Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I’m at a point where I refuse to let others make me miserable. Slept through the entire day yesterday due to extreme migraines & woke up to multiple texts.

Her: “Helloooo”

Early this morning I responded back “ my bad was sleep throughout the day. Wassup.”

Her: So I called you yesterday and it went straight to voicemail

95: oh my phone must’ve did that but shid my bad

Her: why didn’t you pick up then?

95: stop questioning me like I’m a child shorty

Her: Why you lying? How did you see my text if you were sleep?

95: Hop off my line with this miserable insecure shyt. Go have a productive day.

Her: Big bet keep that same energy. blocked!!!

I don’t judge people & I understand people go through shyt but these women are broken :picard:
 

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This chick that I stopped talking to because I wasn’t willing to jump into a relationship with her because of her celibacy, hit me yesterday asking what I thought about trying things out again.

I asked had her position changed on celibacy? And she said she’s leaning to shift on that policy but she doesn’t know how she’ll handle it.

I told her since she’s not sure about her position, we should just remain cool, I don’t want to pressure one way or another. If celibacy is what you stand on, stand on it and find someone who is fine with that, but that’s not going to be me, and I’m not going to jump in some shyt with you hoping that something more can happen between us :manny:
 

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I’m at a point where I refuse to let others make me miserable. Slept through the entire day yesterday due to extreme migraines & woke up to multiple texts.

Her: “Helloooo”

Early this morning I responded back “ my bad was sleep throughout the day. Wassup.”

Her: So I called you yesterday and it went straight to voicemail

95: oh my phone must’ve did that but shid my bad

Her: why didn’t you pick up then?

95: stop questioning me like I’m a child shorty

Her: Why you lying? How did you see my text if you were sleep?

95: Hop off my line with this miserable insecure shyt. Go have a productive day.

Her: Big bet keep that same energy. blocked!!!

I don’t judge people & I understand people go through shyt but these women are broken :picard:

She sounds high interest at least, I would've been nicer about it. She clearly likes you
 

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I highly recommend y'all watch the HBO show Insecure. It's pretty good on it's own but it also gives you a lot of insight into how a lot of these women think and operate (as well as us men and the stumbling blocks).
Also pay attention to how real life women react to how the story progresses.

Long story short, the main character is a chick who cheats on her nikka because he's a 'bum' and women in real life justify her behavior & her choice to never tell him :francis:

Watch out nikkas:francis:
 

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There's a level that I want to reach personally without anyone's help to be able to say I did it, for me. That's a contributing factor to why I'm single. I don't know why I just realized this today - but this is how I will answer this question going forward. Somewhere between this and I'm picky is the truth
 

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I was talking to this chick for a few months we hanged out and all that numerous times a week. Anyways my sixth sense picked up things were changing as when I would message like hours and hours later she would reply so I just stopped haven't heard anything from her since. Back in the day I'd be wondering simp ish like did she die? maybe she's going through a rough patch in her life and ish, should I text or call and see what's wrong? :picard: I thank God for that sixth sense I've developed over the years to read the signs pack my bag and depart.

nyways meeting up with this beautiful black dutch girl on saturday and then this congolese girl on sunday even though we are on in lockdown :heh:
 

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Also pay attention to how real life women react to how the story progresses.

Long story short, the main character is a chick who cheats on her nikka because he's a 'bum' and women in real life justify her behavior & her choice to never tell him :francis:

Watch out nikkas:francis:

eh but her man had his revenge :mjlit:
 

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At college and was asking two female friends if I should pursue a girl we all work with. No emotional connection to her and just want to fukk :yeshrug:

Brehs, they proceeded to ether and shame the fukk out of me :mjcry:

“You aint built like that”
“ Are you desperate :scust:
“You don’t know how to text girls:hhh:
“Why are you so bad with girls:picard:

I thought I was doing ok so I brought up that I had spoken to a few girls in the year and one of them make it clear I didnt even make it to first base with them and they were prolly fukking other nikkas so it don’t count :francis:


I thought this was it until one of their BFs came and it turns out it’s his best friends sister :skip:

I know this nikka aint gonna keep his mouth shut either :martin:

Does anyone read their old posts in here :russ:





I fukked that girl too :mjlit:
 

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There's a level that I want to reach personally without anyone's help to be able to say I did it, for me. That's a contributing factor to why I'm single. I don't know why I just realized this today - but this is how I will answer this question going forward. Somewhere between this and I'm picky is the truth

That's exactly where I'm at and why I'm grinding so hard.

You don't want no one to say if it wasn't for them, you wouldn't have this or that. Nothing wrong with getting the necessary help when you do need it, but other than that, a man has to be fully competent and stand on his own two feet....anything else should be a bonus.
 
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