Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How do I let a girl know I'm interested in her sexually if compliments are "off limits"? Flirting and compliments kinda go hand in hand and I'm having a hard time trying to flirt without saying anything nice
 

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Sometimes I really don't know if some you guys are trolling or not in this thread with the woe is me stories.

That's why I just ignore some posters cause I don't want to come off insensitive just incase they are being for real :hubie:
 

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Her rent and car note gone be paid come December.
Yeah but not by me. I'm well aware of her situation but one thing I don't do is people sitting on their hands and letting sh1t get out of hand. Maybe it's me not understanding women but she could do Uber, Amazon, and deliver some food to get sh1t back on track.

She didn't specifically ask but she was crying and sh1t. I even asked how much the car note was before I posted in here and she wouldn't tell me. She just kept saying she wouldn't have it and when I got quiet on her, she just kept saying hello. I was going to atleast take care of the car note but the sh1t came off childish, so I'm like fukk it.
 
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How do I let a girl know I'm interested in her sexually if compliments are "off limits"? Flirting and compliments kinda go hand in hand and I'm having a hard time trying to flirt without saying anything nice

That's an uphill struggle. If a woman is not open to that it's hard to get her in that mindset to get the convo to turn flirty or sexual.

I was talking to a chick on sunday. Before then it was the usual how was your week style convos then she asked me what I was cooking that weekend and I started on the double entendres. Any chick whose on it will know what your getting at and reply in kind.

Whole convo switched up then and there.

:mjlit:
 
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I was fw this chick heavy and I recently caught her in a lie. Instead of just owning up and admitting to it she tried to juelz, spin that shyt and claim that I've been the one whose lying :gucci:

I've wasted time and money on this chick but I'mma have to cut her off cuz now I don't trust her anymore
 

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I was fw this chick heavy and I recently caught her in a lie. Instead of just owning up and admitting to it she tried to juelz, spin that shyt and claim that I've been the one whose lying :gucci:

I've wasted time and money on this chick but I'mma have to cut her off cuz now I don't trust her anymore
Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan


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She's broke and crying... I wanna pay her rent and her car note for December, I know I'm simping but I HATE women crying on me.... What would you guys do?

So you know your simping and still want to?
Yeah but not by me. I'm well aware of her situation but one thing I don't do is people sitting on their hands and letting sh1t get out of hand. Maybe it's me not understanding women but she could do Uber, Amazon, and deliver some food to get sh1t back on track.

She didn't specifically ask but she was crying and sh1t. I even asked how much the car note was before I posted in here and she wouldn't tell me. She just kept saying she wouldn't have it and when I got quiet on her, she just kept saying hello. I was going to atleast take care of the car note but the sh1t came off childish, so I'm like fukk it.


What I've learned in life especially as a former big simp

It's just a Rolodex women go through

And she won't ask everyone , she will ask the soft nice guys in her phoneb

So if you say no, the next nukka in her phone will prob say yes if he says no then next

Stop falling for sob stories and the like


It's like when a chick asks you for a ride and you say no. You check her Instagram the next day and she still made it to the club or wherever she was suppose to go to..

Chicks will find a way
 

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@TradePascalSiakam @VertigoKnight not sure if either of ya’ll peeped this...but the sisters on hinge in toronto...:gucci:

2 mins ago i came across a sister sayin her family is from iceland under her “a fact that surprises people” :mjtf:

yea she could’ve been adopted...but i didn’t get that vibe :usure:

A ratchet chick sayin her favourite thing to do is listen to country music :mjtf:

The countless :mjpls: types

I kid you not, a sizeable chunk of sisters who i’ve come across made it a point to include photos of them with white women or white men or them doing typically white people activities :heh: :snoop:
 

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@TradePascalSiakam @VertigoKnight not sure if either of ya’ll peeped this...but the sisters on hinge in toronto...:gucci:

2 mins ago i came across a sister sayin her family is from iceland under her “a fact that surprises people” :mjtf:

yea she could’ve been adopted...but i didn’t get that vibe :usure:

A ratchet chick sayin her favourite thing to do is listen to country music :mjtf:

The countless :mjpls: types

I kid you not, a sizeable chunk of sisters who i’ve come across made it a point to include photos of them with white women or white men or them doing typically white people activities :heh: :snoop:


Toronto is bedwench capital
I've actually opened up my preference on hinge to South Asian As well.
 

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@TradePascalSiakam @VertigoKnight not sure if either of ya’ll peeped this...but the sisters on hinge in toronto...:gucci:

2 mins ago i came across a sister sayin her family is from iceland under her “a fact that surprises people” :mjtf:

yea she could’ve been adopted...but i didn’t get that vibe :usure:

A ratchet chick sayin her favourite thing to do is listen to country music :mjtf:

The countless :mjpls: types

I kid you not, a sizeable chunk of sisters who i’ve come across made it a point to include photos of them with white women or white men or them doing typically white people activities :heh: :snoop:
We live in the most diverse city in the world if the black girls here ain't working for you then expand your palet
 
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