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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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She needs one on one also. You cant play shrink because God forbid something happens you are going to feel like it may be your fault
stop trying to help women we've all been there, oh i was molested, raped, abused etc. in the end you just bring unnecessary and added stress to your life. There is a reason people go to school and get paid big dollars to help and counsel those who have gone through those stuff in life, stop being the shoulder to cry on or the emotional tampon. If you talking to a girl and she tore her achilles you ain't going to try and repair it right? You're not a surgeon, the same you shouldn't be trying to repair these broken women.
As the breh @Lumumba said let them go work out their issues with a professional.
As the breh @Lumumba said let them go work out their issues with a professional.
be careful of women of manipulating ways... they tend to pull on the heartstrings of men for sympathy, attention, and downright validation.
I wouldn't say anything or be mindful of what she says. I wouldn't even check up on her. Let her do the pursuing. She damaged goods to be honest if she going through all of that.
Be warned of handling roses with poisonous thorns.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
I been stopped caring what women are saying. Heal and work on yourself and get the necessary professional help, or shut the fukk up.
I've come a long way and I'm still a work in progress. I had a VERY rough 2020 like a lot of people and even then some family were still on some petty shyt at a time where you'd think we would stick together. I had to fight through it, all the while studying, working and doing whatever to get myself through. I didn't moan and complain or cry on anyone's shoulder and if I tried who would have gave a fukk at a time like this?
Some of these chicks bring a lot of their problems on themselves. I ain't trying to be Mr Nice Guy Counselor. Been there, done that only to feel embarassed and played when I realised I was just being used. It will be a cold day in hell before that happens again. I'm not Montel.
Women will cry tears with all kinds of sob stories, then be posting an hour later on social media cheesing. I've seen this happen. If you have a roof over your head and you're relatively healthy, I don't wanna hear shyt.
Just like how I've had to drag myself through the mud and self improve, any chick I deal with would have had to work on herself too. I don't fukk with broken chicks who ain't even trying to be fixed.
Don't be anyone's fool.
I've come a long way and I'm still a work in progress. I had a VERY rough 2020 like a lot of people and even then some family were still on some petty shyt at a time where you'd think we would stick together. I had to fight through it, all the while studying, working and doing whatever to get myself through. I didn't moan and complain or cry on anyone's shoulder and if I tried who would have gave a fukk at a time like this?
Some of these chicks bring a lot of their problems on themselves. I ain't trying to be Mr Nice Guy Counselor. Been there, done that only to feel embarassed and played when I realised I was just being used. It will be a cold day in hell before that happens again. I'm not Montel.
Women will cry tears with all kinds of sob stories, then be posting an hour later on social media cheesing. I've seen this happen. If you have a roof over your head and you're relatively healthy, I don't wanna hear shyt.
Just like how I've had to drag myself through the mud and self improve, any chick I deal with would have had to work on herself too. I don't fukk with broken chicks who ain't even trying to be fixed.
Don't be anyone's fool.
Everyone got a sob story.
Ive literally seen brains blow out in front of me growing up in Chicago. Your demons are YOUR demons, and besides. A woman who is wholesome and feminine enough to give you equal attention for your woes already cuffed or in the process of...leave these broken doves flying in the wind where they belong.
Or tell her to get a therapist. Im not cold hearted or nun but I def have the hmmmm okay yup responses now. I offer no input
they just want to be heard 90% of the time
Ive literally seen brains blow out in front of me growing up in Chicago. Your demons are YOUR demons, and besides. A woman who is wholesome and feminine enough to give you equal attention for your woes already cuffed or in the process of...leave these broken doves flying in the wind where they belong.
Or tell her to get a therapist. Im not cold hearted or nun but I def have the hmmmm okay yup responses now. I offer no input
they just want to be heard 90% of the time
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
My biggest obstacle is porn.
shyt so easy just to pop out that laptop
takes out the beast in you
I need that discipline
shyt so easy just to pop out that laptop
takes out the beast in you
I need that discipline
find things to keep you busy/occupied. Usually idle time is what leads you to that stuff. Nothing wrong with it but its easy to go over the deep end with no discipline. Maybe dont quit cold turkey, but set aside specific days for "me time", and slowly decrease those days over time.
Yea i just turned 35 on Sunday and everything is so much clearer and easier than when i was in my early 20s. It's what ol buddy said about gaining experience. Hell i'd take it a step further:
At some point the investment you've been putting in yourself and your experience in dealing with life both reach a certain maturation where it all just clicks and ultra instinct is unlocked. You become more cognitive and efficient in leveling up and in eliminating any wastage (toxic ppl and bullshyt) that would slow you down.
You'll be out here like
At some point the investment you've been putting in yourself and your experience in dealing with life both reach a certain maturation where it all just clicks and ultra instinct is unlocked. You become more cognitive and efficient in leveling up and in eliminating any wastage (toxic ppl and bullshyt) that would slow you down.
You'll be out here like
Iceson Beckford
Rich In Spirit.
Uno Venova
Your honor, I was merely capping.
There's a clubhouse room where nikkas voluntarily cashapp stranger women money so they can get dinner or brunchStay safe out here brehs
Simp nikkas will never let us free
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
There's a clubhouse room where nikkas voluntarily cashapp stranger women money so they can get dinner or brunch
Simp nikkas will never let us free
