that. It's a red flag and clear warning sign for the inevitable hassle to come later, but she blocked him anyway so she did him a favor.
 

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I think I might’ve actually dikkmatized this one broad off tinder I met in August :lupe:.

I cut her off in a callous (shameful on my part tbh:snoop:) manner but she’s been checking my ig stories without fail despite unfollowing me and removing me from her followers:skip:. My girl told me she checked her story when I recently tagged her. How my girl even knows bout her is a long story:skip:

She hit me up recently asking if I’m on clubhouse, which I know she’s on.

Maybe I can finesse an invite:lupe:

The noteworthy part is that she’s actually kind of a bad bish, at least with makeup. Definitely top 3 ive smashed looks wise. It’s not some super long list but hey:yeshrug:

She’s been a sugar baby a decent number of times. She told me about this one older divorced cac that would take her on shopping sprees, expensive dinners, roadtrips. Copped a new Range that was hers while they were together:picard:. Copped her Mac book pro and the Mac desktop. Was like no wonder these girls making a regular nikka’s life miserable with the demands :ohhh:. The game is rigged:mjcry:

Granted them shyts generally fizzle out, but at least it’s a testament to what she can pull her out here:ehh:

If she put in 2 months of gym work, her ig page could be metro boomin

The only physical feature that might work against her is height cuz she’s like 5’ 10” and mostly cuz the cultural dynamics of being a tall girl.

She got a curvy figure, with huge t*ts. I feel she said something ridiculous like size G:russ:.

As an ass breh, it crosses the threshold for a black girl with ass. She actually joked about doing BBL, so she could snag an athlete:mjlol:
 
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I think I might’ve actually dikkmatized this one broad off tinder I met in August :lupe:.

I cut her off in a callous (shameful on my part tbh:snoop:) manner but she’s been checking my ig stories without fail despite unfollowing me and removing me from her followers:skip:. My girl told me she checked her story when I recently tagged her. How my girl even knows bout her is a long story:skip:

She hit me up recently asking if I’m on clubhouse, which I know she’s on.

Maybe I can finesse an invite:lupe:

The noteworthy part is that she’s actually kind of a bad bish, at least with makeup. Definitely top 3 ive smashed looks wise. It’s not some super long list but hey:yeshrug:

She’s been a sugar baby a decent number of times. She told me about this one older divorced cac that would take her on shopping sprees, expensive dinners, roadtrips. Copped a new Range that was hers while they were together:picard:. Copped her Mac book pro and the Mac desktop. Was like no wonder these girls making a regular nikka’s life miserable with the demands :ohhh:. The game is rigged:mjcry:

Granted them shyts generally fizzle out, but at least it’s a testament to what she can pull her out here:ehh:

If she put in 2 months of gym work, her ig page could be metro boomin

The only physical feature that might work against her is height cuz she’s like 5’ 10” and mostly cuz the cultural dynamics of being a tall girl.

She got a curvy figure, with huge t*ts. I feel she said something ridiculous like size G:russ:.

As an ass breh, it crosses the threshold for a black girl with ass. She actually joked about doing BBL, so she could snag an athlete:mjlol:

You know the rules breh :mjlit:
 

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I barely come in this thread anymore for two reasons.
One it’s only so much advice you can get about women.
Two I’m at a point at my life I need to focus on other aspects of my life other than women.

To all my young brehs I highly recommend this recommend this book

This guy gives a good review of Mode One

I bought this book a few years ago, and it opened my eyes on how men are taught to interact with women.
 

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Breh, at least tell the story.
It’s not that interesting.

She just seemed too willing to meet up and chill about it. Didn’t feel a vibe, even when we were talking, she was just too willing to meet up. I could tell she was trying to remain emotionally uninvested. That was strike 1.

Felt like it was more than 1 person texting me, the styles changed up too much. Strike 2 Face timed her the day of and I could tell she was getting driven around and I heard some people in the back. She told me she had her own car and this was less than a few hours before we were supposed to meet up. Strike 3

She then texts me all weirdly and shyt asking for my address. Told her I’m not sending it and for her to meet me close by in a public place just to fukk with the situation. Then I just stopped responding because I knew what it was.
 

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It’s not that interesting.

She just seemed too willing to meet up and chill about it. Didn’t feel a vibe, even when we were talking, she was just too willing to meet up. I could tell she was trying to remain emotionally uninvested. That was strike 1.

Felt like it was more than 1 person texting me, the styles changed up too much. Strike 2 Face timed her the day of and I could tell she was getting driven around and I heard some people in the back. She told me she had her own car and this was less than a few hours before we were supposed to meet up. Strike 3

She then texts me all weirdly and shyt asking for my address. Told her I’m not sending it and for her to meet me close by in a public place just to fukk with the situation. Then I just stopped responding because I knew what it was.

Always trust your gut. Good thing you didn’t end up meeting up with her .
 

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It’s not that interesting.

She just seemed too willing to meet up and chill about it. Didn’t feel a vibe, even when we were talking, she was just too willing to meet up. I could tell she was trying to remain emotionally uninvested. That was strike 1.

Felt like it was more than 1 person texting me, the styles changed up too much. Strike 2 Face timed her the day of and I could tell she was getting driven around and I heard some people in the back. She told me she had her own car and this was less than a few hours before we were supposed to meet up. Strike 3

She then texts me all weirdly and shyt asking for my address. Told her I’m not sending it and for her to meet me close by in a public place just to fukk with the situation. Then I just stopped responding because I knew what it was.

Reminds me of that scene in The Wire with Marlo when he smelled a rat after that chick seemed way too eager to meet up again so soon.

Whenever something feels off I immediately head for the hills.
 

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It’s not that interesting.

She just seemed too willing to meet up and chill about it. Didn’t feel a vibe, even when we were talking, she was just too willing to meet up. I could tell she was trying to remain emotionally uninvested. That was strike 1.

Felt like it was more than 1 person texting me, the styles changed up too much. Strike 2 Face timed her the day of and I could tell she was getting driven around and I heard some people in the back. She told me she had her own car and this was less than a few hours before we were supposed to meet up. Strike 3

She then texts me all weirdly and shyt asking for my address. Told her I’m not sending it and for her to meet me close by in a public place just to fukk with the situation. Then I just stopped responding because I knew what it was.
had something similar happen to me a year or so ago off hinge.

We match. She immediately says "what's your number so we can communicate better"

Texts me pictures off the bat. Tries to FaceTime and call multiple times. We never spoke on the phone cause I never picked up. Asks me if I'm no longer via text interested yada yada. shyt was weird.

Seemed way too thirsty and eager to push shyt for a chic I'd give 8/10.

I know if I'd have entertained it even a little she would've asked for the addy.

But it's not till I'm reading yours now that I'm putting two and two together. I was just turned off by the over eagerness and I was juggling other broads. I can see how a thirsty dry dikk nikka could get caught up in some shyt like this.

Def a set up.
 

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https://www.thecoli.com/threads/the-worst-day-of-my-life-was-when-my-child-was-born.826710/

:hubie: And this is why I say when a chick is showing you red flags, pay attention to that shyt because it can always culminate into stuff like this later on down the line. I can usually spot trouble a mile away due to experience and I know what its like to be with the wrong chick who could damn near drive you to the point of insanity. Luckily I never had kids with my ex so I dodged that bullet thankfully. And FFS at least stop going raw in these chicks.
 
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